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We recently completed the build of our 'forever home', which we designed to be clothing-optional (aka nude-friendly) from the ground up, with an interior courtyard, hot tub, outdoor eating area and so on. It's therefore not surprising that some guests are looking forward to shedding their clothes, swimming, sunning, and using the hot tub nude. What's a bit surprising is how many choose to exercise the clothing-optional option. Maybe it's the simplicity. Maybe it's the time of life. Maybe it's a desire to relive years past. Maybe it's the judgement-free setting. Maybe it's the 'zen feel' we have created. Regardless, it has become the norm. Given an invitation to a clothing-optional home, what's your preference for a simple social event?

I think what really surprised me was the participation of the others, I thought it would be more Petra, Shannon, and Joe. I also thought that one of the guys would try to reclaim Petra soon after Joe had Petra. Did Dave or Red reclaim Lora or Claire?

Daniela knows how to dress for those occasions - three pieces of clothing and two are shoes.

We have done this in different variations, but strangely, Daniela is not a simultaneous stimulation of clit and vagina kind of girl. It's one or the other. She never plays with her clit while fucking. When Daniela has done fucklicking, she lets the other woman have the dick while they lick one another.

One thing that our experience with Joe and Shannon has brought to my mind again is my attitude and need for sex. Compared to food and eating, it’s totally different. I almost always skip breakfast, but a morning quickie and getting an O (usually by a dick, but sometimes a licking) is a regular thing for me. If I don’t do it the morning before work, it’s almost a superstitious thing for me that my attitude will be bad and things will go wrong during the day. Lunch is light and I try to stick to a salad, although with stuff on it. When I get home from work, I’m hungry but can hold my desire in check, eat slowly and deliberately, looking at each morsel and be satisfied with not a lot. I still weigh within a few pounds of what I did in high school. But at night I ask for, get, and greedily take all that I want in bed for 30 to 60 minutes before sleep. And I sleep well. Sometimes I think that the time could be put to better use, I could exercise more, read a book, and I am determined to do so. But then something happens as I feel the body of someone I love as I wake up, or as I finalize putting the kids away for the night and think about the possibilities, which man’s bed I will sleep in, which woman will join me there, my mind becomes irrational. I don’t have that trouble with food.

I don’t know what the conversations were between Shannon and Joe on the way home, but I communicated with both of them since and know a couple of things. First, they have said that the experience with us has “really opened things up between them” (Joe) and “broken down a barrier about sex” (Shannon). Shannon said that Joe has move on from repeating the slut and whore thing that he likes to say to wanting to talk about what she did with Red and David (and Clair and Lora and me) and hear tales of her past sexual experiences that she never revealed in the past. Shan says that she has both expanded the list of men and women that she admits to having sex before she met Joe to “all,” and goes into detail about what they did and how she enjoyed it. She also tells of what she would like to have done, but didn’t. The other side of it is for us, we’ve talked about our play with them a lot and it has fired things up for us as well. The major even was the Wednesday after, I got home from work to the kids being gone, and the others in various states of undress. Clair was topless, which was incredibly exciting to me, David was wearing just a t-shirt with his dick hanging, that was funny. They came at me from different sides, not saying anything, serious, and started pulling my clothes off. Red cut off my bra. I’ve tried to think of the best word to describe it, but the word I keep coming back to is that I was raped, but totally not in a bad way, by my two husbands and my two wives. My entire life sex has always started with a suggestion, a proposal from someone for me to go along, and 99% of the time I accepted, and when I didn’t, he moved on. This time I wasn’t asked, it wasn’t with my consent, but I wasn’t forced. Like being “kidnapped”, pushed into a car and taken someplace like a great restaurant without being asked. What distinguished the sex this time was the infrequent occurrence of me having FFM intercourse with both men one after another while they were fresh, getting a full measure of their ejaculate. Red fucked me missionary while Clair sat on my face grinding into me, then David did me doggy while I licked Lora. Then the girls went down on me. I never had so many orgasms in such a short time. So it wasn't just Joe and Shannon having some crazy fucking after our experience.

We clicked with those we knew before any sex. Friends first is frowned upon by many on here for many reasons, for us it let us have fun without the extra burden of unknown personalities.

We don't look for the perfect match, we look for good personalities and attractive to us. We usually do this on vacation and we are looking for nothing more than a good time!

That's the way I feel, very very few men are the least bit attractive to me. We are lucky women want to be with us.

