That all makes perfect sense, and fortunately we both seem to be on the same page, so far. That being said, in our first and only experience, it was a shock to the two of us that she enjoyed her time with the female half of the other couple so much. As in alot! I'm a guy, so of course I'm interested in that :) but she has never expressed any interest, and in the past has totally shut down any suggestion about it. Not homophobic in the least, but it's something she has said she has no interest in. But then all of a sudden, here come the water works.
I think for the most part we're interested in either a couple, or a man for her, but her interest in another woman has been a pleasant surprise. I guess it's all part of the fun journey of this lifestyle that is also alot of self discovery, but I also think that I'm the type of person that analyzes everything waaaay too much, and in that respect it was definitely confusing to me that it was such a turn around. From practically 100% no, to holy shit!