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I was involved in negotiating a large commercial transaction where the parties were trying to determine when title to the large, complex, and expensive product should pass from the manufacturer to the customer. The solution was not to say when title passed, but rather refer to each of the elements of title (possession, tax liability, risk of loss, etc.) and what each parties' relationship is to each aspect. Same with the sexual behavior of a couple or other arrangement. Rather than saying "We're hot wifing it," or "I'll be a cuckold!" the parties need to go through each characteristic of their relationship, even a vanilla one. For instance, it is well known that Mike Pence has declared that he does not dine alone with a woman who is not his wife.

I had told the other guy I defintely didn't want to watch my husband. I thought he was ok with that but I don't think he was honest that he was OK with seperate rooms. I will just have to be firmer and make sure we are all on the same page next time. Thank you for your advice, I truly appreciate it!

Like I said before: How can you have sex without foreplay? How can you have foreplay without kissing?

We are not swingers, per se, but a poly family. But before that I was just a slutty newlywed with a boyfriend Red and had just gotten comfortable with hubby David playing. Red didn't care to play, just have sex with me. An accidental pregnancy is what created our poly family. Our live-in girlfriend Clair got pregnant by David despite being on birth control. She was upset and offered to have an abortion to keep us "as is" in our relationship. It took me about two seconds of thinking about it to decide that there was no reason not to start having children. We took the rest of the day off from work, she took three or four pregnancy tests, we cried together and decided that I would try to get pregnant as soon as possible so we could have our children as close together as possible. I stopped taking my pills that day. We told David and Red and both were overjoyed. I had sex with both David and Red and got pregnant within a couple of months. We are all extremely pro-choice, and this was our choice, the right decision.

Most men I know and have been with, including my husband, wouldn't do such a thing, not in a million years, and to be honest, I do not know how I would feel if I saw one of them doing it; it may be the fact that I like my men straight, not judging, it is just my preference. Now, on the other side, I have always been very well known for being fond of cum, and a pussy dripping cum is one of those sights I can simply not resists, and most like, I would go down on her and make sure she is well-taken care. Also, I love it if it is the other way around, and I am the one "receiving the goods" and the posterior attention from another girl.

When I was in graduate school two married couples engaged in an exchange of spouses. I don’t believe either couple were engaged in regular ENM activities; just couples in their late 20s or early 30s doing a bit of erotic experimentation. And I don’t know if the play was planned or spontaneous. But one of the women did become pregnant. I also have no idea if the couples knew for certain if the play partner provided the male genetic component of the prospective baby, but I do know the woman elected to end the pregnancy. It’s been a long time since I’ve had sex with a woman who wasn’t post-menopausal, but when my first wife was in medical school in a moment ruled by a high level of emotion on both our parts we had sex with no contraceptive protection and she became pregnant. There was no way we could manage having a child at that point and we terminated that pregnancy. In combination with a later miscarriage of a planned pregnancy, that careless episode did some damage to our marriage. On two other occasions FWB partners became pregnant. In one case our deep and almost lifelong friendship continued unscathed. In the other our 20-year friendship never really recovered. Looking back from the perspective of my 70s I regret all three of those instances.

That happened to me on my last play date. The husband was fucking his wife, missionary, while she was sucking my cock. I was enjoying her giving me head, when I looked down only to see that he had been sucking my cock...needless to say, that completely killed the mood for me...I do not play with them any more...

Yep, that's what we settled on, multiple couples actually, and why. None of us in our group of couples is stuck solely on only MF swaps, so there is plenty of variety and fantasy fulfillment.

True. The terms "cheating" or "adultery" are clear that they are sins, and if acknowledged as such can be forgiven. The terms we here use, "swinging," "nonmonogamy," "hotwife," etc. suggest that all of the parties see it as acceptable behavior, not as a sin, and therefore, without repentance, cannot be forgiven.

Being bi, I want to eat hubby's cum out of another women, and he wants to see me do it. He isn't really into eating his own cum, and I am ok with that, so he hasn't ever done it to me.