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  1. 5 points
    You need a thick skin to play this sport. Bad news: you will be rejected up the ying yang and you will not know why. Good news: there is an almost unlimited supply of new recruits for you to play with.
  2. 5 points
    You say you just started in the lifestyle, so (maybe) you haven’t been in it long enough to know this … but some couples want — or at least are willing — to be good friends and others just want to have great sex! I have no idea whether the other wife’s stated reason for breaking it off is true or not, but assuming for the moment that it is, the fact that your husband managed to be attentive to her physical needs, perhaps even getting her off with his hands and his mouth, still might not be enough for her if what she *really* wants is a hard dick in her pussy! We know of a couple on this board who will play with another couple twice and then they’re ready to move on. We ourselves had a couple that we THOUGHT we were getting along great with. We went out to dinner with them twice and played with them three times. Then they ghosted us … just completely stopped replying to our emails. We’re still at a loss to understand it. I’m sorry this happened to you, but I have no words of advice for you except to tell you that this happens in the LifeStyle, and all you can do is accept that it happens, suck it up, and go on to the next adventure.
  3. 3 points
    I would be careful about trying to make her something she is not! The way you describe things it really doesn’t sound like something she wants to do in the first place. Why push it? A woman does not need to be slutty to be good in bed. My missus is far from slutty, but is by far the best sex I have ever had. Might take a little more effort on the man’s part to have a good sex life with a woman who is not slutty, but passion trumps slutty any day of the week and if you spend more time learning what makes her tick you might be surprised how good things can be. Probably why so many guys like submissive women is because it is a hell of a lot easier to use someone then it is to actually please them.
  4. 2 points
    Been here, done this, still don't know why but it's okay. Look at it as they have saved you time by telling you now instead of waiting and eventually ghosting you. "Group ED" is a real thing, especially if you were raised with a religious background. It can get better as time goes on and your husband gets more comfortable with being naked in a sexual situation with others being present. It can also get worse as the man beats himself up for not being able to perform and he just keeps dwelling on the problem (if only there was a pill for this...wait, there is!). In the mean time, he is doing the right thing by doing what he can to satisfy the woman. It will be okay and move on to the next couple.
  5. 2 points
    Foundational to the LS is the notion of consent. Consent is never 'forever'; rather it is an ongoing negotiation. Foundational to the LS is the notion that no explanation is required. Anyone can say "no thank you" and the conversation is closed. Never take "no thank you", "we have decided to move on", "good luck in your journey" as a personal rebuke. It's not. It is an expression of their preference, not a referendum on whether you are intrinsically good, attractive, or whatever. Our advice, let go of "play" as your core reason to explore relationships and interactions with others in the LS; look at play as a benefit of the journey.
  6. 1 point
    Thank you! That was really nice☺️Good luck with the yard, I bet it looks great!
  7. 1 point
    One way to handle it is to have sex with each other, Lots of crazy sex. Another way is to get back on that horse. Maybe do so in a less public way. Hang out on a nude beach, go to a club and just 'check it out, no expectations'. Have sex together at a club, in public but without the stress of performing for a NEW partner. Get used to it. Oh and alcohol is not helpful, pot might not be as well so if that was part of your play, cut it off or cut back. We have been landscaping our front yard (not not her pussy, you all have such dirty minds...) actually the yard. We love it. It's a bit of an expression of us, thinking of the yard as a canvas. Another person saw what we had done and just stared and shook her head. Hmmm. Never said why, but something, GOD knows what was a miss for her. We were shattered. We want everyone to love what we did. We felt so low afterwards. NOT. We love it. It brings us joy. I learned a long time ago, you can't please everyone, even when you work really hard (no pun intended) to do so. You sound like sensitive (maybe too sensitive) caring folks that genuinely want to show your partners a good time. That's fucking great. You're amazing. Really. It wasn't a fit. If you had fun then find another couple. And please don't become bitter or jaded. The world needs amazing prople like yourselves.
