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3 pointsThis is wonderful and the way it should be. No angst within a couple trying to decide whether and how to get into the lifestyle after years of marriage. The marriage started properly non-monogamous.
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3 pointsIn short, my answer is no. I have a friend from High School that I used to be close to, then we grew apart and recently resumed a relationship with (albeit somewhat superficial). Apparently he is in the LS and has had a number of experiences with his ex-wife. He's asked me to help set him and his current GF up with some of our friends but I've resisted completely. Who you refer is a reflection on you and, despite liking him, I know he and his GF are headcases, super jealous and a bit reckless. It would probably be fine, but my wife is temperamental about the LS as is and the last thing I want is to create issues with the friends we actually still have a relationship going with.
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2 pointsMy GF is pretty wild when it comes to sex when she is both sober and drunk, I think the difference is that when she is drunk she is more outgoing which helps in finding a partner. Sexually she is down for almost anything when drunk or sober. But when drunk she'll flash people in public, grab a random guy in the bar and fuck him in the bathroom, etc.
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2 pointsInteresting topic... My wife and I met during a swinging party and were introduced to each other by a mutual friend. Basically I was told that Rose needed a man to look after her after a messy divorce and she was feeling a little sad and unhappy. After we had a few 'Dates' with just each other Rose moved in with me for weekends... Which eventually led to us getting married.
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2 pointsWe don't drink but are normally very kinky (maybe we get less kinky the more we drink...?). Not that we have a problem with drinking, we just prefer sweets if we are going to ingest calories.
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1 pointAbout amounts after Mary's girls night out where she had sex with a stranger, our neighbor invited us to a clothing optional bar B que. Mary and I had talked about swinging but had not decided on it yet. At the bar B que Mary has on her string bikini, which hardly covered her 35b breast and her shaved bottom. It took a while of seeing others naked before we decided to skinny dip. I was amazed at the attention she received from the other guys who kept brushing up against her. Ad afternoon turned into evening everyone went inside leaving bathing suits at the pool. The host then knowing this was our first party dared Mary to give me a bj in front of the other 9 couples. As she was sucking my cock. One of he men came up behind her and looked at me, then grabbed his cock and motioned that he wanted to fuck her. I knew it was now or never so I shook my head yes. He started shoving his cock into her. At first she was shocked, but I told her it was OK. After he came in her she looked at me and gave me a passionate kiss. Before t he night was over she had sex with 4 of the other men at the party
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1 pointOK, I'll admit one of my fantasies is to eat my wife's pussy after another man has cum inside of her. I also wouldn't mind eating a cum filled pussy other than my wife's. I have had this fantasy for years, but have never had the chance to do it, mostly because my wife doesn't want me to and secondly because I haven't done it before and I have the "First Time Factor" syndrome....I guess I am a little reserved. I've asked my wife several times in the past before we play with another to let me come over after he has cum inside her and have me clean her up. She knows I want to suck her cum filled pussy. I've even considered eating her pussy after I cum in her, and a few times have come close but she gently pushes my head away. A few times I have brought myself just to climax then held back and cum a little in and on her pussy without her knowing and then went down on her and sucked her. So, how many people here, men and women like to have their pussies eaten after being fucked and like to eat cum filled pussies? I don't think I'm too weird. Maybe I am. I wish my wife would let me do it. I did have the opportunity once to suck my cum out of the female partner of a couple we were playing with, but I sort of chickened out....I think because it was all my cum. However I am sure if it was another man's cum I would have went right down and sucked her clean. What's others experiences? Yes or No? Good or Bad?
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1 pointI have only had 2 women that chose anal over vaginal. The first was during college and I was her first man to give her anal and she orgasmed that way. Several years ago, I had a swap partner that loved anal and wanted it missionary style. This woman was probably the best partner sex wise than any woman that I ever had sex with, anytime, anywhere, and anyway!
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1 pointI'm not commenting on this particular situation, but on an abstract level I'm thinking that I would say to him, "That's wonderful, please bring her along." If I were single again, I would not date or consider marrying anyone not already open to the lifestyle. Perhaps more bizarrely, I would date bisexual women who are open to finding and dating like minded men. I'm lucky that we stumbled into forming our poly family by chance.
