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There are posts here about couples who have a "No Kissing" rule. I've realized that I enjoy seeing kissing, as deep as they want. Any others? Kissing isn't sex, but it makes it more intense and passionate, something I like doing and seeing.

As part of a poly family whose members only occasionally play outside of the family, our situation is not the same as regular swinging couples. But as a woman with an opinion, I will respond to the question, "Are both partners equals?" - NO. We are not equal because we are not the same, even before our poly family formed. There's a difference between women and men; men generally want more sex even in the rush of a weekday morning. Women have a greater capacity for it, taking three or four in a row, no problem. That's why, until recently, we women shared an outside boyfriend while the men didn't play. We women have a homosexual side, the men do not. One of the guys likes to take us women "fresh" then not watch in his post- orgasm state, while the other likes to "watch the show" in an excited state and go for sloppy seconds. Lora and I are the only ones who like a little BDSM. only with one another. A lot of verbal degradation, some slapping and pissing. We'd like the guys to be there as an audience, but they refuse. Recently, I became attracted to another man, and after meeting her, his wife as well. A little soft stuff with him without her knowledge was as far as I was willing to take it. The others in my family knew, and it became our fantasy. My husband turned the fantasy into reality with them. We all played, but it was very unequal. The other couple played mostly with Red and Lora, with hubby, Clair, and me only occasionally jumping in. It wasn't equal, but fantastic. So hardly anything is equal among couples because of individual differences and wants. It may appear unfair, but with love and kindness, it's for the best.

Within 3 mo ths of Sabrina and I moving in together (a week after we met) she told me she was bi and ❤️ loved having sex with girls. I was all in. I found a house party in El Paso the next weekend. After afew drinks and talking to lots of people, we ended up in a hot tub with three beautiful woman. They all started kissing 💋 and making out. They decided it was time to take the party to a king sizze bed. The four of them played for almost two hours. One of the other girls came over and started giving me head. After I came, Sabrina told me to go get several guys as the girls all wanted to fuck. I brought six guys back to the room and it turned into a huge orgy. I later found out this was not Sabrina's first orgy and it wasn't our last.