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We are having so much fun with new people we met only because we took the jump. I told a friend about this game and she said she was going to the store to buy the screws and nuts for another party with six couples. After some swimming, barbecue and drinking they announced the game and took out two bags of the fasteners. They were laughing as the guys chose their screws and we picked nuts. It’s fun picking guys nuts. Then the fun began matching who was screwing who this with a catch. They set it that one screw can fit two nuts sometimes, or two screws fit one nut. This set up four groups of three. By chance one guy had a screw that fit mine and another female friend. Each group was given an hour to play before we all stopped for laughs together. All the fasteners returned to the bags for a second round where I ended with my husband and an another guy. Thank you AdamGunn for the suggestion and our friend that added a twist. I report that it was successful and so much fun.

The above was my suggestion early in this thread, and it was shot down for good, understandable reasons. But with so many posters focusing on whether she should continue playing, I again suggest that perhaps she should consider turning it around and having him play while she doesn't. He would ultimately understand the pleasure and fulfillment of letting one's partner be sexually free. To me, being in the lifestyle, whichever way a couple gets there, is important to a high level of happiness. Knowing what I know now, if I were back at the beginning of my relationships, I would do whatever it would take for us to get there. Please test my theory again.

Three things get us to play with a couple: fitness, personality, and their philosophy about swinging. The last criterion is what got us to form our closed group of married couples. The major thing was the desire to play bareback, but also being comfortable with alone play, which seems to happen more and more, particularly just to get in more playing.

Lets do it again, If you are referring to my and GoldCoCouples responses, I do not think either of us are suggesting that she keep swinging. To be clear, at least for me, Mistakes were made that happened partially from inexperience and partially from lack of communication. Not the least of the communication lack was that He was suppressing a demon, that had she known , could have been dealt with. Maybe it was suppressed enough that he thought it was not an issue. Odd thing is though, small stuff that is unresolved can and does pop up in this LifeStyle. At any rate MISTAKES were made. The cost is apparently quite dear. The only recourse is to try and limit the damage. The first step is not to do anything precipitous , like closing off any possibility of reconciliation. The second is to go on with life as if there is no future for the two of them. For the foreseeable future I do not see swinging as a rational course to take.

An even racier one happened years ago for us. We were at a house party when the topic of different shaped penises came up, pun intended. I said I could pick out Mike’s blindfolded without a problem. Five penises volunteered for my test while I was blindfolded each man stood in front of me. How could I not know my husbands dick or balls? I knew at first touch which was Michael but we all had fun when I said I needed to check orally. More a fun time, less a game.

There's always the nuts and bolts game. Go to a hardware store (or perhaps that jar in your dad's workroom) and get matching nuts and bolts for everyone. Then at the arranged time, have every woman pick out a nut, and every man pick out a bolt. Then everybody mingles until all the nuts and bolts are matched up. This isn't a race - there's no prize for being first. It just gives people a chance to mingle with the other sex.

8-10 couples=16-20 people. Ask them in advance to think of two facts and a lie (or two lies and a fact) about themselves. Once everyone arrives, have each in turn announce their names and recite the three items in any order they choose. for example, "My name is John" 1. I lost my virginity to a MILF. 2. My first trip to a nude beach was with my parents 3. My sister and her husband are also swingers "My name is Sally" 1. I worked as a nude model to help pay for college 2. I met my husband at the high school senior prom 3. I'm a beta tester for Liberator.com, the sex furniture company. Give each couple a writing instrument and something to write on. They'll decide who they want to learn more about.

Yup. Same here.

Looks as if you are going fast once you met your first. I say Good 4 You. That you finding others that you can enjoy as friends is the best part of your meetings. “most sex day of your life” makes me wonder how much sex was that? I would never call our meetings as a gangbang yet Lin has had times she ended up with soreness from too much fun.

it really does depend on the family, really it goes with out saying. many consider the act of swinging itself a taboo experience. we have been coxed into a mother daughter combo experience by some friends. it worked out just fine and no ones brain exploded. well maybe mine,lol the way our friends talked the mother daughter together with a guy is the greatest thing and many do it. who knew