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I don't know how bi this is to the posters, but I have been in MFM several times and had the other man put my cock in the women's pussy and suck it after I came inside her. This has happened about 6 times and usually the woman is the guy's SO.

Sounds like your husband pulled off what you couldn't, or at least pushed it over the finish line. It also seems like the preliminaries that you started with those two got the others excited about the potential and got them involved. Don't be shy, tell about at least the highlights.

We started swinging in 1996 about 27 years ago right after we met and moved in together. Sabrina was very bi and loved playing with girls and guys, especially in group settings. About 2003 she told me that she thought two or more guys playing with each other was 🔥 hott. We set up a date to meet with a bi guy (Rick) at Quiet Encounters, an on premises swing club in El Paso, TX. After an hour of conversation and drinks to calm my nerves, we went into a private room, locked the door, and we sucked and fucked each other in every combination you could think of for the next three hours. When we eere done, the whole room smelled like sex, sex and sex. We have played m/m lots of times. We just hosted a bi male party in Las Vegas with 3 couples with bi males, 6 bi male tops and 1 single female. I was spit roasted at the same time as Sabrina. Was fucked by 7 of the males and got to swallow 5 loads of cum. You just go with the flow and discover what you like and/or don't like. I am a bottom, we usually look for bi tops or verse. Sabrina loves to suck a nice cock together and then guide it into my ass or I guide it into her.

For the guys, it was never cuckoldry, just two men who loved me and enjoyed sex with me so much that they were monogamous. I tried really hard to keep them both satisfied. (Hubby sometimes liked to watch me with Red, Red didn't like to watch me with someone else.) I was the one who enjoyed being a female cuckold, wanting to reclaim my husband after he had sex with another woman. But as much as I wanted sex with him, reclaiming was eating his cum out of her and giving her as good an orgasm as he did.

