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Not technically my wife but my GF. But yes she loves it. I still participate but I really don't enjoy doing DP but I like stepping back and watching her enjoy it. She doesn't have to put on a show at all however there are plenty of times where she really does enjoy putting on a show. She is definitely an exhibitionist.

Assuming to OP knows her husband and this will be to some degree a positive surprise, then what? I'd suggest you have a Plan A, Plan B and Plan C, each of which can be pivoted too depending on your husbands reaction to the surprise. I have no idea the extent of 'playing with' you and your girlfriend includes, but having a few varying scenarios maybe ranging from soft core to hard core and allow his reaction to the surprise be your guide. He's a lucky man and you a re a generous wife. I hope it goes well for all.

We have always had an agreement that if a 'mistake' should happen and my wife gets pregnant from another man while swinging we will accept the child and raise him/her as our own. I was always prepared to accept that possibility - although it never happened. It gave my wife peace of mind knowing that an accident like that wouldn't ruin our marriage.

Like you expression of how you feel. I kind of feel the same.

Honey’s friend had an older gentleman “friend” who claimed he was fixed and she didn’t need to worry that she stopped her pills due to another health problem. Her real boyfriend used condoms for several months and was horrified that she said she was pregnant as was the friend who had much more at stake. The decision was made to terminate the pregnancy without any certainty to the real father. As far as I know the boyfriend knew about the older guy. I think they are all happy that the right wing crazies haven’t taken away our friends rights.

It's because reproduction has no "cost" to a man. A man can fuck one woman and move on to the next. A woman can only have one child a year, so she needs to be more choosy about with whom she reproduces, both as to genetic fitness and committed resource provision. On the other hand: Women are capable of providing much more sex.

When we first read your post, we thought was that there is some other reason that you are not comfortable with watching him. This confirms what we originally thought. It doesn't sound like you should be swinging...same or separate room. Swinging is a magnifying glass and will make any problems in a relationship just that much larger. Being in couples counseling sounds like there are issues that are becoming larger. We swing because I ENJOY seeing her with others and she feels the same about me. We ENJOY being able to share each other without fear or jealousy (and I used to be EXTREMELY jealous in the past). Now I have a relationship that is so strong, that jealousy has never been a problem and watching her enjoy herself with someone else is not just exciting, but has me loving her even more...it's hard to describe but having that absolute trust in each other is just amazing. Until you are feeling better about him being with others, you should probably take a break.

That … because if you just spring it on him and it’s not something he wants, this could go “south” REALLY quickly!

Okay, I'll pop in my two cents here. You're not comfortable with separate rooms. And you don't want to do same room. You don't want to see your husband with other women. Does that mean you don't want your husband to be with other women? Have you considered that swinging might not be the best path for you, or for you two as a couple?

Your husband is being rude, pushy, and inconsiderate to you. He is taking a good situation, you both enjoy having sex with other people, and ruining it. You need to have a polite but firm talk with him about your limits on swapping. My guess is that your husband loves watching his spouse having sex with others and assumes that you feel likewise. Be clear that you don't and if he doesn't respect that then you need to pause your activities.

Wife here. I too get extremely wet from seeing hubby with cum in his mouth, as well as cleaning me up and swallowing it all. I have two committed bulls, and the best is when hubby takes two mixed loads from them. OMG! I'm getting excited just writing this. It never gets old, as he loves doing it to please me. My hubby is the best!

From what Daniela has told me she is in the category of bi from the beginning, giving and receiving orgasms for both boys and girls.

I agree, most women who play with women are bi, not strictly Lesbian. For those women who are strictly Lesbian, it seems to me that for many, not all, it is mostly a philosophical thing rather than just a sexual preference. It's not that they say that they don't like dick, it's that they express they don't like men, their masculinity. Which for me is ok, you like what you like, but why then do they also resent women who enjoy masculinity/dick? Note: Clair used to be more associated with this world than I ever was, and we discussed it a lot. Unlike most women, Clair became bi from the Lesbian rather than the hetero side.