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In my experience, as a man approaches orgasm and ejaculation regardless of whichever orifice he's in he wants to push in as he cums and not pull out. Instinct, I guess.

I failed to consider our situation with Walter. During the time when I was seeing up hubby David with female friends and acquaintances of mine, Clair had brought out my Lesbian side, and was a regular with us, I asked Lora if she would like to play with David. She would and did, becoming another Lesbian experience for me as well. An honest woman, Lora told the guy she had just started dating at the time, Walter, about the situation with David and me - occasional FWBs. It didn't bother him, we met, then all (Clair and Red included) started playing together as Walter and Lora dated, were engaged, married, separated, and divorced. Lora decided that she wanted to join our family. So that's my/our "no date" story with Walter.

Ha, that's exactly where I want a man to deposit his cum. Nothing is wrong in sex if that's what you want.

Watching each other having sex with others is a big turn on for us, in my case I like to "perform for him". The first time I saw him having sex with someone else was not hard at all I actually remember felling very thrilled by the hole experience.

https://graziadaily.co.uk/life/real-life/swingers-village-holiday-experience/ Much of what is in this report resonates with our first foray into the LS. Worth the time to read and maybe bookmark to share with others when the occasion presents itself.

I also love my bfs to cum inside me, but that rule is for swing partners only. They can too but with condom on. I dislike being on pill or any chemical based bc.

For me the physical, psychological, and emotional satisfaction is the feel of an internal ejaculation. Vagina first; mouth (I swallow) or bum second. It turns me on to lick up cum, but I prefer getting the semen that leaks from another woman’s pussy. I also go after a spent dick for both his and her excess juices. For me, it's my reclaiming ritual. I also like to snowball, although most men don't, other women are happy to.

Both choices are more widely accepted than discussed, we think.

I don't have any idea how to rate myself. I have zero romantic interest in guys. No kissing. No romance. But I do like to suck cock. and sometimes more...

For me, I like to cum in the pussy the most and from a blowjob 2nd but I do like cumming on a womans tits and stomach as well... Sometimes to lick it up, sometimes jsut to lay on her and make out with her after... It varies. I do enjoy hearing from the women on this topic as well... Speak up ladies! We love to hear your thoughts!

Yes, Petra, I used "date" in the broadest sense. It sometimes meant going in without first going out.

My partners and trusted swing playmates had at one time cummed on my face but the entire plays were not about degradation. I didnt feel degraded. I told them they can cum anywhere except inside my pussy so Im prepared for a splatter wherever they wish. I asked some of them why they preferred it that way. All of them said they just found it kinky and would like to try what they watched in porns. Same with me. I dont place gender politics where it should not be.

My wife enjoys it, My gf likes it. When I do it I don’t think of it as degrading. It’s okay she likes it. All comments made by men. You don’t understand what a woman will say she likes. Some will say I do things that allow me to be degraded which is correct. My shrink will tell me I’m harming myself when things are done. Degradation is real.

Like I said before, I don't think it's always degrading. When I cum on my GF's face I don't think of it as being degrading at all. But yes, I have of course seen some guys nut on her face because they think it is part of degrading her (which is fine with her - like I said she likes it). But I've seen others just really enjoy it and not doing it in a degrading sense. I think it varies and different people have different perceptions on it.

As a general rule we dont post faces in our explicit profile pics. However, my wife's cummy face is displayed proudly on one guy's online face shot gallery. When we played with him he asked up front if he could have the honor of posting my wife in his online 'trophy room' - a gallery of about a dozen women who he personally cum-splattered. This was no surprise. We had seen his gallery. Although this may sound degrading and disgusting to some, it was actually somewhat appealing to us at the time. I snapped the pics while he did his business on my wife's face. It was just fun and silly (my wife is giggling in the shot) and for me it was super hot. It was just swinger fun and didn't feel weird or degrading at all.

Guys will ask if they can cum on my face. I do say yes knowing when I’ve got them deep in my throat they never pull out in time.

I will never forget the first time I saw Sabrina "being penetrated" (fucked). We were at a house party and she had beenn in the hot tub with three other females, whose husband, SOs wrre otherwise occupied. They quickly moved from the hot tub to a bedroom. I watched them play for well over an hour. They finally decided to bring me in and after they had their fun with me, the told me to go get some guys. I found three single guys and brought them into the room. Sabrina latched onto a tall, built guy and he immediately got his clothes off. She gave him head long enough to get him hard, she rolled a condom on him and laid him on his back. She climbed onto his rock hard cock and started down. At first I felt the green jealousy monster rising up, until I heard her moan from pleasure. She rode him for a while then he fucked her doggy. She is multi orgasmic so she had several orgasms before he came. She ended up being fucked by all three. It was only fair, I had sex with all three of the other females. On the way home she was upset and close to tears. She told me she did not want me to think she was a slut. I told her I did not and that the experience was incredible, especially watching her fuck and cum. After that our swinging life took off.

I've asked the same question and have been told that it feels really different (for me as a woman it does, and not better) and that the idea of being in my bum is different and exciting. So I let them do it sometimes. Remember to lube up. And consider DP, a treat for the woman.

Almost everyone is wired to be non-monogamous. The difference is that LSers acknowledge it and reject social constructs. When done lovingly and properly, a person acknowledges our true human nature and tells their spouse or partner to go ahead, have sex with someone else who you are attracted to. It will make me happy.