  8. 1 point
    14 hours ago, older couple said: "At one swinger party, my wife got pretty drunk. They had a raffle to see which wife would be chosen to drink a 12 oz glass of semen donated by all the male guests during the party." Sorry, interesting story but the math doesn't work. Average ejaculation is one teaspoon. There are 6 teaspoons per ounce. 12 ounces = 72 teaspoons. 15 guys would need to ejaculate 5 times each to fill 12 ounces. Given the amount decreases after each time, each guy would have to cum 7-8 times to fill 12 ounces. And I don't believe anyone can chug 72 ounces of semen straight without puking, especially someone already drunk.
  9. 1 point
    Short answer: Very! A professional masseuse wants to protect his/her reputation, and screwing clients and getting found out would sink them.
  10. 1 point
    My wife was 20 at the time and we had been married over a year. She was very hot and had a fantastic pair of legs on her. One would have sworn she had been an exotic dancer prior due to the tone of her legs. She always got me instantly hard flaunting them which she enjoyed doing when we went out as well. We had sex often and after awhile it was becoming routine so we decided to spice it up a little by playing fantasy games. In the middle of hot sex, we would take turns envisioning we were with someone else and then would blurt out who it was. It drove me wild hearing her moan another guy's name and knowing she was thinking it was him fucking her. This led to a lot of hot, wild, fun sex. Finally one evening, I asked her if she would let another guy fuck her if I was okay with it. I told her I would love to watch her in action. She said that while it sounded exciting, she wasn't sure she could do it and would be embarrassed if it got to that point and she backed out. I asked if for her first time she would be more comfortable trying it on her own. She admitted she would. It was at that same time that we were supposed to have a repairman come to fix a leak in our master bathroom wall. The night before he was to come, we had fantastic sex as I told her she could flirt and flaunt with him and perhaps give it to him. She went wild as I fucked her and said, "imagine his cock getting so hard for you and wanting to put it in you." "Imagine him pounding out his lust for you deep in your hot pussy." She kept moaning, "fuck me, fuck me, fuck meeeeee." I said, "so are you going to do this?" She said, "yes." It was agreed that whatever happened, when I came home from work, she would be wearing whatever she had worn to entice the guy and leave her hair as it was when he left and also the bed as well. She is 5'5", shoulder length dark blond hair, blue eyes, average size tits, and those luscious toned legs of hers. At work the next day, I had trouble focusing on work as I thought about what might be going on. I had to keep fighting off getting a hard on thinking of my sexy young wife being fucked by another man. In the late afternoon, I had returned to my office to see there was a message on my desk saying my wife had called. I closed my door and called her. She said, "well I soloed today." Wanting to be fully sure what she meant, I asked her what that meant and she said, "I got fucked." My cock sprang to life. I asked her if the guy had kissed her and she said, "a lot. His tongue was in my mouth often" I asked her if he had cum in her and she said, "oh yes." I then asked her if she had enjoyed it and she again replied, "oh yes." I couldn't wait to get home. When I walked into the house, she greeted me, her hair majorly messed up and she was wearing a skimpy, tight super sexy body suit and heels. We hotly kissed and she took my hand and led me to the bedroom. The bed was messed up majorly from where he had fucked her. I got her on the bed and couldn't wait to get my cock in her. She told me all the lusty details as I fucked her. She said the guy kept eyeing her legs and she made sure to provide him various hot poses constantly. He often commented on her legs and she would thank him. At one point he asked her if we ever had a secret and she told him that we did not as we told each other everything. She said later she realized that was his way of opening the door to do her. He finished his days work and she offered him a cold beer. He said he would have one if she would join him and she did. They sat at the dining room table with her at a 90 degree angle from him again flaunting her legs to him which he kept staring at. She finally blurted out, "you know, I've been thinking about what you said about having a secret and think I would like to have one." He sat his beer down, stood up, as did she and he grabbed her and pulled he tightly against him as he French kissed her and ground his mid-section into hers. She said she could feel his cock growing against her as his hands roamed and squeezed her bare ass area. They went into the bedroom and he got her on the bed on her back and started to eat her pussy but she said he only did that for a brief period as he told her later he wanted to get his cock in her before she changed her mind. She said his cock was rock hard, about the same size as mine but with a huge hard head on it. He guided it to her pussy and she said she climaxed as entered her. As he fucked her, his hands roamed her succulent legs. She said he got so into it that at one point she moaned, "oh baby, fuck me, fuck me." She said he told her what a fantastic fuck she was. She said after a few climaxes of hers, he finally groaned and she felt his cock spurting deep into her. He enjoyed kissing her as his cock began to wither and he told her how fantastic that had been. That was my hot, sexy wife's first experience with another man. More hot stories to cum as she got into it majorly and it still drives me wild.
