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Maybe some good ideas here since some music is timeless, doesn't matter when it was first released. Swinger Soundtrack Music and sex

14 hours ago, older couple said: "At one swinger party, my wife got pretty drunk. They had a raffle to see which wife would be chosen to drink a 12 oz glass of semen donated by all the male guests during the party." Sorry, interesting story but the math doesn't work. Average ejaculation is one teaspoon. There are 6 teaspoons per ounce. 12 ounces = 72 teaspoons. 15 guys would need to ejaculate 5 times each to fill 12 ounces. Given the amount decreases after each time, each guy would have to cum 7-8 times to fill 12 ounces. And I don't believe anyone can chug 72 ounces of semen straight without puking, especially someone already drunk.

It is not uncommon for singles to pay more for everything compared to couples. Take cruises for example. You as a single pay more for cabins. Single males have, let's say a reputation, that proceeds them. We, as singles, pay a big price for the rudeness of other men before us. Some of us can be the best thing since sliced bread, but we need to prove that to the unknowing couples. If we need to pay the extra amount to enter a meet and greet so be it. If you can't pay, maybe you shouldn't play. Nobody wants to be stupid with their money, but no one wants to be around someone who is cheap. If we are polite, considerate, pay attention to the males of the couple instead of looking at his wife as if she was naked, they, couples, might be polite back and hark, might even invite the single for a second "interview" and might just lead to some fun for all. Single males need to get realistic and realize; "it is what it is" and not try to re-invent the wheel. Just a thought.

Having been a single female in the lifestyle and now part of a couple/triad I would like to address this question. Why are single females ok more so over the single male for a couple of reasons? 1. Single female “generally” (not always) are not as obnoxious in their approach. 2. And secondly like Mr. Goodtimes and others have pointed out they are rarer and more sought after by the masses. Here is where the big difference is in the lifestyle a single straight male and a single straight female are the least sought after. They offer little to nothing for the average lifestyle couple but for those who play separate they are needed and wanted, with that being said those couples who play separate are not in the majority in the lifestyle. The single bi-male and the single bi-female have more to offer and are more sought after because they fulfill a broader range of needs being able to please and play with both partners. Are there single bi-females who don’t know their manners within the lifestyle, absofuckinglutely...and they by far are as obnoxious as single men, possibly more so, because as bi-women and straight women go there isn’t a tell all sign to know if a woman is bi unless you see her actively engaged with another woman. So it’s really being brazen to assume all women at a club are bi but they do it. And I’ve seen many pay the price with the well deserved bop on the head by those women who aren’t bi. I am bi and have had my share of unsolicited groping by other bi-women and it pisses me off just as much as men who assume consent to grope just because we are all in the lifestyle. It seems that many have forgotten to be courteous in the lifestyle and to ASK permission before just groping others. I can honestly say in my years within the lifestyle I have NEVER made a straight woman uncomfortable by my actions. But I’ve seen other bi-women do just that but I’ve seen by far more single males do it too. Moral of the story is manners, manners, manners and most of all RESPECT for your play partners, everyone are people with feeling and emotions and while we are in the lifestyle for fun and to have sex with others, you have to take them into consideration – it’s not just about getting mine.

Alright, maybe I should have rephrased some things, so let me do that now... First, I was trying to make a simple point. It seems like these socials are against single males, well that's fine, but there is also another side to it... what about the single females? I'll get to that in a second... All I was saying was why do they push for the single females, and yet not want any single males, if it is a place where swingers can get together and meet, and that's what socials are about, meeting new people that have a common interest. I am sure that they are a lot of women out there that would appreciate a few more single men and a lot less single females. I am sure to some that it is nice to see females all over each other, but at the same time, I am pretty sure that they would like to see a few male and females getting it on too (and I am really sure that some females, seeing females all over each other, look at it like we do with two male getting it on...). Another observation I made was you saw females getting it on, but yet not one word was said to them. At the same time this other couple (male female) were getting it on and they were asked to take it to the room. All I am trying to say is... why the double standards? You can ask just about any straight female (single or couple) that has been to a social - how many times have you been groped, by a bi female, without them asking? This same thread is going on on Swingular, and I borrowed this quote from a female that responded: "Single females are in my opinion more pushy, more aggressive, and the bi ones have groped me more often and more aggressively then men (not that I have not been groped by men). It is just Bi-fems don't even bother to find out if I'm gay or not, just grope me anyway. Personally I find it more offensive because I am not gay." I am sorry if I didn't properly put it in to context, and yes, I could have used a better example, I was just making a statement. And like I said, that was my first as a single male... I never said that I hadn't attended one before, just not as a single. So I know all about respect. Maybe it was because I was a new face up here. By the way, I did end up meeting some cool couples that night.

I have ceased to be amazed at some people's "entitlement" attitude about a lot of different things. What I am still amazed at is someone thinking $70 is a lot for a night out and a little fun. Where do they usually go, McDonald's? How much do you pay to get in a concert? How often do you get laid at a concert? OK, OK, maybe after the concert, but still... I'm paying nearly $50 to fill up my jeep, $5 for a beer and a tip to the server. I paid $18.50 for a small pizza the other night at a bar. (I shared and only had two pieces myself for those of you in the exercise motivation threads with me). Can you and a fuck buddy hook up for next to nothing, just the gas for one of you to drive over? Sure, but a night out for $70 and you're bitching? Give me a break. Maybe I need to go to different places or change my hometown here or something. To go back to the OP a little, hey a couple payed to get in and you're there, what if they think you ought to have a go in some area you don't want to go? Think since you're there they're entitled and you're fair game? Maybe they're into tying people up and having sex in front of them just to tease them. Want to broaden your horizons a little? You're there, they payed to get in, everyone's fair game, right?

I get what he what he is saying. Me and my partner K have just split over her affair with her coworker. It's not the sex part but her doing it behind my back. I believe if they will cheat on you, then they will steal from you. Now I can handle a lot of things, but I will not go down the path she is headed. ADIOS!