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Daniela and I play alone and have no rules. Since we are now within a closed group of married couples, it is easy, stress free, and frequent. It allows for us, all of us, to have more sex and more sexual variety. In many instances the primary benefit is that one of us can watch the combined kids while the others play, then switch off. We have also gone on long weekends and vacations with others in our group. I agree that there is fun in playing while your spouse is around, but we don't have to watch one another fuck all of the time. Plus, there is nearly as much joy in "bringing it home" and reclaiming with one another after whatever happened has happened.

Even after more than ten years of playing, it still has the same effect on me, except of course, I still get dripping wet and a stiff clit. But since I am bi and in love with the women in our family as well as my men, I get excited/jealous in both directions. A power women have that men do not - the ability to immediately take another partner and cum again.

Yes we did right there it caused me to have a raging hard on and she got off his cock sat on mine then sucked his cock abit more can honestly say the most intense and amazing thing we have done

Proving once again that even married people can have sex with others and it is perfectly normal and natural. Did you and your wife have sex afterwards? How was it?

Join SLS or SDC. They list events in your area. Attend a meet and greet that is purely social and not a sexual event. Phone numbers mean dates. And if you are not vaccinated for HPV, do so.

That is one of those personal choices. What works for you does not work for us. We do not want the emotional attachments. We love the sex.

Helen here and all our swinging is totally bare back both at clubs and in our group

Talk with your wife first, but I would say sure, that's what friends are for. It's good to have someone who you can trust. He'll become an even better friend.

From the sounds of it - you two know how to have a good time!

Prodigal Petra returning here. Since this thread has gotten new posts, I will update what has happened to our poly foursome. We are still committed to one another, but have expanded our horizons by playing with another couple as well, the three of us anyway, Red still keeps it between me and him. Clair, hubby and I will play together with Lora and Walter about every other weekend, but during the week hubby will play solo with Lora while Clair or I will get with Walter, everything depending on who is not busy and up for it. The reasons we play solo are because we are in this for sexual variety, not because we want to watch (although that is cool) or because it has to be a game of doubles; and scheduling any sex play is easier the more options there are.