The last week of August, Shannon texted David and me saying that she and Joe are visiting relatives in a nearby town and asking if we were going to be at home and free over the Labor Day weekend. Lunch, dinner maybe. I was taken aback and hesitant. David replied, “Sure, we’re free, that’ll be great.” After more back-and-forth David and I found that they would be arriving late on Friday and have a rental car, so they wanted to get together first thing Saturday. Meanwhile, I kept texting Shannon separately and had a few calls with her. In among all the social talk, we got talking about sex. Eventually, I adjusted my approach from what I proposed before, me fucking Joe or us having a threesome. Rather than asking Shannon if she wanted to make out with me, I instead asked if she would do me a favor and touch me again. I asked not if she would mind, but if Joe would object. She surprised me by saying with some enthusiasm that Joe would like her and me to do that. She quickly clarified that he would like to see us do that. OK, the question is how far would Shannon go with me? I was happy to get that far and left it open from there. Saturday Long story short, David and I met Shannon and Joe at their hotel Saturday morning and visited a few places in town around their hotel. We eventually went to their hotel for lunch, then they invited us back to their room to browse some things on the internet and talk about our plans for later. David surprisingly and suddenly looked at his phone and said that he had to go into the office to take care of things. Something he rarely had to do, at least never in the office on a weekend. But I didn’t question it. He apologized and asked if it was ok if he came back in a few hours to the hotel. OK. He said that he would call when he was leaving the office. Later I found out that it was a set up between him and Shannon. Long foreplay story short, Shannon ended up naked on her back, I was in just my t-shirt braless on all fours licking her pussy, sending her into orbit and Joe was playing with himself. While she was in an out-of-her-mind state, I asked Shannon if Joe could put it in me. She squeaked “Yes,” and I ordered him to get over here. Now I was feeling the dick I had anticipated for so long. He came pretty quickly, but I was just as quick. His ejaculation was fantastic for me. Shannon snapped out of her ecstasy when Joe and I simultaneously started our cris d'amour. Afterwards Shannon wasn’t shy about going down on my sloppy pussy to give me another O. I was also happy that both Joe and Shannon found me to their liking. After our two hours or so of fun, I had Shannon call David and asked him when he was coming back to the hotel. I thought I was being clever having Shannon call him. But David is more clever (cleverer?) and more thoughtful; he had managed to get the hotel to reserve us an adjoining room next to Joe and Shannon’s shortly after they made their reservation - just in case things moved in a direction where we needed it. He checked in on the way back and David and I went next door into our room to shower before going out again. It was a tense late afternoon and light dinner. Not that anything was wrong, but it was a sexually charged atmosphere. David quietly but clearly sent me the message that knew exactly what had happened, had expected it. He also left the door between the rooms ajar as a signal that there was an intimacy between us couples, and negative proof that he wasn’t doing anything with me, the potential was being saved for later. It was clear to me that Shannon was interested in David. And no one had to tell David that. As we left the hotel and began to walk down the block David took Shannon’s hand. I grabbed Joe’s hand. Shannon had previously told me at one point during our text and email exchanges that Joe, knowing only a small part of her past but knowing that it is still much greater than his, likes saying that she was a slut when they’re in foreplay and having sex. He stresses it and says it repeatedly and asks her for stories about her past. It disturbed her at first but it she says it’s all ok, it makes him closer and more loving than ever, even after the sex is over. When we got back to the hotel we went to our rooms and had sex. Pretty wild, but nothing that hasn’t been discussed here before. David and I expected that we would separate into the two rooms, but Joe insisted on us all staying in their room because it had two queen beds instead of one king. He wanted to see his wife having sex with another man, something he said that he had never seen before and expected only to ever see in his fantasies about Shannon’s past. But here David was, with all his pent-up energy, doing a good job on Shannon. David is much more in tune with what was going on in Joe’s mind and how to play it. He knew that what Joe thought wasn’t that Shannon is a slut, it’s that she was a slut and he is the one who was so good for her that she gave up whoring around for him. He prides himself on having an oversexed woman who he has tamed and married. Her past is a point of pride for him. She previously told me that she fucked a lot of different guys and did all these different things (MFM and FFM threesomes, anal, couples swaps) before and yet she is satisfied, happy with Joe. For Joe, it is part of her great personality, but he is so proud that she gave it up for him. David flattered him by saying that he wished that I could have been as sexually adventuresome as Shannon was, that I had only fucked one other guy when we met. David told Joe that Joe married the town slut, but now she is his. Joe really liked that. I suppose that this shouldn’t be so surprising, there are people here, mostly guys, who say that they don’t mind that their wife sluts around (with a boyfriend, at the club, at a party) because, especially because, she is going home with him tonight. The husband getting the final conquest, and all is well. In a moment of calm, nonsexual honesty I asked Joe if he was ok, if it disturbed him knowing and seeing Shannon having sex with David (or me). He seemed good, more than good – pleased, with Shannon’s past but only because it was in the past. He confirmed that talking about her past in the abstract was exciting, something he loved about her, but seeing the reality of her having sex with another guy was painful. “But that seems to be the price of admission,” he said. I was left wondering but didn’t push him on it. “It’s wonderful afterwards though,” he said. Shannon confessed that they weren’t in town to visit relatives. They contacted us and specifically came to visit our place in the world to see if we said we wanted to meet up. They had reserved the entire weekend for time with us, whatever it may be, and had a flight home on Monday afternoon. What led to this trip was Shannon “confronting” Joe about me and asking him if he would fuck if me if she could arrange it. (She already had the signal from me at our last meeting that she could.) What I didn’t know was that she and David were talking behind my back to set this up. Sunday The big day came and we took Joe and Shannon back to our house to meet the rest of our family: Red, Clair, Lora, and our multitude of children. The introductions were very smooth and cordial. The only awkward part for me was when Clair and Lora both said to Joe and Shannon how much I had said about them, but Joe and Shannon were untroubled by me having talked about them. Shannon said I hadn’t said anything about Clair, Lora, Red, or all these kids to her. They were curious about the provenance of the kids and we proudly pointed out the biological parentage of each (Lora said “I’m the mother of the brown ones.”). To say they were amazed with the whole situation would be an understatement. Especially with the huge house, guesthouse and all the children. We told them that none of it (the house, the number of children) is as impressive as it seems if you divide it up among us five adults. David has arranged with Becky and Frank to take our children for the day. We had also arranged for two of the regular young women we use as babysitters to accompany them to help out. It worked out great and we really appreciated it. Needless to say, we all played. The interesting thing for me was that the pairings that seemed to grab hold the most were Joe and Lora, and Shannon and Red. David, my husband, and I played together with Clair and laughed that the couple he had set up for me to have sex with had found other sexual interests. 😊 To Joe, it became not that Shannon just was a slut, but is one, fucking both David and now Red. David and Red now will call Shannon a whore in front of Joe, while the other is fucking her, or both are. Even when Joe is making love to Shannon, his wife. I was worried that this was going too far, but Joe smiled. Both Red and David know how to make him feel good about his wife, portraying her as a sophisticated, super sexually charged woman that he was lucky to get to be his wife. Tamed but not domesticated. After all this, I was afraid what the aftermath might be. But we met at dinner and everyone was happy. It was almost odd that we talked about everything except sex. But it also seemed so natural that it was no problem. One last thing to report: we had breakfast with Shannon and Joe at the hotel Monday (Labor Day) morning for breakfast before they had to go to the airport. Unlike our other get togethers outside the bedroom, this time we did talk about sex and it was mutually decided that David and Shannon would go back to the room for a quick one. Joe and I agreed that it was wonderful sitting here together, him fingering my pussy and reaching for my braless tits, knowing what our spouses were doing. The psychological aspects of what happened excite me as much as the sex, mostly because that’s what I keep thinking about. 1) My husband David went behind my back with another woman(!) to really move along the opportunity for us to play with them. Plus getting the adjoining hotel room and arranging babysitting. 2) Red and Shannon really hit it off, sexually and otherwise, something that I did not expect, they’re so different. Same with Joe and Lora. 3) The fact that Joe has such a fetish about Shannon being called a slut. And that David picked up on the subtle clues early on and had the right instincts on which direction and how far to push it. Joe gets so worked up having Red and David say so and hearing her tell stories about a past that he didn’t know that she had. He went from slut-fear to slut-pride in a very short time. Anyway, overall an amazing weekend.

