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If you hadn't picked up on it, this is Daniela writing again, and having my husband to post under his account. I think he would rather me get my own account. Maybe later if I keep posting. My sex life started pretty early, I’m not sure if it is permitted for me to give my age here. I began with both boys and girls at almost the same time. Being involved with women was much more gentle and understanding than the boys’ approach. My first experiences with males was with boys who were my age, but some of the females were older, older teenagers, that is. Those were great learning experiences. I think my early hetero experiences would have been better if I had sought out older, more experienced males as well. Like, when you’re learning to drive you don’t go out in a car with someone else who has gotten his license or is just learning. Another major thing was that I was able to get an IUD put in me when I was fourteen. Long story, but my parents didn’t know. Thereafter, I didn’t need to worry about going back for refills, hide anything, or remember to take something every day. My mom would take me in for regular gyno checkups because I couldn’t drive, but I was able to get the word to my doctor that I had an IUD and he kept it secret. Besides my older female sex partners and a couple of boyfriends, my first married man was the father of my female high school friend. I don’t know what the law is in the state we were in at the time, but it may have been a crime. I, however, had and have no regrets. It all seemed so normal, and things were the same with my friend and her mother, his wife afterwards. You could say that I was the aggressor, I enjoyed it, kept it going, and thought, “What’s the big deal”? In college I dated guys my age, but I also had relationships with two married male professors and several female ones. From this, I learned that married men (and women) are more appreciative of me and the sex that I gave them, even though they are getting it regularly at home. I knew because I pressed them to give me that information and the details, which made me happy and satisfied. My most intense relationship during this time was with the husband of a female friend, both of whom were in graduate school. This time, not only did it seem normal, but I learned the pleasure and satisfaction of knowing the wife of the man who I was involved with. At times I thought that she may have been suspicious, but she had no problem leaving me alone with him for many minutes or hours. Right out of college, you could say I dated normally, but more so, even conservatively. At first, I dated trying to develop a relationship. If I slept with a guy, or girl, it was never sooner than a month and the third date. I aimed for a long-term relationship and still dated regular guys with goals of permanence, but then eventually pretty much stopped in favor of married men. That eventually became my default. Usually having two married men going at the same time worked best and was very satisfying for me. The other thing about our current arrangement is that I and my husband have gotten to explore sexual things that I’ve heard about, but never tried, like threesomes and swapping spouses next to each other. It’s not just whether it is an MFM or FFM, but also the relationships among the players. An MFM where one of the men is my husband is a lot different than where neither are. An FFM where I am the third to another couple, which my favorite, is totally different for me than another woman joining my husband and me. Although we've done other things like some of our all-in orgies, multiple men with one woman, a bunch of women with one guy, I prefer threesomes and foursomes. I don't know why I felt compelled to further explain myself, but if there are any other questions I'll look in sometime.

Led Zeppelin…….always good. Kashmir……the beat is incredible, best way to get things started.

Thank you, Daniela. You say that an MFM where neither guy is your husband is different from one in which he is. Care to explain the difference?

How I miss the old days of open room group play parties. As more and more joined in the scent that built in the air was intoxicating. Couples and singles all tangled and in a bunch like a can of worms all wrapped in and around each other moving from on to another. More often than not not finishing with the one or two you started with or the same area of the mattresses on the floor. Regularly not knowing who was on you, in you, touching you….. The tastes all commingling. Neither of us are bi but we also were not shy. Moaning, groaning, giggling, laughter, squeals and screams of pleasure. A buffet of tastes and smells. We always had back music playing to add to the mood, sultry, heavy beat etc. one very hot afternoon session about 90 minutes just as a chorus of moans and groans it got quiet suddenly when “sex and candy” 20 plus men and women just all busted out laughing. Often I will start by giving my female playmate an orgasm orally, then enter her and after I cum go back down on her for a repeat regardless of condom use or not or if she has had more partners than just me. These days may women are pleasantly surprised with this. The Queen does the same but neither of us are interested in Bi play. Go figure.

Hey, this is Daniela. I read this post by my husband and have to respond. I had a lover before we got married and he liked to pull out of my pussy or mouth and have me finish him with a hand job for us to watch him shoot. He was pretty good in the amount and distance. At first, to me it looked like an eighth rest in the air. Once he said, if you rub the lamp the right way it will make the genie come out. Thereafter, that image was on my mind whenever I finished him that way. Out popped Aladdin above him. I was Jasmine! Do I get three wishes? I would get my wishes granted only if I asked and he agreed before the genie came out of the lamp, not after. Playing with the mess I’d tell him that well, You can’t put the genie back in the bottle. He never shot it over my face, but sometimes into my mouth and on my belly or tits, and on my back if we were doing doggie. He wouldn’t lick it, but would spread it around, fill my belly button, make designs on my tits. I like doggie, but if he was going to pull out and shoot, I preferred to see it. None of the men I play with now do this.

