We have a huge list of games, challenges and themes. Some kinda vanilla, some provocative, some leaving your sexual imagination go to work and some that spice up a group play/Sex situation.
The trick is matching something up to those that are attending.
Always best to dial back one step based off the experience or lack there of the newest/least experienced couple (or assume so if all are newly meeting each other).
Also it is tough to know everyone’s inhibitions, rules and hard stops.
Three of our best soft-core:
Preferences red light/green light…couples. (Get to know you game) Couples stay as couples. You create a list of questions from how long together, likes dislikes experiences as a couple (sexually provocative) interests and allowances as a couple in various swinger/sexual activities. The couples can briefly confer with each other secretly/quietly. They answer as a couple, green light (yes/interested) or Red light (no/not at this time). Questions should start out simple more vanilla and become more explicit but not to hardcore, ie as a couple first kiss, first Sex first oral etc. What they might share…kissing, touching, soft, full swap, oral etc. should build up….and keep it on the short side after some socializing. 30 minutesish
Big Balls Crochet race. Husband against wife race. (Can do this as couples or individual)
need a few pair of panty hose, 4-6 oranges or two grapefruit. Two whiffle balls (size of a baseball/softball) A area set up inside with a wide enough area for two people to pass and should have a path through furniture obstacles and corners to navigate. Clothed couples (later is a blast nude if everyone is good with it) place two oranges (or one grapefruit) in the toe of one leg of the hose. Use the other leg to tie around the waste of each couple with the fruit loaded toe centered front of waist. Be sure stretched hose and fruit are suspended an inch or so above the floor. Couples, husband and wife compete against each other, winners then compete against each other (not spouses). At start line swinging and swaying from the hips you direct the whiffle ball down the coarse by hitting it with the swinging oranges/grapefruit. Mark whiffle balls husband and wife so each has their own. Great fun loads of laughs.
Version of the Newlywed game. Starting with basic questions to more provocative. Usually couples will out themselves or each other.
hope this helps
have fun, keep it lite.