After years of meeting others alone, I had affairs, she is on an affairs site, we have played together a number of times. We now are on a site together trying to find a match, someone who interests her and a wife that I’m attracted to. There so many possibilities except when she finds a man that attracts her, I am not that attracted to the woman. It goes the other way too, we are having difficulty finding the perfect find. I find I usually defer to her choices, just going through the motions of enjoying. I thought we found a good match, physically attractive to both of us and then we met as the attraction faded. Do others find perfect matches, four people truly interested in the others? Or do you just suck it up for the sake of sex for a night.

About a two on a seven or ten scale.

Hedonism is more open sexually, but we like Couples San Souci because of the nude beach and it only allows couples, no singles. Couples is nicer accommodations than Hedomism. Both are about 2 hours away from the airport so be prepared for the shuttle ride. When you get on the nude beaches, people are very friendly and you will be approached by likewise couples.

My experience was somewhat similar along that progression. Moved in as roommate. Then became playmates. Then in a poly relationship.

That's why I like our closed group of married couples: both Daniela and I can go with whoever we are clicking with at the moment, it doesn't have to be a swap with another couple. In this trusted group there is also a lot of alone play. Even before our closed group, our play wasn't always a couples swap. Perhaps that path would be better for you.

We played on the first meeting with two couples that we found online and arranged to meet them at a club or party. We played on the first meeting with half a dozen or so other couples that we met purely by chance at a club or party. We’ve never played with a single couple that we found online and arranged drinks or dinner to get acquainted … not only not that night, but at *any* point afterwards. (We guess it’s something about easy access to a bed at a club or party as opposed to having to make other arrangements.) The only time we’ve ever played with couples after having dinner with them was on a Bliss cruise when friends of friends who knew it was our first one invited us to one of their sea day afternoon orgies and thought we should have dinner with them and 6-8 other attendees ahead of time just so we could get to know who we’d be playing with later on.

