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Holy shit.....I woulda been pissed too....

Let me get this straight? Your wife says no to you having sex in a way you’ve been asking for, then without any explanation does it twice in front of you with another man…….and your response is You really didn’t lose anything????? Some people should just remain silent.

Why is your post written like a poem? I'd suggest you think through the idea of your wife going to Jamaica and having unprotected sex with a local. Imagine the number of partners, from all over the world, that someone like that would have.

Going over the ground rules with everyone involved is crucial and if you don't go over the rules this is what will happen. One problem I first saw was that you admitted that both of you were half buzzed, bad idea. Next, are you sure she was an anal virgin, maybe she has done it before? Anyway it happened, now what to do about it. I think both should stop until you both get on the same page with your rules. This is not uncommon, I have really seen problems about going bareback or ejaculating inside her. Having rules and sticking to them is important and later down the road you may adjust your rules. Talk this out and don't let this get between you, but don't swap until your rules are agreed upon by both!

It's great that you are back, posting kellimc.

I have some acquaintances who were involved in production at The Armory. For those of you into kink and BDSM, you know the place I'm talking about. A number of big name stars (and many more lesser stars) have filmed there and I've had the opportunity to meet a few in social situations after the shoots, like drinks, dinner, after-parties. On a couple of occasions I was on set but behind the camera. Unfortunately, the Armory has not been used for a few years.

Not sure why you would feel the need to travel all the way to Jamaica to find a black man to have sex with your wife! There seems to plenty of guys selling themselves as BBC online everywhere. As for the bareback thing I am sure you are well aware of the risks. If you are okay with potentially getting a STI or possibly raising a child that isn’t yours for the sake of your wife’s fantasy that is your call.