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3 pointsAmy just told me that she cheated on me three times with Ken. His wife Lesley knew about it and encouraged it. Amy said the most exciting time was the third when she let Ken ride her. bareback and cum inside her. That was a special present for Ken's birthday requested by Lesley. Now that I know all the details she doesn't consider that she needs permission or a hall pass to have sex with Ken. She says it's more exciting when they do it secretly.
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2 pointsWe are considering it. We have 3 real beds (1 king, 2 queens). But I think we need more bed area. What have other people used? Air mattresses? Real mattresses?
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2 pointsThis sort of thing can be difficult to advise upon... Firstly any person (Or couple) are entitled to their own privacy. Yet in order to mix within the 'lifestyle' you do lose a certain mount of anonymity. So my own way of dealing with my own privacy issues are not to have recognisable 'face' pictures... ( I am older and retired so I have no problem with my face pictures nowadays) I can only suggest one main thing. It is your life and unless you are doing something 'illegal'. Be proud and self confident. I also pity these cruel people who 'out' other. They are miserable cruel and envious fuckers..!
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2 pointsBy some estimates, 2% of couples play. The demographics are not uniform, and therefore the percentage among the people you encounter could well be higher. The nature of the LS community is that works to connect, via boards such as this, SLS, Kasadie, and dating sites. (Relative) strangers come together at parties, resorts, takeovers, and cruises. We mention all of this to suggest that in the LS, the idea that everyone is connected by not more than "six degrees of separation" is by that intention probably closer to a maximum of three, and commonly two and one. The likelihood that you and some couple (1,2,3,...N) in your LS circle have a common acquaintance in the LS is very high. The likelihood that you have a common acquaintance in vanilla life is also quite high. You might go to the same dry cleaner, or discover that your kids have been through the same school, or whatever. Part of the code of the LS is that you don't "out" others except possibly as an introduction to other in the LS, for example sponsoring another couple new to a house party. But never to vanillas. You cannot know what your friends have said, but it doesn't really matter. You are, for purposes of your company, vanilla golf buddies. Your families like each other and sometimes travel together. Nothing surprising or unusual. It does raise a question that should be discussed between you and your spouse, though. How, precisely, do you...or will you...handle what appear to be curiosity-driven authentic requests for information? You don't have to tell all of the truth...ever. The question is whether you will tell lies, and if so, what. This need for a strategy surfaced for us the first time we returned from a beach holiday with no tan lines. We had decided in advance that if asked, we would be truthful in response--that we had vacationed at a clothing-optional resort. Now you may say that nude recreation is accepted/mainstream and swinging is not. Our point is that planned answers avoid a lot of awkwardness. We'll close with an observation. LS couples are often the happiest people we know, and often the happiest people in mixed settings. If you are like other LS couples of our ken, you _will_ be asked, what's your secret to staying so happy? Your scripted response to that question is useful not only as a direct answer, but can be quite useful as be basis for redirecting questions that you might find awkward. Don't fret. Rather, use the situation as an opportunity to reflect and to do a little scenario planning.
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1 pointMy wife and I have attended a few parties, and we've been out on double dates where we participated in soft swap and hard swaps depending on the other couples preferences. However, when we started discussing the idea of opening our relationship to others the thing that my wife couldn't get out of her head was when I mentioned hotwifing and I told her just the thought that she could be out there cheating on me with another man was sexy as hell. The idea of cheating turned her on. She couldn't get it out of her head. She loved the naughtiness of cheating. So she took it a step farther. She agreed to us sleeping with other people but she wanted it to feel like a real affair. As she talked she laid out what she desired this to look like, I was incredibly turned on by the entire thing. So I agreed to her requests. They were pretty simple. 1. She and I sleep with whomever we want, excluding each others family. 2. We can play solo with anyone we want. 3. She never has to tell me who she is sleeping with nor ask permission. 4. I am permitted to do anything in my power to catch her in her affairs. 5. If I catch her I have to confront her and then she will tell me everything. In an effort to catch her in the slutty act I've turned myself into a bit of a super sluth. I purchased some nanny cams and hidden cameras and set them up throughout my house. I have 2 in the living room, 1 in the dinning room, 1 in the kitchen. 2 in the bedroom, 1 in the guest room, 1 in the master bathroom focused on the shower and the tub. I installed a ring doorbell to see whoes. I also bought a couple apple airtags and attached one under the seat of her car and I put one in the lining of her purse. I travel for work frequently and I have had a fair number of nights where I got to watch some very sexy videos of my wife fucking around behind my back. I've also caught her having sex in her van as well. And I even followed her to another guys house using the airtags and saw her having sex with a guy in his hot tub. 🔥 this sexy game of cat and mouse has become one of our favorite games. So I know most couples want complete transparency but does anyone else get off on the idea of your spouse fucking around behind their back?
