Oh Sweeties, this is so not for you. At least not right now.
This is supposed to be fun. The people you meet are supposed to be fun; the sex you have is supposed to be fun. No ones having any fun, here.
We adopted our friend's philosophy for the first time he had sex with another couple. No matter what happened: No crime; no foul. Maybe we went forward. Maybe neveragain. Yet no one would be blamed for doing too much or too little or for violating some written or unknown rule.
It worked out.
We also went to a Club. We got lined up up with a couple who were great . Also, let me be clear, the guy knew how to fuck, A fulfilling range from intimate to physically thrilling and back again. My husband could tell from looking at me, tossed hair and all, that I actually had the best sex of my life. I had. That was a bit of a surprise but I took it as a positive and so did he. He 'upped' his game, actually. Now, his sex partners thank me :).
We were both so revved up we had sex with two more couples that night. I just loved the idea of giving myself over to a man I had just met, yet wanted me so very badly. They were all appreciative and engaged, not a single bad moment. It was the best of possible experiences. Sex with three different men literally doubled my total number of sex partners in my life, in one night.
Katrina