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As a woman with a Lesbian side, I ask myself that question whenever I hit it off with a cute girl. But even if there is mutual Lezzi interest, I have found that being bi can also be a deal breaker. Quite a high percentage of Lesbian women don't want to be involved with another woman who also likes men. Men, OTOH, don't care if a woman is licking other pussy.

I admire the fact that she considered a threesome where one of the men wasn't you, her husband, and you were good with the idea of not even being there. A hot, tight couple. Wonderful! In my future society fantasy world, people are in the lifestyle first, meet, fall in love while having sex with others, then get married, rather than the other way around. Call me weird, but to me these stories are so romantic.

True, and for two reasons: A guy putting his dick in a girl's bum hole almost always cums much more quickly than usual, so him getting off once or twice beforehand evens out the timing, but then he's spent for a long while. (We women cum hard, but not necessarily faster with DP.) Second, once a guy's dick is in a bum, it's not going anywhere else except the shower for a good scrubbing with antibacterial soap. There have been occasions, however, where one or both of our men have gone from bum hole to bum hole among us women. No harm in that, right?

No, I haven't tried DVP, I am not interested in getting stretched; on the other hand big YES to fucklicling, one of my favourite ways for the guys to finish.

As the others have stated, there are so many negatives with this couple that I'd also suggest you avoid them. From experience I can tell you that an experience with them would be disappointing to you, and to your husband. How do you approach them now? Simply and honestly, tell them after thought that the two of you are no longer interested - have a great life. If he asks why, do not tell him your reasons - it's none of his business, and a revelation will only lead to argument. Continue to search for another couple or female. You'll find them eventually, and your husband will be quite happy then. Better to have patience than a letdown. Best of luck . . .

We agree. And keep in mind although there are common threads of thought, expectations, desires, endless different ever-changing rules and go/no-go (by individual/couple, single, solo) one time event to poly relationship. Variations/mix like Lottery numbers. Of coarse in the end it is the two of you, your choices. I will share what we have told couples, singles and solos new to or in the lifestyle: Although many do try to address this like dating it really isn’t but everyone has their own comfort level. Use of swing sites is fine but often open more as a source of entertainment. Most, not everyone, but I would venture 80% of those who are active in the LS are quick to draw the line on too much written/telephone conversation. Best communication is always personal, in person. Contact on line but early on arrange in person public meeting. Public place always but enough privacy to talk openly. This would include a hard and fast rule, only platonic, friendly people getting to know one another. No intimate contact at all. And even here once, twice and move forward or move on. We always advocate meeting like minded people at parties (home or club), hosted meet n greats (public) LS events and private hosted LS groups. You meet like minded people, loads of fun….and it is social, no sex participation required. The best way to meet people.

Plus, hard to read all back-lit like that.

I read this twice and I am having trouble figuring out what happened and what aspect you are looking for an opinion on...

Damn, I (Daniela) quoted the wrong post right above.

Daniela and I play alone and have no rules. Since we are now within a closed group of married couples, it is easy, stress free, and frequent. It allows for us, all of us, to have more sex and more sexual variety. In many instances the primary benefit is that one of us can watch the combined kids while the others play, then switch off. We have also gone on long weekends and vacations with others in our group. I agree that there is fun in playing while your spouse is around, but we don't have to watch one another fuck all of the time. Plus, there is nearly as much joy in "bringing it home" and reclaiming with one another after whatever happened has happened.

Hey, this is Daniela. I read this post by my husband and have to respond. I had a lover before we got married and he liked to pull out of my pussy or mouth and have me finish him with a hand job for us to watch him shoot. He was pretty good in the amount and distance. At first, to me it looked like an eighth rest in the air. Once he said, if you rub the lamp the right way it will make the genie come out. Thereafter, that image was on my mind whenever I finished him that way. Out popped Aladdin above him. I was Jasmine! Do I get three wishes? I would get my wishes granted only if I asked and he agreed before the genie came out of the lamp, not after. Playing with the mess I’d tell him that well, You can’t put the genie back in the bottle. He never shot it over my face, but sometimes into my mouth and on my belly or tits, and on my back if we were doing doggie. He wouldn’t lick it, but would spread it around, fill my belly button, make designs on my tits. I like doggie, but if he was going to pull out and shoot, I preferred to see it. None of the men I play with now do this.

In BOTH CASES, BOTH MEN get to "feel each other's COCK" rubbing together! OMG, it's BISEXUAL BLISS and in both cases the wife involved was ALSO HAVING FUN! Never did both with the same couple so can't say what a wife might prefer, except that DVP wife was quite VERBAL as she and I "led the narration" of just how fucking KINKY IT WAS to have TWO COCKS fucking her pussy! I feel SO FORTUNATE to have been included in such a totally CARNAL EXPERIENCE.

Yeah, my question too.

Absolutely Not, I am a Midwest middle aged male married for 10 years and the wife would be Shocked if she knew that I love to SUCK and Swallow another man's CUM. Wish she would join me, but this is the life I currently live in. Swing bi, thanks

She knows I am curious and would love to see/participate.

My wife encouraged my bi side many years ago and has enjoyed watching me since! She loves to lay back and masturbate while my partner and I play...really turns her on.