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I’m sure I’m going to get some slack for my opinion, if my wife let another man do something that I’ve always wanted to do, especially without discussing with me first……. I would have stopped the playing instantly, got dressed and started looking for a good divorce lawyer. The sheer amount of disrespect it took on her part would’ve been all ever needed to see. I’m not convinced this story is true. For her to tell you no, then doing it with someone else right in front of you………….not really sure I’m buying this.

Going over the ground rules with everyone involved is crucial and if you don't go over the rules this is what will happen. One problem I first saw was that you admitted that both of you were half buzzed, bad idea. Next, are you sure she was an anal virgin, maybe she has done it before? Anyway it happened, now what to do about it. I think both should stop until you both get on the same page with your rules. This is not uncommon, I have really seen problems about going bareback or ejaculating inside her. Having rules and sticking to them is important and later down the road you may adjust your rules. Talk this out and don't let this get between you, but don't swap until your rules are agreed upon by both!

Exactly. And why would the neighbor, with supposedly no experience with the wife and the husband in the room, go straight for anal? Anal is ok, sure. Here you have a guy who, out of nowhere, was invited to this MFM and have sex with this man's wife. He has no issues (e.g. failure to rise) and with a willing vagina in front of him, goes for anal?? Only two possibilities here... (1) the story isn't real or (2) the wife had prior discussion and prior interactions with the neighbor to where he had already been in the vagina and wanted something different.

A coworker of mine told me that his dad was a meter reader in town and went behind a house to read the gas meter. He walked up on a nude woman putting butter on her vagina and letting a dog lick it off.

Plus, hard to read all back-lit like that.

I read this twice and I am having trouble figuring out what happened and what aspect you are looking for an opinion on...

Yes, it sounds like the neighbor knew the territory.

Ooh, another possibility - the wife and neighbor had had something more than a discussion at some earlier time. It would explain the ease with which this all took place. That may have been a repeat performance.

Important notice ( english is my second language, so appologies on grammar and vocabulary mistakes. Promise to do my best) My experience as a male and can speak for my wife as we had long discussed the issue. It all began on my side. It was my fantasy that with lots of difficulties had the courage to tell my wife on a drinking night. First she was amazed that it had crossed my mind and here response was that she loves to please me so I was giving her a hard task. Alcohol went away and her response did too. She was absolutely negative to do it and didn´t even wanted to talk about it. I talked her about it for 5 years, from time to time and usually on drinking nights. Sometimes brought it up during sex, but never gave me a glance o changing her mind. It all changed when I proposed someone who she found interesting and handsome enough ( or as I would say, she had some sort of crush on him). After that day, she accespted watching mfm homemade videos and got into the idea. Started to show more interested on the matter as she even started to ask questions on how I would feel and how we could make it happen. The idea slowly grew in her mind and she did herself most of the convincing. One drinking sex night she asked me to ring this selected person and ask him if he would like to do it. He didn´t ansered the phone on that night, but some weeks after that, we asked him to join on a night out at a bar. Both, him and my wife have had little fisical contact between them. Nothing further than the usual Hi and Good By kiss, and some quick handshakes and hugs. That night we all had some drinks, things started to get horny and out of the usual. All of a sudden, just while getting in the car (me driving, wife next to me and him on the back seat), I started to kiss my wife and touch her all over, to what she reminded me that our friend was on the back seat. I only asked him if he mind, to what he reply that it made him horny. I took my wife breast of her blouse and started kissing them and then it all was ignited. I invited him to start touching my wife´s body, some direct skin. After both letting it happen and enjoy it, I popped out the question and asked both if they wanted a threesome, to what both agreed. 30 min. latter, we were having great sex, the three of us. Usually wife and I sex takes between 20 to 30min max. She ends it all after she orgasms. This night, we has a 2 hour sex encounter and she came 2 or 3 times. She had the time of her life !!!! I was thrill just remembering how she came into the room and started undressing herself and asking my friend to fuck her.... It just blew my mind, as this reaction of her, never crossed my mind. She was hot as hell !!. After this first time, it was her asking me when we could do it again and to arrange some trip to do it with more time and more organized. We did it 3 times and she keeps asking me to do it more. Usually MFM sex encounters take between 1 to 2 hours of sex. It´s AMAZING ! So, as far as I can see, she came thrill with MFM and she loves doing it. It comes up as conversation during sex, and many times, just speaking about it makes her want to have sex in the minute. Our sex life has had an increadible boost to better and more often. I guess that women first need to get into the idea and they would do the rest on their own. After first time, it all gets easier as fears fade away. Now, some important issue is jealousy. I was sure I would not feel them and I was wrong. They showed up in a light way, but did show up. All of the parties need to have their heads straight and feet on earth on what a threesome is. It is not a ´´threeple´´ ( relationship of three). It is what it is, a nice sex experience with a third person included, and then it is couple again; until next time. Hope my story and experience gives an idea on weather or not it could happen to you.