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1 pointNot sure how to explain this, but I do the best I can. This past weekend, a good friend of my parents who they swing with for years and 1 of my first swingers partners came over to my place and ask me to help me out with something. His son wants to try the lifestyle. And he asks me if I and my bff can give him his first 3some. I didn’t gave him an answer straight away, I told him I will think about it. His son is 30, recently divorce, no kids. I knew him. I used to babysat him when he was younger when his parents were at parties and that and when my family and invited his family for supper and that. I only seen him once in the last 15 years or so. Last time I saw him was on his wedding night from his ex 5 years ago. He knew his parents were swingers but never felt it was for him at that point, from what the parents told me. I don’t mind doing the favour. They helped me a lot in my early days of the lifestyle. My parents helped me when I asked them if I could try swinging and let me “play” with their friends. I know it’s somewhat embarrassing question to ask your parents and then your parents asking their friends if they want to “play” with their adult children. Same as your friend asking you to ask another friend for a “hook up”. I always consider my swingers friends as a second family and family help each others “within reason”. I am curious how often question like this get asked. Thanks for the reply
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1 pointMy GF likes Yandy because it is cheap. My GF is active in her slutwear so she prefers finding something cheap that can be destroyed rather than buying some nice at Nordstrom's and risking it getting ruined. Depends on if you're active in it and type of sex you're having I guess but she had a nice dress ruined and then decided to buy her slutwear for cheap.
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1 pointMy wife almost always has half of a half glass of wine or half a beer before recreational sex, but that's all she needs. It's interesting that she is primed for sex, but wants that little bit of alcohol.
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1 pointThis is the true story of Karen and me at our first orgy, which took place in Atlanta about a decade ago. Karen is a fine-looking black woman, about 40 then. I am five years older than her. We met through a mutual friend, and the day we met, we discovered that we were both very sexual people. During our relationship, we confessed that we were interested in group sex. Karen then told me that shortly after her divorce, as a young woman going to graduate school, she had experienced a marvelous group sex scene. She described how her girlfriends, two of whom were rather bi, would let her have their husbands. While never really graphic, the story she told undoubtedly piqued my interest. We began to go to swinger events in the Atlanta area. One was populated with people dressed in outrageous costumes and who made a rather bold public display of affection. However, it did not appear that they engaged in the sort of wanton sex that Karen and I had in mind. The other group was more upscale, and though I was recently divorced and paying enormous bills and child support, we found the money to join this group. We did so joking that nothing was likely to come of it. We had connected with some swingers in the first club I mentioned, but the whole scene was not as open and lascivious as we had hoped. So we went to a couple of get-togethers of the second group. Though we had seen some nice-looking and mannerly people, we had not made any intimate connections. The third time, we went to the social, laughing that we would at least have each other when we returned to Karen's apartment. Little did we know what was to occur that evening. It was a typical get-together, and I felt relatively relaxed and bold, so I complimented the hostess on her dress when we checked in. The hostess seemed genuinely pleased and said, "Let me seat you with some people who have asked about you." Joan and her husband were attractive people whose swinging life started when they discovered that each was having an affair simultaneously. He and she said they loved each other but craved the 'variety and newness' of extramarital sex. Joan had a lovely body, and I noticed that the more sexual her conversation became, the more her sexy nipples protruded through the fabric of her dress. We talked about this and that, and as the conversation came around to sex, we seemed as though we had known each other for years. Karen was commenting on a young couple and how sexy she thought the long red hair of the male was when Joan said that she knew them and would introduce us. Karen had a long conversation with Jean and her man, Danny. Since I could not hear well enough to participate, I started talking with Joan. She suggested that I dance with Cheryl, who had noticed Karen and I at the last party and had asked about us twice. So I did. Cheryl was a little, petite woman who pressed herself against me rather forwardly on the dance floor, which was all the encouragement I needed to begin dirty dancing with her. We danced a couple of dances, and then, as I went to sit down, Karen passed me on the way to the floor with Danny, the young man with long red hair. She said Jean had asked if I might dance with her, so I approached her. We danced in a subdued (comparatively speaking) manner. As we left the dance floor, I saw an older woman with full lips, very trim, and she had a certain quality about her. I introduced myself and found that her name was Ruth. We danced several times that evening, and I asked her if she had ever been