Sorry I got turned on while telling y’all that did not realize how badly I spelled

We met on a cruise and swapped before the cruise was over. No plans, never thought of it before, it just happened.

We had that one special friends we played with that were the only friends we needed. They lived far enough away that our meetings were extra special and all the excitement I needed. Everyone knows that every partner is different in how they do or move when allowed to explore. Our new sexual lover brought me to heights in a different way from my husband. Different not saying better. These friends opened up my sexuality exploring a side I never even knew I had. We still have that Special Couple, as you labeled your friends yet we have explored outside of that relationship against my original ideas. I was very happy with what we had with them with no reason to expand until we did. My suggestion is to go with what you are comfortable with. Try to dispose of any guilt feelings which was my original halt. We are not active like others who post we just play when occasions happen like the stars aligning. I found occasional new experiences are indeed exciting.

Our first swinging experience was a house party in El Paso. Sabrina got in the hot tub with two hot girls. As their SOs were both occupied elsewhere, they went from the hot tub to a king sized bed pretty quickly with me in tow. I sat in a chair and watched the three of them play for over an hour. When they were ready they asked me to join them. We played for a little while, and Sabrina asked me to go find some guys to join. I found three single guys, and this turned into an orgy. It was incredible.

Our thoughts from the beginning ~15 years ago were that if we found people whom we had a lot of fun having sex with, it seemed silly to move on from them just because they weren't new to us anymore. We weren't concerned about attachments forming. We've had some great long term sexual partners from this. So yeah, some special relationships developed.

I don't think it's homophobic, it's just your preference of what you want to do. I have never experienced DP with any of my SO simply because they never wanted it. I may feel like you if it was my GF. I do like to watch my SO with another man, but not so much with another woman because I feel like she isn't into it as much. I would rather watch a good DP than participate, DP is fun but not my favorite sex act.

We met many couples over the years that I felt like I had to teach new things to. I never wanted to get that close or make long term friendships or get very involved with. I learned I missed out on so much more of life by closing the door on some beautiful people. My eyes were finally opened when we decided to keep a small group to enjoy. I finally accepted one friend that I hold nothing back talking about. I’m not afraid to say I love my friend.

I love to reclaim K after swinging, the feel of sloppy seconds and she needs a little more fucking before being spent.

Our poly family formed by the slow accretion of partners. I broke up with my fiancé, but was still seeing him, then met a man who became my second lover and husband. He didn’t live with us at first, but nearby. Then I wanted hubby to play and arranged for female friends and acquaintances to do so. It brought out my Lesbian side and eventually one, then another of those women moved in. Now we're a family of five plus a bunch of children. We have also done some regular swinging along the way.

I have nothing to add to this thread except that for us women (and I’ve found for my guys as well) when a man ejaculates bareback into a woman's vagina, it takes sex with that person to the ultimate level of possible reproduction. Not that those emotions associated with this intimacy, a part of that man is living inside her, are necessarily are a bad thing (when birth control is in place) but there may be unanticipated instinctual reactions.

My wife said she would like to watch me give a guy a blow job so she could watch as I do when she does a guy. I tried and it and we both thought it was so cool. Now, on a regular basis we try to find an accommodating guy and we blow him together. She enjoys watching him shoot cum in my mouth and then she deep kisses me to slurp it all up while I fuck her. He then licks my cum from her pussy and shares it with her orally. I am now a confirmed bi-curious husband.

I considered myself straight. One of those days my wife mentioned she would love to see me with another man. I accepted the proposition and posted an add, requesting a bi-curious male couple. We found one after a while and went for it. We both enjoyed and I felt a new kind of pleasure, never experienced before. That couple introduced us to a male friend, that called himself 100% straight, but after two encounters, he decided to be an active partner only. He enjoyed and I tasted an 8" member inside me. Now I can say, I am bisexual to a certain extent only. No kissing, just oral and anal contact. It is one of the the most pleasurable experience I had in my life.

