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Staring is rude, but lots of nudies (like us) enjoy watching and being watched so no need to avert your eyes. Look around and enjoy!

No need apologise no it’s just no condoms been used at all

I agree with you, and I think that I noticed this the first time on a nude beach. People are alot more friendlier and have no problem about approaching you. No problems or concerns with religion, politics race , or sexism. It's refreshing to be on a nude beach with open minded nude people!

From the first time I stumbled upon the Swingersboard, I noticed how civil, understanding, and empathetic the members are. People in the lifestyle are genuinely at a higher level of humanity.

She's having her fun, you're enjoying it, the adventures continue. That's what it's all about. Keep us updated on what happens.

I was twenty-three when David and I were married. As background, I was fifteen and in high school when I met Red, who was in college. I started college when I was sixteen, started having full-on sex with Red at seventeen, got engaged and moved in with him at nineteen. I called off the wedding, moved out, met David, kept seeing/confiding in/sleeping with Red, started sleeping with David at twenty-one. (A big year.) Started MFMing with them at twenty-two, and David asked me to marry him. (A bigger year.) I married David at twenty-three all the while still involved with Red. My biggest year came when our girlfriend Clair became pregnant, I decided to as well and our poly family was created.

We all in our closed group of married couples consider "dating" one of the best, unexpected, aspects of our swing situation, so I wouldn't worry about the dating aspect of an outside relationship. My wife and I participate in this, and we find it one of the more fulfilling aspects of the lifestyle. My wife more frequently, me less but for longer trips. Having said that, our move into the lifestyle started with Daniela hotwifing, not just the sex, but dating other men, something she's good at and enjoys.

Curiouscouple2001, my apologies. My reading of earlier posts suggested to me that there was no birth control at all.

I agree w @NC_Seniors to not worry about bumping into some one you may know. They will have nothing on you that you don't have on them, and swingers are generally very good with discretion. Finding single women online who are willing to play with a couple may be challenging, thus the term "unicorn". However, if you state clearly on your profile that you are only interested in F2F fun you may well find other couples who are also into the same - as long as you don't mind the other hubby watching. When we were starting out we noticed it was somewhat standard protocol (among new couples) for the ladies to play, followed by pairing back up with your respective spouses. I feel like you'll likely find couples who are agreeable to that arrangement.

Lora and Red visited Joe and Shannon over the past weekend, left Friday returned yesterday Monday. Debriefing them, they all had a good time. Nothing unusual to report, just swapping and threesomes. Probably boring for those here that go to clubs and house parties, but exciting for us opening up our poly family to some outside play. The consensus is that I visit them by myself next, probably before Christmas. After that, Joe and Shan will visit us and stay in a nearby hotel. They, especially Joe, are looking forward to having MFMMs with David and Red. Shan enjoys taking multiple men and Joe likes the mind game of his wife doing that, watching, and her being called and calling herself a slut. We haven't really planned beyond that, but David and I with them has been discussed. There are many more permutations and possibilities.

Yes of course I’m open for her to try what she wants, if she wants to fuck a black man that’s fine if she wants do fuck him with or without a condom that’s fine, aslong as we are in it together no hiding things etc i wouldn’t want to dictate to her to use a condom and she then didn’t want to and went bareback behind my back, aslong as she knows both options are ok she might off her own judgement to use one

It was one of the most sexiest sights I have seen, her pussy was absolutely dripping wet, and then as she started to ride my cock she took his again in her mouth and suck it hard was something else

My wife and I have a satisfying sex life, we love to screw each other. But sometimes, to enhance our experience, we use dildos, vibrators and other sex toys. We also enjoy MFM threesomes, where we bring another man into our bedroom for Mary’s pleasure. It occurs to me that, in a sense, we treat them as another sex toy, enjoying them for what they bring to the mattress but not expecting them to be more than that. Let me digress for a second - we know we won’t ever see most of our single men partners again, significantly more than half the men we meet don’t have a repeat with us. There are many reasons, but they can be winnowed down to two: either they don’t satisfy my wife enough to be invited back, or they choose to be simply one and done guys. That’s fine with us, we’re not looking for FWBs but simply an erotic encounter. And thus, particularly the first time, we treat them as a sex toy. Mary likes feeling his body rub against hers with new sensations, she likes the sight and sounds of someone she’s unfamiliar with, she revels in the new smells and tastes. She’s out to get screwed. We make the assumption that the basic reason he's there is he wants to screw Mary. Now, having said that, we also try to respect our new ‘sex toy.’ We always meet the man at a bar first and try to have a pleasant talk. (If we don’t have a nice talk, or there’s no chemistry between Mary and the guy, it won’t go any further.) If we invite him home I open up my craft beer, a nice bottle of wine or fix him the drink of his choice. We try to make him comfortable. If he has a sexual request we’ll try to make it happen, assuming it’s something we’re into. We want him to have as good a time in bed with my wife as she’s having. But, in the end, it’s ‘just sex.’ We don’t expect he’ll turn into a regular, but when it does we then take it to the next level, showing him that we care about him as a person. Does this make us bad people?

Swinging is natural once people get rid of societal constraints.

About 10 years ago we swapped with friends one time before we were married. We didn't even know about swinging. Six years ago my wife secret.y set up a swinging date with friends,I didn't even know that she was interested.everything went great and since we have had over 50 encounters. Each time got better as we gained experience. Last week we were swinging with a new couple, they will be visiting us again this week. We'll be teaching them. Swinging is fun. No experience necessary.

You two certainly have a very evolved and mature relationship based on love, trust, open communication and neither of you feels any insecurities. That’s amazing! However, that’s the ideal situation and we all know that there are a million situations outside of “ideal”. You sound like you are polyamorous swingers, which is awesome. However, many swingers I’ve known try to limit or even inhibit the emotional aspect of their relationships. Men can be egotists and feel threatened by their wife having feelings for someone else. Like those feelings somehow diminish her feelings for me. My wife is in a polyamorous relationship and has had a BF for 8 years now. He also happens to be one of my oldest and most trusted friends. They love each other. Their relationship makes them happy. We sometimes play together as a threesome and they also have their own one on one time which I encourage. I trust him and it’s a perfect situation because I know he loves me and would never want to break up our marriage. So I know it can work. But the husband has to have the ultimate confidence in their marriage. There needs to be an understanding that the marriage is THE most important relationship between all three parties. If there is any “threat” to that relationship that is when things can get rough. These are strictly my opinions based on my own experience. But every marriage is different. Every friendship is different. It’s important to talk about how it makes everyone feel and everyone needs to be respectful of the other’s feelings. good luck, have fun and let us know what you do!