Sorry I got turned on while telling y’all that did not realize how badly I spelled

You’re such a romantic 🙄

To each hi/her own. But the lines between slutty/ forward (in your face)/. Can be blurry. i (Mr) love to see sexually free women who know what they want and go after it. But we are at a hotel party some time ago. There was a couple attending. She was curvy and had an okay body, lots of freckles, not very attractive but a little makeup could have helped. Not sure if she was trying to put on a show got her man or was really a little desperate but she was propositioning everyone. We heard her hit on 2 other couples and get shot down before she came to us, said hello, almost no intro chit-chat and said “l’ll do anything; suck you dick, eat your pussy. Whatever you want.” We politely passed and went to another part of the room. if she would have been a little more attractive, would she have had any takers? Was it slutty or desperate? Which was the turn off? Another party we went to had far too many single guys. We decided early in, we were intimidated especially because they were a little too aggressive and were not going to get baked or play. We would have a few drinks, maybe chat, and maybe watch a little. Found the gang bang room with 2 girls. It really kind of disgusted us. Women didn’t seem into it. Guys were too rough and disrespectful and either lined up trying to get in a hole or drinking and jeering from the sideline. Were they too slutty? (We almost had the impression they could have been paid prostitutes.) Anyway grabbed our bottle and left sweating to never go to another event where single guys were allowed.

I would say yes, a woman can be too slutty for me, even in the lifestyle. At first I was intimidated by my future wife having a number that was four to five times mine when we started having sex after we met, even though when single she had a rule of like five dates (she would almost always pay) and two months before having any sex with a guy. Some boob play and blowjobs as they got close to those hurdles and if all was going well. Then I embraced her past and enthusiastic attitude towards sex, so much that after we were married I encouraged her to hotwife. But it was still a slow, measured thing with guys she either knew from her past and got reintroduced, or men she knew and slowly started down the path toward seduction with me involved along the way to make clear what was going on. Now that we play only within our closed group, I like it a lot better. It's far away from stranger sex, we all know each other well, and even care about one another. My wife still plays, a lot, but it is limited to six other well-chosen guys (and their wives), which seems to me a lot better than fucking random men. There are never condoms, which gives me comfort that because we are closed the danger and nastiness of stranger sex isn't there. There is in our group, however, plenty of kinky, crazy, "slutty" play, dirty talk, name calling (you haven't lived until a guy and your wife use the word "cunt" while fucking), or watch two other guys DPing your wife. But somehow it is nowhere near slutty to me as if she just had quick, normal sex using a condom with a stranger.

Recently Rock and I were at a country western bar in San Bernardino we had had a few drinks and sitting with friends . I was wearing a while blouse half cup bra jeans and calf high boots 👢. A guy I did not know asked me to dance I turned to tell Rock I was going to dance with him but he was busy hitting on some dyed and tried cowgirl , I went to dance with the cowboy. He was good looking guy wearing jeans boots and a hoodie. He put his hands on my shoulders then as the music played he put them up around my neck and gave me a kiss. As the music played I could feel is hard cock rub up against me. He then Linda move his right am around. I realized while holding the sleeve of the hoodie he sloypilled out his arm. The hood was a zip up and was unzipped I could feel him playing with my left tit and pinching the nipple as we moved around the dance floor. A few minutes went by and I feel the zipper in my jeans go down. He put his finger in my gstring and started rubbing my clit to the beat of the music. I was getting soo wet when suddenly he stuck his fat I get in my pussy oh my god he held me tightly as we danced and he finger fucked me untill I came!!!! He slowyremoved his finger rubbed my clit a few times Szilard me up squeezed my big d cup tit agin. Then he slides his arm back into sleeve and as the music ended he pulled me close and gave me a deep French kiss. I walked to the table to tell Rock but he was getting head from our neighbors wife oh well I will tell him later. I love cowboy bars

Not for me, usually it's a woman that won't do much or has a lot of rules that is a problem. I like an aggressive, all out woman when it comes to sex. I realize that everyone usually have a line that they won't cross, but I like a woman that rides that line instead of never getting near the line.

We have had two MFMs and two FMFs. Hubby is sitting here and says that the FMFs were his fav. FYI...the FMF was probably my favorite also ;-)