When did I change? Well, it had to be our very first swinging experience. It was in the late seventies, we'd been married only three years, and we had good friends over to watch 'Deep Throat' on 8mm film. This was very much in the news at the time and I'd managed, through some car sales friends, to get the copy. The other two couples were friends we'd known from my two years as a cop. Nothing sexual had ever happened or had even been discussed. After watching the film one of the couples left fairly quickly to get alone! LOL! The other couple stayed and we talked about sex which led to our first experience. As nice as it was to get undressed with three special people and to, for the first time, explore the other wife..., it was a complete turn-on to watch my gorgeous young wife being seduced by my friend. I think we'd each had intercourse, and lots of oral, at least twice when it happened. We were all laying on the bed together and when my wife and my friend began making out for about the third time I helped them. His wife and I were intently watching the two maneurver into position and when his cock came close to my wife's ready vagina the other wife and I both grabbed his cock and guided it in. It really, really felt good in my hand and his wife and I kept on massaging and licking them the whole time they had intercourse. I guess that was the actual moment that I went from 'straight' to curious.

A bit of a long story, but about a year ago we had a threesome with a bisexual single male she was very into (more so than she admits). The single male had brought up M/M contact a couple of times to feel me out on the subject and I didn't really bite and let him know that although I wasn't squeamish, it's not something I've done before or knew I wanted to. I did not tell my wife about his probing prior to our play date. It was also the first time we planned on her having sex without a condom. When the playdate came (first time we were meeting in person) I let them get started while I took somewhat of a watching role at first... I have to admit the two of them together looked EXTRODINARILY hot and their chemistry was obvious. When I involved myself in the play some touching happened and I didn't shy away and touched back a bit with the SM, which was taken as a green light. It's difficult remembering the exact sequence of things, but at one point I'm fucking my wife and he's fucklicking us both and its amazingly hot. I tell my wife "he's sucking me, baby" to which she has a foreign but not necessarily negative look and tone and says "I know, and you seem to be liking it" which I admitted. This progress from there and I end up going down on him a good bit and loving the experience and wanting more... session wraps up eventually, he leaves and the anger, confusion and distrust towards me begins. My wife was very turned on but not entirely comfortable and felt this was sprung on her. It wasn't really on my radar to discuss in advance but she is correct, there was no discussion on M/M contact nor did I ever indicate an interest. I believe the MMF took place on a Monday and we had a conflicted next couple of days, alternating between fucking and fighting, but by the Saturday of the same week we had scheduled a MMMFF with that same single male and another couple we knew well and more bisexual exploration took place. The wife seemed to love this exploration when she was horny but be off put by it when sober, but she reached out to an openly bisexual couple on SLS who we ended up playing with as well as another bisexual SM who we played together with several times and always enjoyed... On the backburner while this exploration is happening we're arguing more and she's getting upset about things that don't really make sense and she eventually admits she's still upset about the initial encounter with the SM. She has concerns (which have some validity) that he was more gay than bi and was more into me than her and wants to spend a night with him outside of my presence when separate play was not something we do. I trust my wife, generally, but I didn't trust either of us with this SM, he was a boundary pusher and a master of getting us to do things we didn't plan on... I tried to explain I'm not comfortable and to an extent she throws it back in my face that she wasn't comfortable with how the encounter went down but she's communicating her wants to me instead of just doing it (this is true). This whole ordeal started to feel really wrong and I disengaged from our group chat with the SM and it got obvious and awkward for all. Anyway, the original SM has a way of kind of dissolving our boundaries--condoms always, bi sexuality, wanting separate play and he's kind of moving almost towards wanting a Poly dynamic. It is difficult to explain, but it became a relationship we had to end as it was hurting us as we'd never fought about LS stuff before and barely argued about anything. When we ended it my wife told me she's uncomfortable with bisexual play going forward and doesn't want me to engage in it anymore. I'm pretty sure in hindsight that she had some level of feelings for him and carried some resent towards me for complicating the situation. In any event, as much as I did enjoy exploring Bi play, it's off the table until the day the wife green lights it. and the TL;DR We had unplanned MM contact during a 3sum without prior discussion, which led to conflicting emotions, arguments, resent and trust issues towards me, which soured her towards me exploring this part of my sexuality, be it based on the reasons stated or as something punitive...