We started swinging in 1996 about 27 years ago right after we met and moved in together. Sabrina was very bi and loved playing with girls and guys, especially in group settings. About 2003 she told me that she thought two or more guys playing with each other was 🔥 hott. We set up a date to meet with a bi guy (Rick) at Quiet Encounters, an on premises swing club in El Paso, TX. After an hour of conversation and drinks to calm my nerves, we went into a private room, locked the door, and we sucked and fucked each other in every combination you could think of for the next three hours. When we eere done, the whole room smelled like sex, sex and sex. We have played m/m lots of times. We just hosted a bi male party in Las Vegas with 3 couples with bi males, 6 bi male tops and 1 single female. I was spit roasted at the same time as Sabrina. Was fucked by 7 of the males and got to swallow 5 loads of cum. You just go with the flow and discover what you like and/or don't like. I am a bottom, we usually look for bi tops or verse. Sabrina loves to suck a nice cock together and then guide it into my ass or I guide it into her.

Surely by now Julie?

That is a reasonable position, but I'd carve out the exception for not wanting what you don't know. I had plenty of opportunity over the years for MM contact but never wanted it. The closest thing in porn I enjoyed to it was passable trannies fucking women... As mentioned above, it wasn't until watching my wife suck cock during our second swap that I got really curious and started to consider it. Then a couple years later when it actually happened, and I performed oral on another guy during a threesome with my wife, my expectations were shattered. Holding another penis in my hand felt completely different than I imagined and having it in my mouth was infinitely more erotic than I anticipated. I don't really find men attractive (though I do find some unattractive) and have no interest in kissing, dating, cuddling etc with a male. But in a fluid sexual situation, I enjoy giving head which wasn't a repressed fantasy for me--it was something I'd have NEVER tried but for swinging.

We would follow the lead of the others. I would also stay away from the grill.

You are the one who knows your wife well. How would she take to having you bringing her some man for sex? Would it be someone she had sex with before and enjoyed? Or at least expressed a sexual fantasy interest in? If it were to be a stranger, is that something she really likes? Even if she enjoyed picking up strangers in the past, she might not like who you choose. If I were you, I would involve her first, ask if she would like you to arrange a surprise MFM. Good luck, and let us know how it goes.

If you want to stay married, end all contact with him. After I read that sentence I didn't have to read the rest. That is a recipe for disaster if you want to remain a married couple. This guy is done with his wife and was looking for something else. He found it...your wife. The angry 'you don't trust me' response is the EXACT response of a wife who is cheating. I've seen it. I'd step back from swinging and settle back into your marriage (if you want it to continue). If you want to be like this guy and his wife (i.e. have a poly relationship), continue doing what you're doing.

My favorite fuck lick story happened in the public room at one of our favorite clubs. We had a group and about 4 or five couples watching us go. I was on top facing him with my back to the group. I was so fucking turned on I decided turn around and ride him reverse so they could see me fully with my pussy open wide and wrapped around my husbands penis. I also loved that they could see him as well and I kept pulling his cock out of me would jerk him off. One of the women came in and joined us and started to suck my husbands cock while I held his shaft. After a moment, she guided his penis back inside me and then planted her face on my pussy. i held her head in place and had one of the most powerful orgasms of my life while our friends watched. There is nothing like oral with penetration.

I have one fuck-lick experience with a guy. After having his Viagra, he had his erection on for over two hours. We changed and tried every position. He pumped, slow, fast and furious but would not shoot his cum. I had already orgasm ed three times over. It was his idea that we do a 69 with me on top. Then he requested that my husband fuck me from behind while he was licking me. I loved the warmth of his tongue on my clit and the bareback fuck from my husband. When my husband signaled that he was about to shoot his cum, I asked my guy to stop licking me. But, he started to lick me more vigorously and after my husband had cum inside me, he licked up all the juice. I was surprised, but very pleased.

We have played bareback with one couple, and it wasn't a problem. Mr. intuition isn't homophobic at all, nor is he squeamish about body fluids (as long as everyone is healthy, of course!). Would he avoid kissing me after blowing another guy? Hell no. He doesn't have a cream pie fetish or a thing for "sharing" another guy's cum while kissing me or anything like that; he just doesn't mind body fluids. It's sex. It happens. And if it's good enough for his wife to be expected to deal with some other guy's cum on or in her body, why should he be all weird about it? I'm interested to know, too, what it is about other mens' cum that bothers everyone so much.