We are not swingers, per se, but a poly family. But before that I was just a slutty newlywed with a boyfriend Red and had just gotten comfortable with hubby David playing. Red didn't care to play, just have sex with me.
An accidental pregnancy is what created our poly family. Our live-in girlfriend Clair got pregnant by David despite being on birth control. She was upset and offered to have an abortion to keep us "as is" in our relationship. It took me about two seconds of thinking about it to decide that there was no reason not to start having children. We took the rest of the day off from work, she took three or four pregnancy tests, we cried together and decided that I would try to get pregnant as soon as possible so we could have our children as close together as possible. I stopped taking my pills that day. We told David and Red and both were overjoyed. I had sex with both David and Red and got pregnant within a couple of months.
We are all extremely pro-choice, and this was our choice, the right decision.