Of curse she knows I'm bi. She's watched when we played with another bi couple, and I would never go behind her back. OTOH, the number of males that have contacted me and couldn't or don't tell their partner is big. That's a hard pass for me.

Yes, not because there's a hymen that's ripped or the girl's anus is permanently expanded, rather she eventually learns to open, not instinctively tighten, and to lube up her bum hole and his dick first. Perhaps the bi guys on this forum can speak up as well. I think many stories here are untrue, but still form the basis for a worthwhile discussion. Agreed, nothing lost, but something found. A cause for celebration.

From reading the original post, there is no way she was an anal virgin unless this third guy has a needle dick. She took it anally from behind and then switched to reverse cowgirl and took it anally again. The women on this forum can speak better on this than I can but from my experience, the first time taking it anally isn't easy, instead it is painful. Then to move to an advanced position like reverse cowgirl without any issue...I got news for you...her anal virginity was gone long before that night. From reading the original post, there is no way she was an anal virgin unless this third guy has a needle dick. She took it anally from behind and then switched to reverse cowgirl and took it anally again. The women on this forum can speak better on this than I can but from my experience, the first time taking it anally isn't easy, instead it is painful. Then to move to an advanced position like reverse cowgirl without any issue...I got news for you...her anal virginity was gone long before that night.

You can have anal with your wife anytime you want. You really didn’t lose anything.

Had to look it up had only an idea what it was. The men in our group aren’t doing this, the women do. The first time I was surprised by that extra tongue and it felt pretty damn good. As I am a good friend I reciprocated and almost got my nose broken.

"FuckLicking" ok, I too had to make sure this is what I think it is. The optimum position is for me (bisexual M joining a couple for MMF) is for the hubby to be standing bi the bed fucking his wife doggy while I am on my back beneath her licking her pussy AND LICKING HIS COCK with as much tongue surface I can muster on as much flesh as I can reach! IMHO, LICKING your wife's pussy while you fuck her is the "Goal Post" of bisex for we bisexual males invited to beCUM your MMF 3some. THAT along with licking and sucking his pussy wetted cock to keep it hard and eager to fuck some more. Licking "fucked pussy" to enjoy its proverbial "creampie" is also quite exciting. Bi "slangdef's" definition, this includes licking the ass-cock interface. Sorry Charlie, for me at least, that's a bridge too far. While I am TOTALLY into "rimming" it's conditional on freshly showered surfaces (and I have licked my own cum from his and her ass cracks a few times butt that butt had not been fucked, merely LICKED)

I've asked the same question and have been told that it feels really different (for me as a woman it does, and not better) and that the idea of being in my bum is different and exciting. So I let them do it sometimes. Remember to lube up. And consider DP, a treat for the woman.

I'm not a guy, but I am bi and have had the experience of "seeing a pussy (or her ass) being fucked upclose." It is hot and so is licking them both. Don't miss it if you can.

We have done this in different variations, but strangely, Daniela is not a simultaneous stimulation of clit and vagina kind of girl. It's one or the other. She never plays with her clit while fucking. When Daniela has done fucklicking, she lets the other woman have the dick while they lick one another.

