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Thank you for giving us the easiest way to get tested discretely by using an Urgent Care. I don’t have to explain why I want to be tested or tell as much as I want. My husband can’t wait to go and be graphically descriptive of our swinging to any person who is going to check us in hoping to get a female doctor to check us. It’s crazy I am more afraid of a doctor examination, less about having sex with strangers we just met. My husband jokes about my fear yet he also isn’t running to his doctor.

Part of adolescence for me it was a routine vaccination before I went to college. Thinking about it now my mom was more enlightened about life and sexuality.

We consider DP when I am fucked by two cocks either one in my pussy and one in my backside, or two in my pussy, or two in my backside. The first is what I love. I have never been able to do the later two and see no benefit to anyone unless we were getting paid a ton of money to do it. As for spit roasting, - heck yeah it it amazing but it is not DP. Now DP with a cock in my mouth for a third is quite fabulous as well, especially for my husband watching. He says it is a great visual proof of my love for all things cock. I agree.

The last week of August, Shannon texted David and me saying that she and Joe are visiting relatives in a nearby town and asking if we were going to be at home and free over the Labor Day weekend. Lunch, dinner maybe. I was taken aback and hesitant. David replied, “Sure, we’re free, that’ll be great.” After more back-and-forth David and I found that they would be arriving late on Friday and have a rental car, so they wanted to get together first thing Saturday. Meanwhile, I kept texting Shannon separately and had a few calls with her. In among all the social talk, we got talking about sex. Eventually, I adjusted my approach from what I proposed before, me fucking Joe or us having a threesome. Rather than asking Shannon if she wanted to make out with me, I instead asked if she would do me a favor and touch me again. I asked not if she would mind, but if Joe would object. She surprised me by saying with some enthusiasm that Joe would like her and me to do that. She quickly clarified that he would like to see us do that. OK, the question is how far would Shannon go with me? I was happy to get that far and left it open from there. Saturday Long story short, David and I met Shannon and Joe at their hotel Saturday morning and visited a few places in town around their hotel. We eventually went to their hotel for lunch, then they invited us back to their room to browse some things on the internet and talk about our plans for later. David surprisingly and suddenly looked at his phone and said that he had to go into the office to take care of things. Something he rarely had to do, at least never in the office on a weekend. But I didn’t question it. He apologized and asked if it was ok if he came back in a few hours to the hotel. OK. He said that he would call when he was leaving the office. Later I found out that it was a set up between him and Shannon. Long foreplay story short, Shannon ended up naked on her back, I was in just my t-shirt braless on all fours licking her pussy, sending her into orbit and Joe was playing with himself. While she was in an out-of-her-mind state, I asked Shannon if Joe could put it in me. She squeaked “Yes,” and I ordered him to get over here. Now I was feeling the dick I had anticipated for so long. He came pretty quickly, but I was just as quick. His ejaculation was fantastic for me. Shannon snapped out of her ecstasy when Joe and I simultaneously started our cris d'amour. Afterwards Shannon wasn’t shy about going down on my sloppy pussy to give me another O. I was also happy that both Joe and Shannon found me to their liking. After our two hours or so of fun, I had Shannon call David and asked him when he was coming back to the hotel. I thought I was being clever having Shannon call him. But David is more clever (cleverer?) and more thoughtful; he had managed to get the hotel to reserve us an adjoining room next to Joe and Shannon’s shortly after they made their reservation - just in case things moved in a direction where we needed it. He checked in on the way back and David and I went next door into our room to shower before going out again. It was a tense late afternoon and light dinner. Not that anything was wrong, but it was a sexually charged atmosphere. David quietly but clearly sent me the message that knew exactly what had happened, had expected it. He also left the door between the rooms ajar as a signal that there was an intimacy between us couples, and negative proof that he wasn’t doing anything with me, the potential was being saved for later. It was clear to me that Shannon was interested in David. And no one had to tell David that. As we left the hotel and began to walk down the block David took Shannon’s hand. I grabbed Joe’s hand. Shannon had previously told me at one point during our text and email exchanges that Joe, knowing only a small part of her past but knowing that it is still much greater than his, likes saying that she was a slut when they’re in foreplay and having sex. He stresses it and says it repeatedly and asks her for stories about her past. It disturbed her at first but it she says it’s all ok, it makes him closer and more loving than ever, even after the sex is over. When we got back to the hotel we went to our rooms and had sex. Pretty wild, but nothing that hasn’t been discussed here before. David and I expected that we would separate into the two rooms, but Joe insisted on us all staying in their room because it had two queen beds instead of one king. He wanted to see his wife having sex with another man, something he said that he had never seen before and expected only to ever see in his fantasies about Shannon’s past. But here David was, with all