to a swinger party, and she said no. She said she was there at the insistence of a fellow with whom she had been having good sex for a few months. She indicated that she was not too sure about all of this. The evening passed quickly for us. Karen danced with several men, and I with Ruth and Joan, Jean, Cheryl, and the hostess once, even though she said she was supposed to be working. Karen was joking and laughing with the couples whose husbands had danced with her. I was teasing Joan physically, discreetly rubbing her back and touching her hands sensually as we talked. The hostess approached Karen and me as the party started to wind down. She invited us to an 'after-party party' in the hospitality suite. We did not hesitate to jump at the chance. On the way up, we discussed how to behave there, and Karen indicated that she had talked with the hostess and said she had promised to get the ball rolling if it did not start by itself. When we arrived there, Karen went out on the balcony with Danny to smoke, and I was surprised to see Ruth being ignored by her date. I took Ruth into my arms and began to kiss her while talking with her about the possibility that an orgy might erupt. Ruth looked at me and smiled a wanly lascivious smirk, and said, "Gosh, I hope so." About that time, Karen, back from smoking her favorite material on the balcony, came by as she toured the room, taking an item of clothing from every man. She continued back around the room. As she went from man to man, she kissed them, frenching each deeply and rubbing them with her hands and body. Soon she had several of them near naked. In the meantime, I slowly, unhurriedly seduced the rather willing Ruth. We sat on a loveseat in the suite facing the couch, the king-size bed behind us. I began to kiss and caress her, gently stripping her clothing from her and pushing her to lie back. I got on the floor between her legs and began to eat her. After just a few minutes of attention to Ruth's erect clitoris, she said: "I want to fuck. Let's go to the bed." On the large bed, two men took turns licking Karen, who was naked, and arching her pudendum into their mouths. Only her feet and the top of her head were on the mattress as she bridged herself into each of their faces. She was moaning aloud and coming audibly about every 30 seconds. Ruth seemed to be enjoying herself. I asked her if she had needs she was ready to have met. Ruth simply took my rigid cock and pulled it into her as she lay back on the bed. It was quite surreal; here I was, stroking the length of my turgid cock in and out of a woman I had met perhaps two hours ago, while within 30 inches of me, my lover, Karen, was being thoroughly licked by Richard and another man. Ruth came several times. Then someone began kissing her as I was fucking her. She slowly went from kissing to sucking him; it was soooo wanton. I turned her onto her hands and knees and continued to stroke. My new position allowed me to see that Karen was now across the room on the couch with two men, the host, whose fat dick she was enthusiastically sucking, while Joan's husband fucked her with a long thin dick from behind. As I had been fucking Ruth for some time, I needed to go to the restroom. So I disengaged, and as I did so, the man who had been eating Karen earlier moved to take my place. He was fit and well endowed, and Ruth glanced back and smiled a welcome as we changed positions. I went to the bathroom, and as I exited, I turned right to enter the living room. I passed the bar area, and there on the floor was Joan. She was riding Charles, the security for the party, and she was slam fucking the shit out of him. I watched as she rode harder and faster. I could tell he was very close, and she was astride him, her feet planted on the floor on opposite sides of his hips. She faced him and held his unbuttoned shirt, which he was still wearing, gripping the lapels to maintain her balance. Joan's mouth was open, her breath came in ragged gasps, she moaned louder and louder, and then with a tremendous grunt came, grinding herself into Charles. This was too much for him; he came with her or slightly before she did. I was transfixed by the sheer hedonism of it all. I returned to the living room, where Jean was smoking a cigarette with the Asian girl whose husband had taken my place with Ruth. I asked if she was interested in joining me on the bed. She was young and had an adorable body. Later we were to learn that Jean was an exotic dancer. Jean said she wanted to watch and nodded as I looked towards the bed; on the floor near the bed, Jean's Danny and the Asian lady's husband treated Karen the way she loves to be treated. She loves to be fucked doggy style while she sucks dick. They traded places every three minutes, and I watched for a few rotations. Joan approached and touched me as I watched, wrapping her hand around my dick. We smiled at each other, and wordlessly, I took her over to a stuffed chair. She knelt on the cushion, and I entered her from behind. I fucked her for a long time, varying the stroke following her mood. She was incredibly sexy and came as quickly and satisfyingly as Karen did when I treated her this way. Eventually, I came very hard, and she went nearly into a total spasm when I did. Gasping for breath, she turned, buried her tongue in my mouth, sucked on mine for a moment, and collapsed into the chair. "Wow," she said weakly. I offered to get her a drink, and she asked for a Coke, so I got her a glass with ice and coca cola in it. I stood there with her for a few minutes, resting and watching people engage in sex, two, three, and four, all over the room. I returned to the bed, and Ruth was there with another man. He came, and as he withdrew, she