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We are looking for some fun new ideas or activities for our party nights with our “open” friends. Non of us are full swap. All the ladies are pretty open to anything and everything with the other ladies and pretty comfortable with playing and touching from the guys. An example of one of our nights, just to give u an idea….at a hotel with 2 beds, the 4 ladies played musical beds. Each found there spots, the guys in the other room, picked a toy of their choice, blindfolded themselves, stumbled our way into the bedroom, using only our hands to find a lady. Not knowing who we landed on. The challenge was to use the toy we picked and see who could make one of the ladies cum first. This went on for 2 or 3 rounds. Lol. We’re looking for similar type activities or games, if u will. Any ideas are appreciated. thanks !!

For hygiene and health reasons, I always use condoms for anal penetration, even with my husband and the couple of close friends that I have vaginal condomless intercourse. To each their own, but my preference is not to get penetrated vaginally if the dick was in an ass before, even if it was my ass; also not a fan of sucking a dick immediately after the dick was in an ass, but I suppose that I have done that inadvertently in parties.

We had a conversation about what we look for and wondered if we would stop and look at us. I said we put a higher bar for others physically which we ourselves possibly don’t meet. After Thanksgiving feeling stuffed I said I have to stop eating all the desserts, I’m getting fat. If we are going to be in the Lifestyle we have to make lifestyle changes. We need to eat healthier while exercising more. We know personality is important while who will find out our personality if they skip us because of body type.

We got one of those when I had Carpal Tunnel surgery. Yes, both at the same time. Made my life (and certainly my wife's) much easier! Now I still use that bathroom exclusively for bowel movements.

Wonderful self knowledge. I think that's really healthy. Walking in the others shoes.

As was the plan, David's plan, I visited Joe and Shannon this past weekend. The play was fun, but the most memorable two parts were something else. First, David, in addition to having made the arrangements for me (business class, airport pickup) drove me to the airport. On the way, his enthusiasm for the trip and happiness for me made me feel so good. Hard to explain, except that it was shared excitement and love. Second, Shannon, Joe, and I played Friday night, but Saturday morning Shannon conspicuously moved things along with a nice breakfast, but no sex. But then around 10 am she said, "I have class and a few errands to do, see you around 4," and left Joe and me to enjoy alone time playing. How thoughtful! (Joe and I slept together Sunday night as well, while Shan slept in the guest room.) David picked me up at the airport on Monday as well with such loving happiness to see me that I was really touched.

Take a regular pair of dice, create a list of frisky activities numbered 2 ro 12 with 2 being the mildest (such as kiss on the cheek) and 12 being the wildest (such as 5 seconds of oral sex). To make it safe the player chooses who they perform the act with so the shy ones can choose their own partner.

Male half here. We’ve never had an actual threesome … at least not one that went on for any length of time. On two occasions — both with the same couple — I’ve taken my wife from behind while she was giving a blowjob, but that was only long enough to let the other wife go get a drink of water or throw away a condom or some such thing. I also once had my wife and that same other wife share giving *me* a blowjob … but again, that was only long enough for the other husband to do something or other. . So that said, my first choice would be MFM. Why? Because those two very brief MFMs and the very few times that I’ve been able to actually watch my wife with another male, even for just a minute or two, were hotter than hell! It wasn’t just watching the physical acts they were doing … that’s only porn. It was the unbridled pleasure she exhibited whether giving or receiving, and the intensity of her orgasm when the other male got her over the top. It was intense in a way that I’ve rarely seen her experience with me and I want her to have the opportunity to experience it again … AND I (selfishly) want to watch her experience it! . As for FMF, I doubt that at my age I could really keep up with and satisfy two women … although I’d for damn sure love to put that hypothesis to the test! I suspect that an option not given in the question — FFM — would work better for us as long as the other female is bi. Not only would it afford both of the women more play, but watching my wife play with another female in the past was just as hot as watching her play with another male.

I'm scrupulous in my hygiene, but I don't do anything special for anal. It usually happens spontaneously, so in those rare instances when you hit something it's up to you to go, clean up, and practice good hygiene. I've also found that when I've had two men in my bum hole and leave their first ejaculations of the day, all that semen acts on me like an enema. Sorry for TMI, but we're being honest here.

In addition to my regular hygiene routine, I use an enema. During action time, any good lover knows that if you want my ass you have to earn it, that means: lots of lube and foreplay.