his pent-up energy, doing a good job on Shannon. David is much more in tune with what was going on in Joe’s mind and how to play it. He knew that what Joe thought wasn’t that Shannon is a slut, it’s that she was a slut and he is the one who was so good for her that she gave up whoring around for him. He prides himself on having an oversexed woman who he has tamed and married. Her past is a point of pride for him. She previously told me that she fucked a lot of different guys and did all these different things (MFM and FFM threesomes, anal, couples swaps) before and yet she is satisfied, happy with Joe. For Joe, it is part of her great personality, but he is so proud that she gave it up for him. David flattered him by saying that he wished that I could have been as sexually adventuresome as Shannon was, that I had only fucked one other guy when we met. David told Joe that Joe married the town slut, but now she is his. Joe really liked that. I suppose that this shouldn’t be so surprising, there are people here, mostly guys, who say that they don’t mind that their wife sluts around (with a boyfriend, at the club, at a party) because, especially because, she is going home with him tonight. The husband getting the final conquest, and all is well. In a moment of calm, nonsexual honesty I asked Joe if he was ok, if it disturbed him knowing and seeing Shannon having sex with David (or me). He seemed good, more than good – pleased, with Shannon’s past but only because it was in the past. He confirmed that talking about her past in the abstract was exciting, something he loved about her, but seeing the reality of her having sex with another guy was painful. “But that seems to be the price of admission,” he said. I was left wondering but didn’t push him on it. “It’s wonderful afterwards though,” he said. Shannon confessed that they weren’t in town to visit relatives. They contacted us and specifically came to visit our place in the world to see if we said we wanted to meet up. They had reserved the entire weekend for time with us, whatever it may be, and had a flight home on Monday afternoon. What led to this trip was Shannon “confronting” Joe about me and asking him if he would fuck if me if she could arrange it. (She already had the signal from me at our last meeting that she could.) What I didn’t know was that she and David were talking behind my back to set this up. Sunday The big day came and we took Joe and Shannon back to our house to meet the rest of our family: Red, Clair, Lora, and our multitude of children. The introductions were very smooth and cordial. The only awkward part for me was when Clair and Lora both said to Joe and Shannon how much I had said about them, but Joe and Shannon were untroubled by me having talked about them. Shannon said I hadn’t said anything about Clair, Lora, Red, or all these kids to her. They were curious about the provenance of the kids and we proudly pointed out the biological parentage of each (Lora said “I’m the mother of the brown ones.”). To say they were amazed with the whole situation would be an understatement. Especially with the huge house, guesthouse and all the children. We told them that none of it (the house, the number of children) is as impressive as it seems if you divide it up among us five adults. David has arranged with Becky and Frank to take our children for the day. We had also arranged for two of the regular young women we use as babysitters to accompany them to help out. It worked out great and we really appreciated it. Needless to say, we all played. The interesting thing for me was that the pairings that seemed to grab hold the most were Joe and Lora, and Shannon and Red. David, my husband, and I played together with Clair and laughed that the couple he had set up for me to have sex with had found other sexual interests. 😊 To Joe, it became not that Shannon just was a slut, but is one, fucking both David and now Red. David and Red now will call Shannon a whore in front of Joe, while the other is fucking her, or both are. Even when Joe is making love to Shannon, his wife. I was worried that this was going too far, but Joe smiled. Both Red and David know how to make him feel good about his wife, portraying her as a sophisticated, super sexually charged woman that he was lucky to get to be his wife. Tamed but not domesticated. After all this, I was afraid what the aftermath might be. But we met at dinner and everyone was happy. It was almost odd that we talked about everything except sex. But it also seemed so natural that it was no problem. One last thing to report: we had breakfast with Shannon and Joe at the hotel Monday (Labor Day) morning for breakfast before they had to go to the airport. Unlike our other get togethers outside the bedroom, this time we did talk about sex and it was mutually decided that David and Shannon would go back to the room for a quick one. Joe and I agreed that it was wonderful sitting here together, him fingering my pussy and reaching for my braless tits, knowing what our spouses were doing. The psychological aspects of what happened excite me as much as the sex, mostly because that’s what I keep thinking about. 1) My husband David went behind my back with another woman(!) to really move along the opportunity for us to play with them. Plus getting the adjoining hotel room and arranging babysitting. 2) Red and Shannon really hit it off, sexually and otherwise, something that I did not expect, they’re so different. Same with Joe and Lora. 3) The fact that Joe has such a fetish about Shannon being called a slut. And that David picked up on the subtle clues early on and had the right instincts on which direction and how far to push it. Joe gets so worked up having Red and David say so and hearing her tell stories about a past that he didn’t know that she had. He went from slut-fear to slut-pride in a very short time. Anyway, overall an amazing weekend.