reached for me. I was already stiff from watching them, so Ruth and I enjoyed a long lazy spoon fuck, her pussy relaxed and well-lubricated by the semen of several different men from all the fucking she had been receiving. She came, and she said she needed to use the restroom. All that fucking had her busting for a good pee. I lay there for a few minutes, observing Richard's wife sitting alone. I approached her and asked if she would join me on the bed. She rose, smiling broadly, and we got onto the bed. I started by kissing her all over, paying particular attention to her neck, collarbones, and breasts. Soon I had a rigid nipple clamped between my teeth, worrying it with my tongue. She reached between us and took my cock in her hand, and pumped it slowly and sensuously. Soon I was hardening nicely. She did not hesitate, pulling me on top of her and stuffing me into her wetness. I slid in slowly, and she sighed a long sigh as I did. It was very erotic, and I began to stroke slowly, deeply. She came almost immediately, and then as I continued, she wrapped her legs around me and began to respond by thrusting into me as I hit bottom. She seemed to want it rougher, so I thrusted more vigorously. She whispered, "That's it, give me that dick! Unh, fuck me, baby, make my pussy hurt, FUCK ME!" I could not come, though I wanted to, so I just continued to hammer my rigid cock into her. She pulled me to her and kissed me deeply, coming as she did so. We laughed and commented on how much fun that was. Then Richard came by and, apologizing to both of us, said he had to go to work in a couple of hours and needed to leave to drive home in time to get ready. I wandered about and encountered the hostess. She was watching Karen ride her husband, Dan. I slipped behind her and caressed her back, ass, and shoulders. She gently disengaged and smiled broadly, saying, "Wait until they finish their fucking. It's our party. One of us has to work to keep up with everything!" I watched as Karen and Dan fucked, then, realizing I was very thirsty, I asked if she wanted something to drink. She said to wait for her at the bar. I went, got a soft drink, and shortly she came in, saying that Dan would take over hosting and she was ready for some fun. We picked up where we left off. I sat in an armchair, and she was on my lap. We necked and caressed each other for some time, then she rose, produced a condom from seemingly nowhere, and put it on me in a smooth and practiced motion. She rode me astride, her legs through the arms of the chair, which she grasped to help her support herself. After a while, she seemed to have a small orgasm, saying it was delicious, "Being so wicked to fuck right out here in the open like this." I did not get off, and Danny's partner, Jean, came by. My partner said, "Girl, you need to try this!" and dismounted. Jean, smiling, said, "Don't mind if I do," and pulled me over to the couch, where I entered her doggy style and fucked her for a short time. Danny came by as we were rocking steady, and Jean asked me what time it was. I glanced at my watch and told her it was very late. Danny, a newspaper pressman, had to go to work in less than an hour, so we reluctantly uncoupled. Jean and Danny said they had given Karen their contact information and wanted to reunite again soon. Then in a few moments, she kissed me, he shook my hand, "You'll come to visit us now, ya hear?" and they were gone. I ran into Karen in a few minutes. She was returning from the balcony with the Asian girl, who was headed into the other room with a woman who I had seen several times, but who seemed interested only in other women. Karen and I kissed, and I began to kiss her and lick her and soon had her sprawled out on the floor. As I was really beginning to get into it, she interrupted me, saying that the Asian woman had interrupted her every time her husband had started to fuck her, and she wanted 'to try some of that.' I looked up to see him standing to my right, and I simply stood and moved over. He said, "Now to finish what we started earlier." Karen took him into her mouth, sucked him hard in about 20 seconds, and then guided him into her. They settled into a furious pace and had it going for a few moments when true to form, his wife showed up, "I told you, we have to go now," she announced, and he rose. I simply moved down to lick Karen, and he could not hide his disgust that I would lick her pussy after he had just pulled out. I did not feel intimidated and merely laughed at his discomfiture. They left, and Karen and I fucked for a few minutes when Karen suddenly said, "Hey, there is somebody I want you to meet!" We jumped up and went into the other room. A buxom blonde was sucking a rather limp man. Karen approached her, kissed her on the mouth, and said, "This is my Michael." She immediately said, "This is Bob, and I am Sue," and took me into her mouth. In a couple of moments, I was hard again. Karen sat on Bob's lap, and Sue licked her and sucked him while I fucked her from behind. I was spent and could not come; Karen came nicely. Bob never quite achieved a full erection and said, "That's alright, baby," to Sue. Sue came hard several times as I fucked her, then said that she was getting sore. We disengaged from one another and, sated, began to look for our clothes. After I got dressed, Karen and the hostess talked intently. I came by, and Karen said, "Kiss her goodnight and let's ride." All the way home, we talked about what we had seen and done; it was an incredible evening. When we got to Karen's place, we had an explosive fuck, with a completely enervating orgasm, and slept until mid-afternoon that day. Karen and I have since parted, but I surely miss those days and her!
