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Hate to be a skeptic, but this seems really fake and based on the OP’s replies, seems to me it was posted just for their own amusement. I could be wrong though.

It is all about who you meet and who they are. Trying to fit people in a definition….a box with a label…..is tough. Just like swinging and ENM is not the majority norm. Yet cheating is a rabid thing, high percentage strictly self proclaimed monogamous men and women (estimated around 50%) participate in yet publicly are unaccepting of are far more accepting and forgiving others for stepping out but not swinging, ENM, lesbian, gay, bi…..or anything else for that matter. There are many lesbian and gay men in long term monogamous relationships, and a small percentage that are poly, ENM variations and yes swinging. We have met a few dozen or more, some at house parties. More lesbians than gay men in large part that even in the swing lifestyle bi/gay men are still some what shunned. I will also say that in our experience lesbians at a party to meet other lesbians or bi women, though only those bi women who have not been with a man recently. And mostly preferred a group, kitten pile. In our private lives our vanilla lesbian friends we have learned that some prefer an emotional lesbian life partner but have in the past and a few still currently will now and again enjoy a male friend. But as one of my best friends put it. “I love a nice cock now and again I just can’t stand the balls…..and many times the ass that is attached to it.” So there are all sorts of variations to people.

It’s amazing how stupid some people really are. Clearly he’s upset about this and your advice is simply be happy you feel scorned and humiliated, at least your wife got anal. This is exactly why swinging fails so often. Idiots giving advice!

From the sounds of it - you two know how to have a good time!