Asking why it took so long to startBJ is a good question. When Amy and I made love it was a no frills affair. That was her wish and I respected it. No oral, just plain penetration. We began swinging, Amy realized that frills were part of the thrill. She let her lover teach her what she previously had not wanted to learn. Gradually she is doing the fun parts of lovemaking,king. Swinging has been a great experience.

My orgasms from DP are what makes it worth the effort! Nasa has nothing on those orgasms!

Oh YES! I have become more and more fascinated by them for many reasons.

An arrangement that clearly suits all of you....

For me being a teenager in the 70's, it was easier to get intercourse from a woman than a blowjob. You could get blowjobs from some girls but not all. Now getting a blowjob is like getting a good night kiss!

I know that I am a broken and depressing record, but OP please get HPV vaccines if you have not already. HPV can lead to cervical and other cancers and it is very common. Men cannot be tested for HPV, unless they get genital warts. That means they are positive. HSV 1 and 2 are common, well known as herpes, the gift that keeps giving. No cure, can be suppressed with antivirals. I am sad to report that condoms are fairly ineffective against these infections. But they can help a little.

EO, if you dig deeply enough through the archives here you will find posts from Fundamental Law and other medical professionals urging all who are in ENM relationships and routinely engage in sex with others to be tested regularly (some hard-playing folks won’t play with anyone who can’t show an all-negative comprehensive STD panel) and to be candid with their primary care provider. It can be awkward telling your PCP that you are in the lifestyle but they cannot provide you with an adequate level of care if they don’t know what your health risk factors are. I understand your reticence . My (non-playing but very supportive) wife and I are in our mid-70s and she is in a non-reversible decline that leaves her increasingly dependent on me for support and care. I cannot afford to take health risks that would leave her without a caregiver. Though my ENM history goes back more than four decades (and includes her as part of my very first) and I’ve been fairly active for 20 years (with time out for the height of the pandemic) it wasn’t until recently that I took to heart the good counsel of Fundamental Law and others. I got tested at my local Planned Parenthood. (If you don’t have disqualifying objections to the organization because it provides abortion services, I heartily recommend PP as an excellent source of sexual health care. Your care provider will be highly knowledgeable and no one there is judgmental at all. The NP I saw did confess that there were few mid-70s men in their patient population. 😉😂) PP takes insurance, including Medicare. If you don’t have insurance payment is on a sliding scale according to income. I signed the form requesting that PP share its information with my PCP, affiliated with a major medical school in NYC and in most important ways very good. So, I expected that when I had my next annual physical my PCP would have through inference figured out I was regularly having sex with people other than my wife (who is also her patient). That was a bad assumption on my part. She spends 90+ minutes on an annual physical and generally comes prepared — she isn’t flipping through my history and lab tests while she’s talking. She didn’t bring up anything about my sex life, which in the past was always a brief conversation (You two still having good sex? Need a new Viagra scrip?) Three or four times I said to her that we needed to talk an]bout sex, and she kept blowing past it. I finally leaned forward in my chair, addressed her by her first name and said in a stronger voice than before "WE HAVE TO TALK ABOUT SEX!" That got her attention. I shared the full nature of my sexuality with her. She wasn’t judgmental but clearly she was big-time surprised. I’m 20 years older than she is and she’s pretty conservative in dress and demeanor. Also a practicing Catholic, and I think on the religiously conservative side. But she asked all the right questions about the specifics of the behaviors I engage in. I gave her accurate and specific answere. And then she asked why I had been forward in bringing up the subject. I told her it was because I wanted to know whether with this significant knowledge about me she would be comfortable being my doc. And assuming she was okay with having me as her patient, that I wanted her to be able to provide me with appropriate overall care. She said she didn’t have other patients in my situation (I said to myself, "that you know about") and she wasn’t confident she had the degree of knowledge necessary to care for my sexual health. I told her I was planning on having PP take care of that but that I wanted them to share their records with her so she’d have the full picture. EO. at this point you may be saying to yourself that if you thought you would go through anything like that with your doc you would just keep your sex life to yourself. My experience with my PCP was not nearly as awkward as it might seem when you read my stripped-down telling of the interaction. And I felt really good having gotten past my anxiety from the prospect of having the conversation. Given your particular circumstances you might best have the talk with your Ob-Gyn and ask them to not share with your PCP unless something happens that makes it medically necessary. As a side note, my observation over the years is that members of the medical/health-care community (physicians, surgeons, nurses, psychologists and clinical social workers) are vastly over represented in the lifestyle. It’s not likely your ObGyn is or was in the lifestyle, but it’s far from impossible. Just the other evening I was on a Xoom with a couple who are prospective playmates. Turns out he’s an ObGyn…😉😊

Congrats on diving into the lifestyle. It's a fun and wild adventure which changes your fundamental mindset and perspective in potentially great ways. I can understand your discomfort with wanting your doctors to have an idea of your extracurriculars--in my own case my primary doc is one of my fathers closest friends so that could potentially be awkward. To avoid it there I simply have another specialist (urologist), whose opinion I could care less about, write the script for an STD test and take it to LabCorp to fill. In the case of my wife she simply hits an Urgent Care for a full STD panel and sees an NP she has no relationship with and won't see again after. If that is still not discrete enough for you, there are plenty of online resources to get discrete STD testing.