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1 pointAfter registering on Ashley Madison we continued to check on our other profile which had a message left for us by someone we know. We never saw their profile in our searches so were surprised and frightened to see their profile picture when we clicked. We know them on what we would label a Hi, how are you basis. They are usually with others when we see them in a few local bars and now we were searching for those friends profiles. Mike and I responded in a very funny way, What are you doing here? We only thought of them as very vanilla socially active friendly, not lifestylers. Their response was a cell number so Mike called. Some very funny laughing conversation with a meeting set, we met them without their crowd of friends. Our conversation started with us telling them some of our history and them sharing theirs. I asked about which of their friends play but they were silent. That was a plus for us.
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1 pointSo leaving off from my intro After months of talking and planning out things. Getting our heads wrapped around if we really wanted to dive into something so different. I asked her (28F) if she wanted to just do it and stop talking about it. In our plans we were going to meticulously find people through swing sites and some other ideas like heading to hedonism down in Jamaica. Our issue with this idea is that we are very in the moment people, if the momentum slowed down we would likely never do it. So one day I just said "there is a swingers club in Portland. Why don't we just go and check it out?" Her eyes widened and she said "fuck it, let's have fun!" Within a couple hours we had the event with club privata decided, it was a newbies night. This gave us the ability to go and meet other people with the same idea to go learn about it. The date we landed on was newbies night July 7th 2022. This was roughly two weeks away and she couldn't have been more excited. During our long discussions about all the things we wanted to do we unlocked one of her ultimate turn ons which surprisingly was black men. So she sat and read about how everything works and what to wear. Personally I have a very intellectual and curious side to me. I wrote about what I'd like to do with her and see her do. She would tell me whether or not it was something she'd be down to do. Come to find out there's little she wouldn't. Which to me was rather interesting seeing as 13 years of being this woman's only person, we are sitting there detailing a possible large gangbang she was totally down to be in. I should note, my wife growing up was always drop of the dime. You said sex she said yes. The few times I've been turned down were few and far between for genuine reasons. When she says she's willing or wanting to do something. She isn't trying to impress anyone. She's just down for anything. Which still amuses me because when I met her the word around freshmen class was she wouldn't put out for anything. Those fools don't know what they missed. So July 7th rolls around. We aren't exactly formal people. We went and bought suits/dresses for the event. I looked so odd but also sort of satisfying. Black and blue matches me well. She wore a small black dress with red flower print. Curled her hair and colored it blue and purple layered under her dark brown hair. Simply put she was gorgeous. We headed off to the club nervous and excited as could be. We arrived unfashionably early but this was both our first time entering a club of any sort. We simply don't do things like this. As we enter a lady around age 40 asked us if we wanted a tour. I said "not just yet we just want to walk around and get a feel for the place". We continued on in and through the empty dance floor. We could see a few of the volunteers and possibly a couple attendees more than likely regulars. So we walked to the seated area for food and drinks. Empty as well. I looked to her and we just kind of shrugged and sat down to talk. This is when a man came walking up to us. Let's call him K. K was an ambassador for the club. A well built 200lb black man with dreads. He asked us if we would like a tour. This time I had a strong gut feeling and agreed to the tour. He started off by bringing us to the couples lounge, at this point people began pouring into the club. K was very attentive and helpful explaining how everything worked and the rules. Showed us the art from the earlier art show. Explained the week before was mainly just art of penises, we laughed and headed up to the second floor On the second floor we saw the pole and like 5-10 play rooms with a few people already going to town on eachother. This was our first time seeing another couple having sex. Like we hadn't even really had friends aside from eachother growing up so we didnt go to parties or have friends close to us to have seen doing anything. This to us was a very cool aspect and we also had spent a lot of our teen years exploring exhibitionism. K was rather amusing saying "damn people