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She wanted me to finish with her last so when she felt it was right to drain us she rode his cock harder and harder while wanking me off telling me everything she was loving about it, she then sat on mine and again rode hard and fast which in fairness didn’t last long haha

Over the last year or so of our adventures into the lifestyle I have kept a blog on 360 of thoughts and encounters I thought others might enjoy. While 360 is a suitable forum for my postings I'm always running the risk that they might be deleted or my account suspended because of the adult nature of the posts. There is also the draw of the undesirables which I'll probably rant about at another time, lol. Until then, my last post there and first post here: I have realized in the hotwife lifestyle, men are at a slight disadvantage. I’m not talking about the sex, because the sex between my wife and I is the best it has ever been and it keeps getting better. What I am referring to is sharing in the excitement about a recent encounter with a friend. Due to how society generally views gender roles; women are able to have vanilla friends enjoy in their excitement. My wife has several of these friends and with each retelling she gets to experience the excitement. “You did what to him in the parking lot? OMG I am so jealous!” How many guys would react similarly? “Your wife did what to him in the parking lot?” I have shared with a few vanilla friends about our lifestyle and the responses I’ve received have been “Why?” and “How can I meet her in a parking lot?” So my excitement sharing is very limited and that has lead me to another realization. I need this forum to express my excitement and hopefully get a few “OMG I am so jealous” comments, lol. Our adventures have declined over the past few months, partially because we’ve tried to change up how we meet new people. But we’ve found that our original set up works best for us. After feeling comfortable with someone new (through chats, emails, phone calls, etc) we set up a public meet. My wife meets him and if things go well we all rendezvous for some fun. Most recently there was a guy we met through sls that my wife met and she really enjoyed the few drinks they shared. So much so after the establishment closed at midnight they found their way to the backseat of his SUV. On her way home she filled me in on the overview of the evening, “we talked about this and that and then this…oh and I blew him…” I couldn’t resist attacking her when she got home, but I did restrain a little to allow her to describe the evening. My wife takes great pride oral skills and so do I for that matter, lol. With her night ending so well and then coming home to my welcome, she remembered why we enjoy this lifestyle so much and how important it is to us because of the benefits we receive as individuals and as a couple. I hope someone can appreciate my excitement. The woman I’m married to, the love of my life, the mother of my children is also the fulfiller of my fantasies, what’s not to get excited about?

I wanted to finish 2nd also as I enjoyed her playing with my cock teasing me keeping me on the edge while she was enjoying and cumming over his bare cock

Bareback the only way, just as it’s intended dirty, raw unprotected sex is how it needs to be. Hot as hell

Bareback, I hope. Who finishes in me first doesn't matter to me, but hubby almost always goes second because he likes to watch the other guy while he's still in his pre-orgasm, excited state. An in-control, assertive woman. I admire that. Although I'm a tough cunt mostly in life, during sex I usually like a guy on top doing the work while I enjoy the ride.

This was our first year with plenty of fun. We enjoyed a few group parties, camping trips and one on ones. Linda had more partners because women can go more times without refraction.

We are equals with respect. I respect Linda’s decisions not pushing her into a situation she is not happy with and I feel she respects my choices.

Okay, I asked the question, I should answer, shouldin't I? More (much more,) than twenty-one. We had our first night at a swinger club on Nov. 30, 2002. By Feb. 15, we had been in situations with twenty-one partners. (Either foursome swaps which I counted as one, orgies where I counted the guys who had Mary, or threesomes.) We never slowed down that first year, and kept going for years and years - some slower than others, but we never stopped. Also, I'm confused about the 'other' votes. Yes, couplers, you explained and I thank you for that. But I'd be interested in why some picked 'other' rather than a specific number.

Mary and I had a kissing rule - we'd kiss others as often as possible. For us, it was a way to establish familiarity. When I kissed another woman, the way she kissed me back told me quite a bit about her sexual personality. Was she reserved, or ravenous? Mary told me that she could tell how much a man desired her from the way he kissed. Plus, it's a form of foreplay. If you won't kiss people other than your spouse because you feel it's too 'intimate,' that's fine - for you. For Mary and I, it was an intimate action leading (hopefully) to a lot more intimacy.

Instead of letting Alan be the one selecting others with posts on sites that catered to sexual meetings or even posting what we did I took charge. I found that most meetings were set up by men with wives going along. I was involved with all of our choices, though the choices were male focused, even the ones that were female bi focused. It’s hard to explain how our very first meeting went. Ten years later it still bothers me that a man told his girlfriend what to do and I allowed her because Alan wanted to watch. The whole scene was directed by a jerk and I went along.

You're not gonna score with my wife if you don't kiss her first 😘

Neither one of us would have sex with anyone without kissing involved! A good kisser will get me hard faster than a blowjob and a bad kisser will make it really hard for me to be interested. We both absolutely love making out. For us it is the best skill a lover can have and highly underrated.

Which guy came first? Finish the story!

Sex without kissing is silly. Somewhere someone came up with this rule that for me is crazy, it makes sex mechanical instead of sensual. We don’t have rules when it comes to enjoying others, others might have. We have met many new to swinging that have come to learn about or experience the joy of others and then worry about kissing.

On this occasion my friend was not near finished when my wife got off his cock and sat on mine, going from his to mine keeping us both on the edge but keeping that hot dirty sex going for aslong as she could

This summer we went from 0 to wow and now we are catching our collective breath and deciding what is next. This summer I more than doubled the number of different partners I had sex with in my life. For my husband it was the summer of dreams. We started very cautiously then it feels like we threw caution to the wind. We made many new friends that we hope will remain friends and met others that will just be part of our history. I read the posts here and wonder what is real and what is fantasy putting myself into the situations and thinking would I do that or would I enjoy that or could I enjoy that. I can report some I did and enjoyed and some I didn’t enjoy and many more I didn’t try. No DVP for me. I even learned new terms, yes Spit Roast is a thing. Carpet Munch even if there weren’t carpets. Safe Sex hmmm, not so much. Now it’s time to slow down before things go sideways. We both have routine medical exams on the calendar which is now making me a bit on edge. I’m not sure if routine blood tests are enough to find something hidden. I know I should be honest with my doctor, I’m just trying to find a way to tell her about our summer. My family doctor is the same one my parents use and the only doctor I’ve used as an adult. My gynecologist knew me as a virgin and how scared I was when I went that first time after the first time. My husband could not care less about his doctors, I don’t think men are examined the same way, it’s much more routine. I also want to thank those more seasoned who took the time to read my sometimes sarcastic younger posts for the little guidance I read. We will always be Exploring and looking for Options