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My orgasms from DP are what makes it worth the effort! Nasa has nothing on those orgasms!

Our fears and our friend’s fears are very similar. Crazy how the original friends we met on a sex site are so much like us in so many different ways including how to get std tests. Last night we were talking while both husbands were watching football, not together but in our own houses. I feel we made the best connection when we found them that we can talk about everything. We even talk about the newer friends we made including the good and bad. When I told her we may take a break she agreed we both went too fast and she would be happy to just keep it us four. When I brought up the doctor issue she thought we should all go together to a doc in the box or one of those walk in places. Made me almost pee thinking what it would be like to the doctor to get us as a group. She wants to be very graphic which I hope she was just joking. We should go together and tell the doctor we enjoy lesbian sex too. I enjoy we can talk about it together.

That way the panties can be removed without taking off the garters...how else would you do that?

Nice to hear your experience. I am closing in on 63 as well.

Yeah, either way. I'm not into bi play with other men, but regardless of which passage I'm in, front or back, the most exciting thing for me is feeling the other guy's dick moving in her. The first time I did DP that was unexpected - feeling his dick through the walls of both her vagina and rectum. Doesn't matter whether it's my wife or another guy's. The only thing that gets to me with DP is watching my wife with two other guys in her; it's like WTF. I had seen Daniela fuck and do anal with other guys a number of times before, and we had already done DPs with other guys, but the first time I saw her with two other men, it was overload. (But I was in another woman, so...) You're right, the guys are taking directions in a DP situation.

Has anyone moved in a person that started out as a playmate? Did it change the dynamics of the relationship? At what point, does it change from being cuckoldry to being a polyamorous relationship?

This summer we went from 0 to wow and now we are catching our collective breath and deciding what is next. This summer I more than doubled the number of different partners I had sex with in my life. For my husband it was the summer of dreams. We started very cautiously then it feels like we threw caution to the wind. We made many new friends that we hope will remain friends and met others that will just be part of our history. I read the posts here and wonder what is real and what is fantasy putting myself into the situations and thinking would I do that or would I enjoy that or could I enjoy that. I can report some I did and enjoyed and some I didn’t enjoy and many more I didn’t try. No DVP for me. I even learned new terms, yes Spit Roast is a thing. Carpet Munch even if there weren’t carpets. Safe Sex hmmm, not so much. Now it’s time to slow down before things go sideways. We both have routine medical exams on the calendar which is now making me a bit on edge. I’m not sure if routine blood tests are enough to find something hidden. I know I should be honest with my doctor, I’m just trying to find a way to tell her about our summer. My family doctor is the same one my parents use and the only doctor I’ve used as an adult. My gynecologist knew me as a virgin and how scared I was when I went that first time after the first time. My husband could not care less about his doctors, I don’t think men are examined the same way, it’s much more routine. I also want to thank those more seasoned who took the time to read my sometimes sarcastic younger posts for the little guidance I read. We will always be Exploring and looking for Options

What happens in Greece stays in Greece. Santorini is beautiful. So is Mykonos.

Thanks! We're planning on it!

We usually save 69 for round 2, I have read in the various threads that some men have trouble getting to round 2, 69 does it for me. Intercourse first and 69 to get me up for round 2 or use 69 to orgasm.

Personally I like 69 better than intercourse especially if you are with a partner who really enjoys it also. The pleasing your partner while receiving pleasure is incredible. Nothing is better than her having an orgasm while eating her pussy and you cumming in her mouth and neither stops for the orgasm. 😜

I just got my tests done last week, all negative, and I am glad that it goes as easy as it does. Nobody blinks an eye and very professional and discreet. I hope that everyone is getting tested and stay safe!

A wonderful thing about being non-monogamous is the opportunity to have other experiences, learn things, the variety. Unlike my female friends who had a lot of partners then got married and "settled down," those in the lifestyle can continue the exploration and fun.

For me and most of my contemporaries, getting the shot or pill was the holdup for p-in-v sex. I had a dick in my bum before I had one in my pussy for that reason.

Part of adolescence for me it was a routine vaccination before I went to college. Thinking about it now my mom was more enlightened about life and sexuality.