Agree with all the above. Additional thing; we have a line in our profile about the need to tell us you read that line when messaging us. If we haven't contacted them, they've cold-contacted us, and they don't mention that line? Instant delete/ignore. They didn't read our profile and aren't really interested in who and what we're about, which is a bad recipe for bedroom pleasure. Some understanding of their role, either in their profile or in their initial messaging, is useful. Additional men are in many ways a sex toy. That's not to denigrate them; they are more than that, but it is important for them to understand their role.

So today we had (yet) another newbie single male contact us online (not through here) and i (husband) found myself again trying to help educate him on what couples are and aren't looking for in single males. So I started thinking "maybe this should be a public service announcement", and figured a post here would be in order and I strongly encourage other couples here who partake in the fruits of single males to weigh in as well. I'll keep our list to just 5 items bc nobody wants to read a novel. Have a good online profile with photos, an emphasis on personality and a minimum of dick pics Be polite never aggressive. We believe that if your profile is good enough couples who are looking for single males will find you. Pretty much no couple will ever say "come over right now". Let it start slow. Be the kind of person who takes pride in your appearance. Well dressed, in-shape men just get more action. Be masculine. Couples are generally not looking for feminine or submissive men. Mention that you value discretion. The majority of swingers have lives outside of swinging and consider it important to keep their two worlds separate. Every couple is different of course. So let's hear the top 5 things other manhunters are seeking in a quality third!

1. Pictures on profiles that actually show your body type! Penis pic as your main profile pic is instant turnoff and ignore. Also face pic exchange is a must before we even start talking about meeting. Yes attraction matters a lot in this game. Your chances are probably not going to be high if you don’t take pride in your body and looks. 2. When contacting us address both of us and not just her! We are a couple that only do anything with both of us there and make that very clear in our profiles. Sending messages pretending the man does not exist gets you blocked. Can’t speak to both of us and you will not be meeting either of us. 3. Do not come across as a primitive caveman! If you are a self proclaimed Dom, alpha male bull we are not going to be interested at all. Nothing manly about it. A real man can show he is masculine without pushing his will on a woman and knows the best way to get what he wants is to give her what she wants. Besides that women have all the power in the lifestyle and call all the shots. 4. Don’t assume the husband on the other side is a cuckold with a small penis that has no idea how to please his woman, because most of the time you will be incorrect. Try to humiliate this guy and you are going to leave feeling rather inadequate. 5.Do not over sexualize the conversation when starting the conversation! Telling her how you want to tongue fuck her asshole or asking if she is a cum slut is not going to get her juices flowing. Try talking to her like she is a human being to start out with. You might be surprised at how much further you will get.

Iv had the pleasure of doing this a few times. The first was when we purchased a new washer and dryer. I actually forgot they where delivering that day and was cleaning house and when I clean I have on a small tank top and some really short shorts. 2 delivery guys where at my door I let them in and showed them where they go. I could see the staring at me as they where bringing in the washer and dryer so I began to bend more or be on all fours like I'm looking for something under the couch. I txt my husband and told him what was going on and he said I should try and see what happens. The 2 men where done setting them up and gave me paperwork to sign. After signing it I asked them if they enjoyed the view while I was cleaning, they didn't say anything they had a nervous look on their face. I told them it was ok and that I was doing it on purpose, I then asked if they wanted a blow job for a tip for doing a good job. The asked if I'm serious and I said yes so we went more to Living room and I got on my knees. They pulled their dicks out and I started sucking. I got so turned on that I stood up took my shorts off , got doggy and said fuck me.. that was a hot day.. the other times was pizza guys

We had an AT&T technician come to the house yesterday. I was at work and Mrs. Aiki was home. We joked about how we could get some kinky ideas to talk about from him being there. We have made the decision not to play without the other so we was just going to talk about it. She ended up knowing the guy. He went to our high school but was younger than us. He was talking about how he met his new lady. He mentioned that she use to be a swinger. Mrs. Aiki could not believe the words coming out of his mouth. Come to find out they met in the lifestyle. She told him about us and he added her on Facebook. Who knows, we may hear from him again. If I had been home we would have definitely offered to put on a show for him…

Sounds like what most non swinging folks think about Swingers. That all men have little dicks so their wives have to go to others to be satisfied. Not something I would want to use as a Swinging adult.