  11. 1 point
    So my hot, leggy young wife had let a repairman fuck her while I was at work and her second time she felt comfortable enough for me to watch another guy fuck her. He fucked her twice and she sucked him off once. I ended up getting a good job offer which included the professional move. We were put up in a hotel/motel while we looked for a place to live. I was at work one day and she said she had laid out in the sun by the pool and ended up meeting a business man who was staying there. He began flirting with her and it ended up that he was staying in the room next to ours. The rooms had one of those adjoining doors for family/friends who are staying side by side. Anyway, she had told me how the guy hit on her and I asked her if she wanted him to fuck her and she said, "sure". He was at least twice her age she said. She was still in her bikini as she sucked me off as I fantasized about what was possibly about to soon happen. She fixed her hair and put on just the right amount of makeup and jewelry and her heels. She then fully opened the adjoining room door on our side and knocked on his door. I heard it open soon after and him say, "well hello." He closed his door but I kept ours open so I could hear better. I soon heard the distinct sounds of hot kissing. Not long after, I heard the sound of her sucking his cock and him groaning, telling her how good that felt. Soon there was brief silence, and then he obviously was eating her pussy as she was moaning loudly and telling him how good that felt. She soon said, "I want your cock in me." He said, "oh you do, huh baby?" She said, "yes, now, please." I heard the rustling sound of the bed followed by her soon moaning as he obviously was entering her. My cock was rock hard. I heard him say, "these legs of yours drove me wild all day baby. I fantasized about fucking you." She moaned repeatedly and soon said, "ohhhhh fuck me, fuck me, fuck meeeee." He said, "damn you're hot baby. You are one fantastic fuck." She moaned, "ohhhh, don't stop, don't stop. Pound me hard with that cock of yours." Soon I heard him groan and say, "I'm gonna cum baby." She moaned, "ohhhhh yes, yes, yes. Give it to me. I want it. I want to feel that warm cum spurting deep inside of me." He let out a groan and I knew he was cumming in my hot, leggy, young wife. She moaned, "ohhhh soooo good. Ohhhhh yeah." They kissed some more and soon she returned to our side where I fucked the heck out of her hot, cum-filled pussy, soon adding my own. I fucked her again in the morning before I had to leave for work.
  12. 0 points
    Hi! My husband and I (34/36) just started trying out the lifestyle. We met a couple on Reddit, got drinks, then played. We got together again for dinner then another time to play. We felt like we had really hit the jackpot with them because we hit it off right away. We all got along great together as friends, and had a great time together. After the second time playing, though, the wife of the other couple told us she didn’t want to play with us anymore because of my husband’s group sex anxiety ED. We were totally blindsided and really disappointed and upset as we saw this couple as lifelong friends. My husband has been trying to deal with his issues through medication and using psychological strategies, but he was unable to get a boner. However, he did make sure she was pleased and she even commented about how enthusiastic he was. We just feel like the rug was pulled out from under us and are really upset about losing friends. We also think we were just too emotionally invested and they obviously weren’t, which just makes it worse. I guess I’m asking for any advice on the best way to handle this as we’re feeling pretty down right now. TIA!
  13. 0 points
    I personally believe that there is a huge difference in not caring what your spouse is doing with others and her specifically saying she doesn’t want to do something sexually with you then doing it with someone else right in front of you without even an explanation? Again I’m not buying into the argument that this wouldn’t hurt your feelings or your relationship, I’m calling bullshit!
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