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You need to go to a nude beach, after you see all the different shapes and sizes and scars, you will leave feeling much better about yourself!

Just a thought here - is it 'harmless fun"? Could a child be watching?

Dear Happy - Please seriously consider Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Affectionately known as Hedo by the regulars, it is an all-inclusive, clothing optional and lifestyle friendly resort. There is a buffet for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, also three restaurants where you order off the menu, the nude grill for food during the day and pizza late at night. Almost everything is included, all food, all alcohol, water sports like snorkeling or kayaking, there is the clothing optional beach and pool where you can wear anything or nothing, and the nude beach and pool and hot tub where nudity is required. Nightly entertainment is excellent, there are organized games like bocce ball, you can sit on the beach and read, or go to the nude pool and party like a rock star. There is a playroom near the nude hot tub that is open 24/7 and a large playroom open every night. If you want to smoke some weed, there is Hedo Weed, which is just like a dispensary in the U.S. If you go to hedonism.com, you can see groups that are going during different weeks of the year and find ones that interest you.. We love the Fluffs, fluffernutters.com, but there are groups for everyone depending on what they are looking for, younger people, older people, bi-ladies, etc. Also, you can read more info and ask questions on the Facebook group, Our Favorite Jamaican Vacation Place. Most people say it is the best vacation ever, and many book their next trip before they leave. Hedo has the highest return guest rate in the world, which says something. My wife and I will be going there for the 27th time in February. Check it out. It is exactly what you are looking for.

Hello, and thank you for reading this and offering any advice you can: We are new to this site, and only recently discovered it. We hope this post is in the right place? Little bit about our background: We are a long-term married couple, in our early 60s, with some experience swinging. However, we took a long break in the middle of our lives as we raised our kids. Now, we're free wheeling empty nesters! We take good care of ourselves and are pleased all our important parts still work just fine! And we intend to enjoy ourselves and the years we have left! We're nudists, completely comfortable being in our own skin. And we're comfortable socializing nude. During the season, we are weekly visitors to our local nude beach. The pandemic really spooked us... so we have been slowly getting our lifestyle activities revved back up. We've only been playing some soft games with nice couples, and some singles, we have met on our favorite beach. We imagine like a lot of you folks, now that the pandemic is over, we're ready to do some traveling and want to experience the things we have been missing and putting off for far too long. We are tired of letting our time go by! Here's what we are specifically wanting some advice, especially from you more experienced travelers: We're wanting to vacation at an all-inclusive resort, especially one that caters to both nudists and people in the lifestyle/swingers. Any suggestions? We've read some limited information about "lifestyle takeovers" but we don't really know exactly what that means? Maybe someone can help us? As we mentioned, we're in our 60s now... we are a bit concerned with making sure we fit within a group of people that are similar in age, and that we have things in common. We do like to socialize, dance and party, but we will not be the ones still partying at midnight! We like to enjoy our sexy play/sexual adventures during the day/early afternoon, rather than at night. Are there travel agents or travel companies that specialize in this kind of thing? Can you direct us to them? We have traveled extensively in the Caribbean, but almost always on cruises. And it was always with the family, so it was not at all lifestyle oriented, obviously. While that gave us a flavor of the various countries we visited, we spent such a short amount of time off the ship, that we don't believe we ever got a "true" sense of what it would be like to spend a week or more just in one place. Lastly, we have a question about safety. When we were first married, Mexico was a favorite destination. But, recently, we don't know if it's just all the bad press, but it seems Mexico is not very safe anymore. That is just our impression, based on nothing but what we see and read. So, maybe someone can share with us their personal experiences? Apologies for long post! Thanking you for replies and advice!!

Hello all This is probably a pretty tame question, considering. We're just getting started in this lifestyle (and actually still unsure if we're going to continue) We had one, unplanned by very fun, experience with another couple recently, and we're discussing whether to explore further. Regardless of whether we continue, one thing we have always liked is a little exhibitionism. Whenever we travel, my wife likes to do a little showing off in front of our hotel window, curtains open, and then we fool around talking about the people who may be watching. It's harmless fun, and has been our version of daring, and testing the limits of our wild side. We're heading to Las Vegas in Jan to see U2, and just wondering if anyone knows the best hotel, i.e. clearest windows, best exposure to other hotels, etc... Silly question I'm sure, but just curious if anyone else has tested this out.

Swingers getting together can be fun without sex. We were invited to a Friendsgiving party with friends we met originally for swinging along with people we never met before, only knowing them by association of friends. We enjoyed the idea of no sex, just laughs and conversation with like minded diverse people. There is talk about other swingers getting together in a social setting without sex being the ultimate goal. We have made many friends we originally met for sex, now making friends first before thinking about immediate sex. As you can imagine sex was talked about just not carried out.

