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Hate to be a skeptic, but this seems really fake and based on the OP’s replies, seems to me it was posted just for their own amusement. I could be wrong though.

After two years of hubby letting me keep my boyfriend/ex-fiance while he didn't play, I got over my jealousy and would approach acquaintances of mine from the gym, coffee shop, bookstore, from church even. We would date them together: take them to dinner, the theater, concerts, even on vacation with us (separate rooms), paying for everything and never expecting anything. We would never come on to her, but create opportunities for her to take it further. Some, having been given the opportunity, were willing to fuck hubby; but only a few let me watch or get involved. Regardless of the outcome, there were no hard feeling or regrets by anyone and we still occasionally get together with all of the women. Two in particular who are married have socialized with us from time-to-time with their husbands. Both guys know of their wive's past with us and have brought it up. With one we've had vanilla discussions about things like travel. The other husband has asked for explicit details. (I think he wanted to confirm the kinky things his wife told him.) We have not, however, played with any of them again.

Some are "Gold Star" Lesbians, who have never been penetrated by a man, and will only be with another who is the same. And if you're thinking... yes, I've been rejected by one. Two, actually. For me, it's the balls and the thought of what they produce that I find most attractive. Which leads me to another thought: I know one Lesbian couple (definitrly not Gold Star) and several hetero ones who conceived by artificial insemination (not IVF), the turkey baster thing. It puzzles me why they didn't just have sex with the intended father and skip the complications. If you want to avoid any semblance of lovemaking, just do it doggy.

It is all about who you meet and who they are. Trying to fit people in a definition….a box with a label…..is tough. Just like swinging and ENM is not the majority norm. Yet cheating is a rabid thing, high percentage strictly self proclaimed monogamous men and women (estimated around 50%) participate in yet publicly are unaccepting of are far more accepting and forgiving others for stepping out but not swinging, ENM, lesbian, gay, bi…..or anything else for that matter. There are many lesbian and gay men in long term monogamous relationships, and a small percentage that are poly, ENM variations and yes swinging. We have met a few dozen or more, some at house parties. More lesbians than gay men in large part that even in the swing lifestyle bi/gay men are still some what shunned. I will also say that in our experience lesbians at a party to meet other lesbians or bi women, though only those bi women who have not been with a man recently. And mostly preferred a group, kitten pile. In our private lives our vanilla lesbian friends we have learned that some prefer an emotional lesbian life partner but have in the past and a few still currently will now and again enjoy a male friend. But as one of my best friends put it. “I love a nice cock now and again I just can’t stand the balls…..and many times the ass that is attached to it.” So there are all sorts of variations to people.

I prefer home videos of real people. Swingers or not. Shared wives. Mature. More real situational or cockold. Sex play that mimics real life situations rather than staged/acted.

Part of this may stem from meeting these friends inside of some LS venue. I sometimes wonder if having the sexual part enter into it too early can be a problem. If there were some well established commonality before things became sexual it might be different. This plays out in the Vanilla world as well. Consider the "one night stand" as opposed to a couple that starts dating after having been acquaintances , then friends who eventually become lovers. My sons community that I mentioned earlier is an example.

We're like you guys, long time nudists and visit our local club on a regular basis and very much enjoy the evening dances/ discos on Fridays and Saturdays. After all these years I still get the best thrills ever being there. Nearly all the woman wear sexy clothing to begin with, along with the accompanying stockings and suspenders. So horny! The men of course will normally be naked from the start. Most husbands let their wives dance with other male guests, whether married or single. I always get a buzz watching my wife dancing with other men and the fun she has with them. In the early days, my biggest problem generally was avoiding actually cumming when dancing with another female partner. Even if I only had a semi. I would get so worked up with the atmosphere and the company I was with, that usually the slightest touch on my penis, whether it was a brush against the females body or her actual hand was enough to start me off. A firm squeeze to my tip was the only cure usually. Nowadays, as you say, it's mainly precum only.

There have been times when I've gotten really wet at nudist resorts. Easier to deal with than an erection, I suppose. But it is the beautiful naked females that cause me to moisten up, not the men. A woman can do it for me visually alone. A guy, I need to know first.

Places like nudist beaches (Haulover and Hippie Hollow) are perfect places for guys to show off attributes that they want to show off. Like large penises. I have seen guys at both of those places walking around with erections and body jewelry to help them maintain their erections. They love to be complimented. It has been a great place for me to pick up boy toys. There are not as many women in nudism compared to men (from what I have seen). Hippie Hollow has a lot of gorgeous men and sometimes I am the only female out there on weekdays. Now on weekends there are lots of swinger, and poly couples. It is a great meet up place to make new friends.