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The only extra thing I do add to my hygiene routine before a play date is using an enema.

All of swinging should be about the girls, as a guy I'm just happy to go along for the ride!

I wasn't trying to affix blame, but once they both agreed that they were going to try swinging, only he could have said that he was having difficulties with it...she didn't have any idea and thought things were just fine. One of our permanent rules is that if either one of us says no to anything, then we are both united in saying no with no questions necessary and no explanation required. If he would have said that he was wanting to stop (or even slow down) then this could have been avoided. Nobody is at fault, but if there is a lack of communication, then problems can easily develop.

Looks as if you are going fast once you met your first. I say Good 4 You. That you finding others that you can enjoy as friends is the best part of your meetings. “most sex day of your life” makes me wonder how much sex was that? I would never call our meetings as a gangbang yet Lin has had times she ended up with soreness from too much fun.

He doesn't mind, most of the time he is just happy to participate, besides, DP is all about us, the girls, boys just need to accommodate,

I have had delightful DP experiences (Vaginal/Anal) but never tried DVP. Also, lately, I have become, or we have become (depending if my husband is participating or not), very good at guiding partners through the logistics of the positions, being the most enjoyable for me the classic doggy style where the guy in my ass manages the rhythm and can archive deep penetration.

Looking back on some of the comments it seems we are getting abit of heat on the situation, first off though after speaking on this building to it and doing it it puts a little downer that people think it’s just fake or been deceitful! Wow thanks for that one! this was a experience like nothing we had ever had before it was very nervous one and also amazing one, also the choice for us to play bareback is ours, I get there’s a risk factor to it but so does everything in life so on this experience yes my wife had hot sex with a stranger and yes it ended up bareback as all involved were willing and happy to do so

So it’s been a couple of months since last spoke on here, after more talking about it with my wife and getting over the Christmas period etc we have planned a night away next month, chose a location away from our home town and then on the hope of letting the fantasies come out. a club, bar no preference really as aslong as it’s hot dirty sex back at our hotel or a club. My wife has said she would use a condom but really wants it without so maybe half way through if the guy was also willing and she still wanted to to remove it and Fuck the rest of the session bareback so it will finally happen and it’s going be hot

Choose someone that you trust who she doesn't know. The thrill with some safety. Hey, we all have our kinks, swinging can satisfy them. There is a man and a woman in our group who are into BDSM stuff and their spouses definitely are not, and won't even watch. They are a perfect match for that kink and find satisfaction in each other, then - back to their spouses.

So an update on the subject, I had a conversation with my wife about this to gauge how she felt, she did admit it’s something she would like to do I asked about the how’s and when’s etc.. she says that what she says in her fantasies is how she would a actually do it so a stranger and if I also would allow it she would like it with no condom so she can enjoy the experience raw, again I’m open to this no problem even bareback. we will just now have to look at setting up properly when we can.

And in my long life, I have found that many times, fantasy is better than reality.

Wife86, I'm sorry the night turned out so poorly. There are potential explanations for your husband's reaction, but it's hard to know what's going on without being able to speak with him. You're facing the same hurdle of course. Wild guesses; your husband didn't expect you to have as good of a time as you did. He might feel like he's lost something with you, and doesn't feel like he can ever please you again the way you were. There might be some deep seated jealousy exposed within himself that even he didn't know about beforehand. It might be that now that he's seen you having sex with someone else, he can't unsee it..and it keeps flashing back in his mind, like a small form of PTSD. I would strongly consider counseling to help work through this. He might not want to go, but at least have him go with you. This has to be talked out. It might take time, even a lot of time, but patience is key. For some people, swinging is just something that can not work. That's ok. It doesn't make him broken, or somehow less. Get back to being just the two of you, and stay with that. That doesn't mean we don't welcome you here to talk with us! Please do. If you have questions, we'll try our best to answer and help you through.

And still some of you blame him…unbelievable!!