Once during the course of a long FWB relationship the woman visited me one afternoon in my upper story hotel room. We didn’t fuck, but I was nude and she was stripped to her waist. (She had great boobs, large and pretty firm; fucked them more than once, but not that afternoon. She gave me a long and wonderful blowjob, leaving me stunned when I finally came. It was only then that we noticed there was a roof on another part of the hotel that was one story lower. And a half-dozen working, who had put down their tools to watch. I was too post-orgasmically zonked to do anything, but my friend got off the bed, turned her gorgeous boobs toward them and made an ostentatious bow before drawing the curtains.

You are probably correct. I am very hard on myself.

I can only speak for myself, but I don't think about a women's physique, personality is more of a concern for me. Sure I have had different shapes of pussy and I like my pussy bald and with a big clitoris, but it doesn't matter, I love them all.

I love Jamaica and go to Couples San Souci and also visit the Rivera Maya in Mexico and I feel safer in Mexico when out in public .Of course you need to know where to go and not travel off the beaten path.

My husband tells me all the time I have a fat pussy and he loves it. I see women regularly out in public in yoga pants with perfect "V's" between their legs. Mine definitely shows a lot of camel toe in the right pants which he also loves. You can not tell me you have never noticed a difference in the shape. I did not include a picture. I am not looking for attention. I am looking for serious replies about how men feels when they see a plump vagina. Is it a turn on? Because I have spent my entire life being self conscious of mine.

I'm not sure what the definition of "fat pussy" is. I didn't see a photo on your profile. I've seen a fair number of pussies and not sure what "fat" would be. Is there a "skinny" pussy?

Yes, all were in the lifestyle. They are friends of our friends. It was a great just laughing and eating and drinking. I told Alan on the way home how nice I thought they were and he said he was happy there wasn’t sex, he had no attraction to them.

True, but what defines our family is having children - each of us women with both men, and raising them together.

We agree that Hedo would be a great place to start in the Caribbean. It is great for an all over tan as well as lifestyle opportunities. We too are in our 60s and plan to go during their Sexy Silvers week, which is May 4 to 11, 2024. There will be over 100 couples in our age range and the activities/entertainment is more focused on that group. Hedo also offers Sexy Silvers weeks with smaller turnouts in February and October. We book through Topless Travel, which is affiliated with the SLS lifestyle website. The Sexy Silvers week at Hedo is always awesome.

We enjoyed both Desire resorts, but not sure if we’d go now. I highly recommend the Bliss cruises, which go in November and April. Even if April is sold out, go on a waiting list, swingers flake out and there will be openings. Hedonism 2 in Jamaica could work. See if there is a Silver Swinger week. You probably won’t want to go on a young swinger week. We enjoyed it. A big swinger adventure is Cap D’ Agde, France. Have not been.

I know that's how it sounds, but we had mentioned to them that my wife sometimes plays and dates alone, so I took it less as an insult to me and more like they were a couple who (finally) saw a chance at having 3ways with a sexy, experienced lady. I'm 100% comfortable with her playing without me, and honestly it really turns me on so as long as my wife is on board then so am I. But i think my point to my earlier ramble is this: Lifestyle wives with supportive husbands are happy with the "mistress" role because they simply enjoy dating. They enjoy being desired, being taken to nice places, being doted upon. Like any date, they are in charge of whether or not there will be sex but if there is good chemistry with their date they enjoy the sex too. In a Lifestyle situation like ours, our wives can enjoy being the 'mistress' for all the right reasons.

Desires or Desires RM. If only the area was more stable, we would be spending as much time as we could there.

Not true...we keep to a very small group and always use condoms.

I may not be in your age group but done my fair share of travelling to swingers resort in the Caribbean. We are from Canada. We may have different view for safety compare to America's. But basically you have to used common sense. I wouldn't walk the beach at night to meet up people. The resort I recommend for you both, is the Hedonism II. It may be a little pricey, but it may have everything that your looking for in terms what your looking for.

That's why we try to find swingers that we want to be friends with before we get naked with them. When we get together, it is usually not a foregone conclusion that anything will happen. It's just more fun getting together with another couple that you enjoy spending time with knowing that it may lead to more...or not. It's great fun just knowing that you can talk openly about sex (and just about anything else).

We have swing friends that were vanilla friends first so we know how to have vanilla fun with them often. Over the years our frequency of swinging went from constant to special times meaning it was so new to us that we couldn’t wait to get the sex going and it became a big focus of our friendship. What we learned was our friendship is much more, sex doesn’t have to happen to have fun.

I think you’re an idiot if you don’t send your ex a copy of this entire thread! Then he’s an idiot for not seeing what he’s letting go. I also think you’re both idiots if you don’t fix your relationship. Everyone makes mistakes………not everyone learns from them, you clearly have. I sincerely hope you two find a way, remember it can be a long path back. Don’t give up

I'm just curious--do inquiries like this bother you? We don't need to be in the same room, but don't do the separate play thing... if we did though I don't think I could help myself from taking that question as a personal rejection... "can you stay home? We just want her."