Never thought I would be posting about double penetration as it never interested me. Mrs. NA, my little Devil, got us an invite to a private lake house party with 5 couples. It took her convincing me to go because I’m not into group sex and I wouldn’t know anyone. Maybe I will post about that later. DP, normally I don’t need to be with another man during sex with a woman, I’m more of a 1:1 guy. One of the husbands wanted to watch his wife do a DP and I was selected as the ass man, made me think I was the smallest. At the edge of a bed with me in her butt, leaning back another guy entered her. I didn’t have the best view I did feel him as I tried to just stay hard and be still. Then she brought two other guys over, one on each side of me and realized her husband had his phone videoing as she had two in her mouth. I was part of a QP, a quad but I couldn’t see much. What I did feel was a butt tighten and a guy jamming her. I eventually popped out of her.

Tried this over the weekend and it did not go well. My buddy usually opts for my GF's asshole so I told him beforehand to bust a nut before we go into DP. He says "no problem I can cum in 5 mins." Given he's fucked my GF a thousand times (exaggerating) I know he can finish in 5 mins but I've also seen him last much longer. So we're both groping my GF and she is playing back with us and I begin to go down on my GF while she blows my buddy. Then I take a step back because I don't want to get overly involved and cum so I decide to watch the show instead. So after oral my GF gets on her back and my buddy starts fucking her in missionary. He picks up the pace really thrusting hard but unable to finish. After a few minutes he says he can get finish if he switches to doggy. Puts her in doggy and immediately starts pounding her hard from behind. Now he's pounding the living shit out of her and calling her a whore, slut, cunt, and a bunch of other degrading stuff (yes, she loves this kind of talk) but still can't nut. So now my buddy says he is close but needs to go back into her mouth to finish - OK sure. As I see him pull his dick out of her it's hard but not like fully 100% rock hard if you know what I mean. So now he puts her on her back with her head hanging over the bed and starts fucking her throat. Now I'm sitting there rock hard (harder than my buddy) at this point and ready to say "fuck it" and just move forward with a DP but decide to wait it out. So he's balls deep in her throat pumping in and out and still not getting there. Back to doggy. Pounds away for who knows how long and says he's going to cum so he pulls out and starts stroking off over her face - and guess what? Still nothing! Puts his dick back in her mouth and starts facefucking her again until he FINALLY pulls his dick out of her mouth and shoots his load on her face. I didn't time how long this took but it took a looong time. My GF looks like a wreck (a sexy wreck) from fucking especially her face from the facefucking (always sexy seeing her this way) and my buddy is sweaty and looks like he just came back from a marathon. Seeing my GF that way is keeping me hard as hell but I know they are going to need some time to recover from fucking. Of course after this me and my GF were like "wtf was that? I thought you said you'd be done in 5 mins?" And he says "usually I am but I literally jerked off right before I came here because I didn't want to cum too soon." Really??? He couldn't have told us that before??? Anyways let's move forward. So now they're both recovering and we're drinking water, eating some food, watching TV, etc. and I'm now a little nervous because I've been hard for like the past hour and worried now I might finish too soon and unable to keep up with my buddy but I put it out of my mind. So after a little bit they're ready to go for round 2. My GF starts blowing us a little and I try to direct her to suck on my buddy more as I am afraid of cumming too soon because of all the anticipation. Eventually I get on bottom and slide into her pussy and my buddy tries to enter her from the backdoor but isn't staying hard and not getting in. So now as I'm fucking her he comes around for more oral. So now he's standing over me fucking my GF's mouth and as I look up all I see is his sweaty balls slapping against my GF's chin and as he facefucks her she's gagging and wetness is dripping down on my chest. A few minutes ago I was worried about cumming too soon and now I'm worried that I won't be able to keep an erection. So as my buddy is standing on the bed over me fucking her face he loses his balance and the worst part of his body imaginable almost comes crashing down on my face. It was close! At this point my erection is gone and I'm mentally out of the game. We take a step back for a bit before we continued to play again but never achieved a successful DP that night. We all agreed to a raincheck though. It sounds like a pretty horrible story but we all laughed pretty hard about it afterwards.