Your husband is considerate and loving, as a man should be. He's a keeper. When David said it was OK for me to keep my boyfriend and he wanted to marry me, I was happy and astounded. You were considerate and loving by letting you husband lay you after all that fucking. It's my philosophy as well, I never deny my husband's overtures.

Old post, but there is a significant demographic of women out there with various cum- and submission-related kinks. Some women have asked for it because they like looking at themselves in the mirror after. It's a visible, tangible byproduct of sex and the reason it became a staple in pornography. Like other threads alone these lines recently, it's kind of depressing that so many people experience issues with people "pushing" or ending up feeling degraded. If someone wants to do something knowing it won't be fun for you because they're still going to have fun making you feel bad, that really seems like it should be a full stop.

When I met the person who became my wife, I knew she was sexually active with other men. It didn't bother me, and when we got married we became monogamous almost by default. Fast forward twenty years. We started talking about it, started thinking. We talked, fantasized. For three years! So by the time we finally did it, I was used to the thought so the actual deed wasn't a big deal. It was exciting, yes, and when a few months later we got into MFMs, I loved it. But it was never 'hard' for me to see her with someone else, and it wasn't hard for her to let me have a good time.

The first time we ventured into nonmonogamy, it was my wife screwing two exes (separately) and I wasn't there. It was easy for her because she knew them, they went out together a couple of times and she told them that I, her husband, was good with it, and they were guys she had had the best sex with. It was easy for me because she had sex with these guys before. It wasn't until later that I joined them for MFM threesomes. This was the first time that I actually see her being penetrated by another man. It wasn't hard seeing her with another guy because she was enjoying herself and that makes me happy. It was later that we started couple's swapping.

Despite a lot of conversation before hand, you won't know how you will react until it actually occurs. Our first time the guy had amazing staying power … as I watched, I began to think he would never cum. I could tell though that my wife was enjoying all the action and was really into it. It was so hot and I felt no jealousy at all. She confirmed later as we talked she had never been with any guy who was so "in control".

Not sure if I would say hard... but maybe "odd".. all the prep for the first time does not prepare your nerves. One has to remove themselves emotionally from the act itself and know that the other half is simply enjoying a new sexual experience. Yes it was gut wrenching, an emotional roller coaster that you want to end and keep going the same time. For me as I have said before the second his cock penetrated her was the first crazy part, then as she orgasmed the next, then as she started saying things to him that she had never said to me... the next... but in the end the second he was about to cum and then as he froze up I knew he was planting his seed in her. Very erotic.

Eastinwest: We are granting you permission to make it into a short story...or even better a long story! Great story either way, feel free to tell more...

We thought we would be jealous, but we were not. My wife is quite popular, so my only jealousy is that she gets more interest and action than me. That's the breaks, I accept it.

Note that I'm a male and my perspective is probably completely different. When Mrs. EastInWest and I met, we were friends first, then started meeting for coffee/drinks frequently. We got close, learned more about each other's personal lives, and eventually things got romantic and emotional. However, we didn't know if it could ever be serious, so we didn't stress exclusivity, we just thought one of us would move on eventually. It's a long story, but after we'd been carrying on like this for over a year, we had our one "experiment" where she ended up topless in the back of the car giving head while I gave the guy and his friend a lift to their hotel. It wasn't planned, but she'd had a few drinks and I'm a bad influence. It wasn't hard to see. It was, however, insanely intense. I don't think there could possibly be a drug that would do the same thing. At first we both struggled to give them a little privacy, but that didn't work. I was frustrated at how few stop lights I was getting until I finally just pulled over to join his friend in enjoying the show. He was working her with his hand and she was moaning heavily, constantly on the edge of climaxing, made prolonged eye contact with me a few times (wondering if I was OK, she said later) and I could have cum right there in the driver's seat looking at the way she was looking at me. The feelings were mixed and confusing but none of them were bad. I did have a brief impulse to stop the action when I realized he was going to cum, but I didn't actually want to. It was just a passing, instinctive thought, competing with the urge to masturbate (which I also didn't actually want to do, knowing I'd waste the arousal). I was as hard as I could ever remember being and what I wanted was to see her finish her good work and get her home to the hotel to take her roughly and unload inside her. When he finished, there was a lot of cum. I watched and listened while she gulped twice, but she didn't get it all. I saw her lift her head up, breasts in his lap, and a lot of it ran over her lips and down his shaft. She was on her own high, too, and just stared at the wet cock in her hand, breathing hard. It was completely obscene and very enjoyable to me. She told me later she was just in shock that she had even done it and didn't know what to do or say. A bunch of other stuff happened, but I don't want to turn this into a short story. The point is, none of this ever felt negative for either of us. I took her back to our room, she was in a daze, we went at it in the shower then finished in bed, she came very hard repeatedly, then we passed out, slept through our alarms. We ate breakfast like that hadn't happened, then finally we're drinking coffee and she says, kind of nervously, "I really had fun last night." We talked about it for a while, got her over her worries about what I might be thinking, and she expressed some shock that she didn't feel guilty or grossed out about what she did at all. We didn't talk about that again for years, until we started talking about the idea of actively getting into swinging a couple years ago. I think what made it so harmless (where it could have been an emotional disaster) is that we were on exactly the same page: I was already relatively adventurous, she wanted to be more adventurous, I was supportive of that and wasn't interested in holding her back at all from enjoying everything. She knew it and I OKed (and instigated) things as they went along, we communicated that we were OK and it was good to go ahead, so there was never much room for me to feel like my boundaries weren't being respected and get offended. I don't know if that helps. When I start describing that story it's hard not to be excessively detailed because it was a crazily vivid experience.