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She's not interested and he is looking to change you into what he is looking for...and that isn't you. When we started out, we kind of did the same thing. Found a couple that wasn't really a match but were close to what we thought we wanted (but not really). It was taking too long to find a good match so we were willing to settle for 'close enough'...even thought they weren't. Big surprise, it took awhile but we finally realized that we were just wasting time with them. In the end we moved on and found a much better match. Finding a great match is hard and takes time, but it really is worth the effort. Keep looking and stop spending effort on putting a square peg into a proverbial round hole (pun not intended). Good luck but try again.

That is how I met my present bf. Maybe that future society is near! 🙂 My experience with having fun with delivery guys.....not actually a delivery guy but with a hotel staff. I was on a holiday overseas. The hot shower was not working so I called the front desk and complained about it. He said he is going to check it out. The name sounds like the attractive guy I met when we checked in and a naughty plan came to my mind. I didnt put any clothes on but only the towel and waited til he got up our room. My partner was onboard with the plan and went out quickly. With fingers crossed, he personally checked it and explained the bldg maintenance guy was not yet around. As he entered the bathroom, I let the towel fall down. He blushed but did not back down and continued to engage me in a conversation while looking at the right spots on my body. But suddenly, it appears like an electric shock hit him and hurriedly told me he will call bldg maintenance right away and left. I was too puzzled at his behavior. I thought probably we should have cleaned up my partners clothes and things off the bed first and hid them. Maybe he realized I was not alone in the room and there is a hubs or bf with me. End of fun.

This isn’t an answer some want to hear, we enjoy being alone in separate rooms. Nobody gets jealous, nobody has to hold back, everyone is free to be themselves. My swing partner lover does things my true lover husband doesn’t do which makes swapping so much fun. I don’t want every sex partner to do the same thing. I also don’t hide what I do with others to the man I’m with for life.

I admire the fact that she considered a threesome where one of the men wasn't you, her husband, and you were good with the idea of not even being there. A hot, tight couple. Wonderful! In my future society fantasy world, people are in the lifestyle first, meet, fall in love while having sex with others, then get married, rather than the other way around. Call me weird, but to me these stories are so romantic.

I also would say to throw this one back.

You don’t need this couple … there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Plus, hard to read all back-lit like that.

I read this twice and I am having trouble figuring out what happened and what aspect you are looking for an opinion on...

Ooh, another possibility - the wife and neighbor had had something more than a discussion at some earlier time. It would explain the ease with which this all took place. That may have been a repeat performance.

It does feel different, but I prefer vaginal sex over anal. Some women really get off on anal sex, I can take it or leave it. Oral sex is better than anal for me and 69 is the best.

We would come dressed in normal shorts and tops. Watch and go with the flow.

I have an alternate fuck-licking fantasy. It's where my wife sits on me and rides me cowgirl style, and a cute guy or girl licks her butt from behind, maybe slipping my cock in their mouth from time to time...

My swing buddy loves fuck-licking! We have never had a problem finding a guy who was OK with it. Usually I get under her 69 and position myself so I can lick her pussy and clit. Our guests gets behind her on his knees and fucks her doggie if there is enough room on the bed. If not, she and I slide down so my head is hanging almost off the bed and he stands while fucking her doggie. I am bi so it is fine if his balls go back and forth over my nose, his cocks comes out and drags across my face, or his cum drips down into my mouth when he cums. Most women and about 1/4 of the guys are also OK with being the 69 person underneath her. It is always a super hot session!

My favorite fuck lick story happened in the public room at one of our favorite clubs. We had a group and about 4 or five couples watching us go. I was on top facing him with my back to the group. I was so fucking turned on I decided turn around and ride him reverse so they could see me fully with my pussy open wide and wrapped around my husbands penis. I also loved that they could see him as well and I kept pulling his cock out of me would jerk him off. One of the women came in and joined us and started to suck my husbands cock while I held his shaft. After a moment, she guided his penis back inside me and then planted her face on my pussy. i held her head in place and had one of the most powerful orgasms of my life while our friends watched. There is nothing like oral with penetration.

I have one fuck-lick experience with a guy. After having his Viagra, he had his erection on for over two hours. We changed and tried every position. He pumped, slow, fast and furious but would not shoot his cum. I had already orgasm ed three times over. It was his idea that we do a 69 with me on top. Then he requested that my husband fuck me from behind while he was licking me. I loved the warmth of his tongue on my clit and the bareback fuck from my husband. When my husband signaled that he was about to shoot his cum, I asked my guy to stop licking me. But, he started to lick me more vigorously and after my husband had cum inside me, he licked up all the juice. I was surprised, but very pleased.

Yes, but we are a crowd that don't kiss and tell.