already getting crazy tonight, yall might have some fun!" From the second we headed up to the locked third floor, they open it on Friday and Saturday.. no one was up there we looked around a bit and then K comes over and says "you know you guys are really fucking cute together. Just thought I'd let ya'll know" We smiled and thanked him. He really made us feel comfortable there. After the tour we headed back down to the second floor and watched a bondage scene take place. A Dom was flogging a cute little tatted chick who's hips were tied down. When we first saw this I thought "how could this turn someone on?" Little did I know, I actually am a massive masochist. So we walked back down stairs and to our car outside, smoked some green, relaxed a minute. While in the car my wife says "Well I know one guy in there definitely wants to fuck me....." I said "K?" And she smiled big as she could "you could tell too?" I just smiled back. She had never spent ANY time around black men growing up. Like we live in the whitest population possible. So she had never known just how much black men turn her on. We head back in and stopped at the bar. Bought some drinks (I'm a recovered alcoholic so I am only allowed one) we sat at the seated area and drank our drinks. As we did so we were looking at people enter and sort of playing a game of looking at them, looking at eachother and giving a look as to whether or not we'd do something with them. Once the drinks were gone we went back to the couples lounge. I reached up her dress slowly gliding my finger up her thigh. Being who she is she immediately opens her legs a bit and gets comfortable. I reach up and rub my thumb over her clit a bit, shocker... this woman is just beyond wet. At this point K walks in. I think he was giving someone a tour, during which he says to the people with him "and look at this cute couple just getting so comfortable over there, hope yall are enjoying yourself" with a big grin on his face. I noticed my wife's pussy tighten and relax a couple times. K took his group away but within probably 4 minutes he came back to inform us about the club menu. Then he says to my wife "God girl, you are so beautiful. You got this amazing librarian look to you. Just damn girl!" She blushed and thanked him. He left again and she looked me right in the face "I'm going to go get his number" at this point we hadn't exactly planned to actually do anything full blown at this event. Mostly we were there to explore our feelings about it. She was done exploring she found what she was looking for. So we get up and she goes hunting for him. We find him in the second floor area where now they are basically full of people. She walked up to him and said "can I please get your number?" He immediately gets it for her, she then asked "are you allowed to do stuff with customers?" He smiled and looked over his shoulder. Kinda said under his breath, "yeah meet me back in that room over there and I'll head back there and shut the door." At this point we walk over to... well the wrong room... so he walks over and says "nah this room over here" at this point I told my wife "babe I think you should do this on your own" long story short I dominate our relationship and she has a strong urge to ensure I'm always happy even if I don't want her to. I didn't want that pressure on her during the first time. Especially since we had both only had sex with eachother. She argued for a second saying "nah come on" I told her she will have more fun the first time without pressure. She processed this for a total of 1 second and said "fuck it im going to go do this!" I smiled, kissed her and told her "good luck I'll be right out here waiting". I remember seeing her walking down the hall and going into the room. People were trying so hard to see what was going on in their room. So I walked over to the bar and sat there with a smile on my face knowing what my wife was doing in a room just down the hall from me. It's such a unique feeling, I'm definitely not a cuckhold, I don't like humiliation or anything, I just get turned on by watching or knowing my wife is getting dominated and exploring the sex life we never explored. So since I wasn't present I asked her to detail the entire event so I could have it in my imagination. She did and here's her retelling of the 30-45 minutes that happened from here. I walked into the room and we both got undressed. I told him about how I'm totally inexperienced and unsure how to even start. He said "okay get on your knees" I got on my knees and he stood infront of me. I grabbed his cock and started sucking on the head with my hands on his shaft. I deep throated it as hard as I could. I heard him moaning. I looked him in the eyes for a minute and stopped, he reached down, grabbed me and tossed me on the bed. I laid back and he got onto me and slid his cock in, I was so wet at this point. My first thought was "okay well I have officially had a second cock in me!" Then he went to town on me, his dick was smaller around than yours but longer. You were right