EO, if you dig deeply enough through the archives here you will find posts from Fundamental Law and other medical professionals urging all who are in ENM relationships and routinely engage in sex with others to be tested regularly (some hard-playing folks won’t play with anyone who can’t show an all-negative comprehensive STD panel) and to be candid with their primary care provider. It can be awkward telling your PCP that you are in the lifestyle but they cannot provide you with an adequate level of care if they don’t know what your health risk factors are. I understand your reticence . My (non-playing but very supportive) wife and I are in our mid-70s and she is in a non-reversible decline that leaves her increasingly dependent on me for support and care. I cannot afford to take health risks that would leave her without a caregiver. Though my ENM history goes back more than four decades (and includes her as part of my very first) and I’ve been fairly active for 20 years (with time out for the height of the pandemic) it wasn’t until recently that I took to heart the good counsel of Fundamental Law and others. I got tested at my local Planned Parenthood. (If you don’t have disqualifying objections to the organization because it provides abortion services, I heartily recommend PP as an excellent source of sexual health care. Your care provider will be highly knowledgeable and no one there is judgmental at all. The NP I saw did confess that there were few mid-70s men in their patient population. 😉😂) PP takes insurance, including Medicare. If you don’t have insurance payment is on a sliding scale according to income. I signed the form requesting that PP share its information with my PCP, affiliated with a major medical school in NYC and in most important ways very good. So, I expected that when I had my next annual physical my PCP would have through inference figured out I was regularly having sex with people other than my wife (who is also her patient). That was a bad assumption on my part. She spends 90+ minutes on an annual physical and generally comes prepared — she isn’t flipping through my history and lab tests while she’s talking. She didn’t bring up anything about my sex life, which in the past was always a brief conversation (You two still having good sex? Need a new Viagra scrip?) Three or four times I said to her that we needed to talk an]bout sex, and she kept blowing past it. I finally leaned forward in my chair, addressed her by her first name and said in a stronger voice than before "WE HAVE TO TALK ABOUT SEX!" That got her attention. I shared the full nature of my sexuality with her. She wasn’t judgmental but clearly she was big-time surprised. I’m 20 years older than she is and she’s pretty conservative in dress and demeanor. Also a practicing Catholic, and I think on the religiously conservative side. But she asked all the right questions about the specifics of the behaviors I engage in. I gave her accurate and specific answere. And then she asked why I had been forward in bringing up the subject. I told her it was because I wanted to know whether with this significant knowledge about me she would be comfortable being my doc. And assuming she was okay with having me as her patient, that I wanted her to be able to provide me with appropriate overall care. She said she didn’t have other patients in my situation (I said to myself, "that you know about") and she wasn’t confident she had the degree of knowledge necessary to care for my sexual health. I told her I was planning on having PP take care of that but that I wanted them to share their records with her so she’d have the full picture. EO. at this point you may be saying to yourself that if you thought you would go through anything like that with your doc you would just keep your sex life to yourself. My experience with my PCP was not nearly as awkward as it might seem when you read my stripped-down telling of the interaction. And I felt really good having gotten past my anxiety from the prospect of having the conversation. Given your particular circumstances you might best have the talk with your Ob-Gyn and ask them to not share with your PCP unless something happens that makes it medically necessary. As a side note, my observation over the years is that members of the medical/health-care community (physicians, surgeons, nurses, psychologists and clinical social workers) are vastly over represented in the lifestyle. It’s not likely your ObGyn is or was in the lifestyle, but it’s far from impossible. Just the other evening I was on a Xoom with a couple who are prospective playmates. Turns out he’s an ObGyn…😉😊

I am bi enough that I REALLY enjoy a cock but I have no attraction to men. I really enjoy sucking cocks and riding cocks but I have zero desire to kiss or make out or anything remotely romantic with a guy. I figure that it is just sex, right? It's fun getting off and it is fun getting others off as well. That sated look when I guy cums is great, particularly when I know that I caused that... Call me weird. But it is what it is...

I am near 63 and I and another couple, who was both a year younger, did a DP. The female had only anal one time and didn't care for it, but wanted to try DP as a bucket list thing. The 3 of us talked about it while we were nude around their swimming pool. So we got the lube and her husband laid on a pool lounge chair and she rode him cow girl.I got in behind her with plenty of lube and it happened a lot easier than I expected. She came very quickly and her husband came next with me shortly afterwards. Now about the age, I do take viagra and don't know if her husband did, but what amazed me was the ease to enter her anally. I have had anal sex with various women of age, but in my opinion, the older the woman, the easier it is to have anal sex. And as far as athleticism, it's just knowing that the bottom man has to put his legs together while inside her pussy so the guy that enters her anus can have easier access. To me, I think DP is easier from 50's older simple because more relaxed.

Not from personal experience, but rather just thinking it through, if a male is older or heavier, that man can lay on his back and the woman can get on top of him and that man enters her vagina. The other man can enter the woman anally from behind her. Hope that makes sense.