f 28 married 5 years. You might find it odd but I found out my husband does not like having a blowjob. I never thought that guys did not like having a blowjob. All the guys I dated loved it. When we were dating he never mentioned he did not like having his cock sucked. I found out about a year after we married.
The problem is that I love sucking a cock,it is part of great sex. So I stopped giving blowjobs but now I keep thinking about it all the time specially when a guy flirts with me. Once in a while when I go out with friends and some guy come over and start flirting I will go with him in his car and suck him. It is a big turn-on for me. It happened a few times.
I talked about it with my husband how important it is for me and he said sometimes find some guys he does not know and satisfy yourselves. Once I went in an all inclusive resort for a vacation with a girl from work ( he could not come because of work ) and it did not take long before we had a couple of guys come over at the bar and we spent all of our vacation with them, making out etc. I must say it was great.
I don't know what to do, making love without blowjob does not satisfy me and finding some guy to suck seems bizarre.
I just wanted to share this even if I am not a swinger. Reading part of your forum did turn me on quite a bit.