when you said once I do it, it would just feel like sex and there would be little emotion other than horniness there. After a bit in missionary he took both of my legs and put them over his right shoulder then pinned me and went deep for a few minutes. He then stood up and did what you do to tell me to switch to doggy, did a little spin with his finger motioning to turn around. Now he held me from my breast and again went deep as he could. Went again for another 10 minutes. I could feel him tense way up for like 15-20 seconds and then said "where can I cum" "where you want" he came. Up my back. When he slowed down we collapsed a bit and he slipped out. Smiled big and thanked me a few times. Asked if I came, I had a few times but I was so intent on him I didn't want to pay it as much mind as I should have. Then I informed him I had an amazing time and that he was the first aside from my husband I ever had, he said "wow I feel special" with that big smile again. I also told him "next time you can fuck me in the ass" and he said "that was an option?!" Iaughed and we opened the door. I came out to see you having the biggest dumbest grin on your face. So there was her recalling it. Oh btw my wife loves anal, she kinda loves anything sexual but anything that stretches her limits and makes her feel like a badass bitch, she loves it. So we spent another hour there and then got bored cause she already did what we came to do. She walked around the club naked the rest of the time we were there. People kept complimenting her confidence. This was a side of her I'd never seen. She was so happy and proud of herself. I walked up and bumped fist with K and then we started feeling tired so we went to the car and then decided to just go ahead and head home. However I still hadn't cum but I was turned on as fuck so we went to some park and fucked like crazy. That was our first night swinging. I know I wasn't detailed enough about some stuff and I can be much more detailed on my next story as I will have actually been in the room for that one. Spoiler. She finds another black guy and we dp her 😛
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1 pointIf your hubby is aware and on board -yes you can swing on your own - called ‘hot wife’. If he is not aware, not on board there is a different word for that… And, yes clubs welcome unaccompanied women with open arms. The clubs are not concerned with your marital status.
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1 pointI think meant to be a more polite code for "not trashy", since some people are looking for that scene. I think it's not so much about money or importance as it's supposed to imply proper grooming, a clean living environment, not dropping foul language at dinner, etc., traits that you'd expect from someone able to hold down a professional job. Sure, mildly snobby/classist, but intended to signal to some people not to waste their time. I can see where that leaves a lot of groomed, clean "non-professional" people in the middle going "WTF", though.
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1 pointWe follow this advice. I don't mind a few glasses of wine to loosen inhibitions, but when I get drunk, I just get sleepy. And my husband can't keep it hard when he's drunk. Then again, I don't have a problem being super kinky when I'm sober. My question is if you only do kinky activities when you are only drunk, are those the things you want to do?
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1 pointMy unpopular advice: don't play drunk. Buzzed, OK but drunk, no. If you've had enough to drink that your judgement is impaired, boundaries are crossed and rules are broken than you've had too much to drink.
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1 pointIt would be easier to spot other swingers true, but sooner or later the word would get out and we would all have these strange stereotypes put on us like other misunderstood groups in our society. Masons and the gay/lesbian communities come to mind.
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1 pointWe wear t-shirts with adds on the back:lol: Actually, it would be great if you could tell. We got started when a couple friends made "dry runs" at us a long time ago. As the years went by, we began to discuss some of their comments and began to believe they were swingers. After not seeing them for many years, our paths crossed again. And again they started making comments that were seemingly jokes, but we felt it was their way of feeling us out. Finally Ms. O just flat out asked the female, in private, and she admitted it. She then asked if we were interested and the rest is history. Mostly, I believe, is spouse's flirting with the opposite sex in front of their spouses (with approval).
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1 pointIronic that you brought this up. I just had the opportunity to do this over the weekend. Yummy, he was so excited watching me eat her out he almost came again. Definitely something we will enjoy doing again, and again. MrsAK