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There really isn’t a recipe or checklist to qualify. For those who enter the Lifestyle there are all sorts of variations on how and why. But there are general guidelines that can help and I’m sure you will hear of many from many different people here. I would also suggest reviewing the forums here and reading those that may apply to you. From our perspective, experience (nudist, swinger, LS party/event organizer, poly couple) we have advised a number of new couples and singles over the years. We have also observed and counsel a few that had some difficulty somewhere during their journey. A few things to keep in mind: 1. The two of you are the most important, to yourself and to each other, never sacrifice any part of yourselves or each other, for any reason. 2. Communication, truthful, open, no judgement, everything on the table bare your souls to each other communication. 3. This is an adventure, a journey not a destination, not a checklist to follow, not a sacrifice, not a tit for tat and the only obligation you have is to each other. 4. Communication, open honest truthful to each other. 5. Variations in the Lifestyle vary greatly from those who only attend Parties/events/locations but are only intimate/sexual with each other to highly active DTF solo/separate fantasy participants and everything in between. 6. Communication, with depth, trust, expectations concerns. I mentioned communication three times for a reason. You would be surprised how many couples, many years married think the communicate, but actually avoid honest open communication thinking they are sparing the spouse. If the two of you can’t talk with each other about anything/everything, details, likes/dislikes, wants, desires, needs…..then I would make that your first step into the lifestyle. Be adventurous with each other now…..not just sex but out and about. Meet and talk to other people, be engaging.

You know there are like 40,000 people waiting for you to upload your photos. I know it's so juvenile, but....I still love looking at naked pics.