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1 pointI don't know. I am very carefully considering my next response if any.
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1 pointMy first thought was that the other wife is a fun-loving woman who doesn't think much about showing her tits. I know a handful of women who flash their tits without much thought about it. None of them are swingers. We recently moved to a new neighborhood. In our old neighborhood there were 4-5 women just on my street who would (and have) flashed their tits at various venues. One wore the skimpiest bikinis I'd ever seen daily during the summer. She would wear the top of it while she did projects around the house. She has been with one man, her husband, in her 37 years. Another is as conservative as any woman I know but a wet t-shirt isn't uncommon around her pool. With all that said, the know swingers in the neighborhood are blackballed from many of the holiday gatherings by these same flash-loving women. So I wouldn't seek to press further unless you don't mind getting alienated.
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1 pointUnlike others here on the board, we did have friends who joined us in swinging. It was great. On the other hand, I do know vanilla couples who also play around for their own satisfaction, and it could just be that. A comment to your friend that you showed the pic to your wife and she liked it too might be a subtle way to move the conversation forward a bit.
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1 pointMaybe ask if she’d be willing to show ’em to you and your wife in person some time?
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1 pointI doubt that they're swingers. I would suspect that the wife thought, "Hell, this could be fun," so she allowed it. Probably it led to some great sex between her and her husband. I wouldn't start the subject, I'd leave it be. If they bring it up, well, it's worth exploring. But if they just let it lie, I wouldn't push it. Remember the old adages about swinging with friends . . .
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1 pointWe have thrown a few. We have literally gotten more mileage out of a few blankets thrown on the living room floor than all the beds in the house. If your house guests are comfortable with each other give them the space to play in one big pile. A buffet of naked bodies to taste and sample.
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1 pointHow long is piece of string..? The number of beds, sofas, mattress etc. That you might need for a 'House Party' will depend on how many you intend to invite... Are you going to invite the local football team? Or perhaps say somewhere between 5 and 10 couples. That would mean there could be at minimum 10 people, up to a maximum of 20 people... (Imagine this as a basic arithmetic question..!) How many people will fit into your three bedrooms and your living room sofa... That might help you on the number of people to invite...
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1 pointWE also ran into a coworker many years ago at an event. It was a bit odd at first, but neither of us mentioned it at work, and it was not an issue. For us, we also made sure not to have pictures that would out us. Without pictures, it is just rumors, and easily denied. Times also have changed. More people are accepting that what people do in theri private life is their own business. If you are not the head of an anti gay group, I think you are okay.
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1 pointMy GF uses a bidet prior to anal or the potential of anal. It's pretty effective almost like a water enema.
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1 pointMy concern would be your employment, and is there anything about your LS that could get you terminated for code of conduct and I will tell you why. Back in 2006 my ex wife was a travel nurse working on a contract at a state hospital in a midwest state. She was not a unionized nurse but frequented a union nurse website and several LS websites with nude pictures of herself. One day she was sent home from work pending termination. Her travel company notified her that an employee notified the hospital of the nude pictures and her contract was void because she broke the code of conduct in their work manual. The travel company stated that the hospital was known to monitor employees social media and my ex wife had no recourse. From then on my ex wife would not participate in any nude group photos of any kind. My take was that it was more about the union websites, but they couldn't terminate her for that so they used her nude pictures on the LS websites. So, be very careful.
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1 pointTake a regular pair of dice, create a list of frisky activities numbered 2 ro 12 with 2 being the mildest (such as kiss on the cheek) and 12 being the wildest (such as 5 seconds of oral sex). To make it safe the player chooses who they perform the act with so the shy ones can choose their own partner.
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1 pointLet me start off my story with some background. We are a typical suburban family that lives in a nice neighborhood, and we have a good piece of property with an in-ground pool that is secluded from our neighbors. John (my husband) and I (Mary) are in our early 50s, and we started swinging about 15 years ago. John was able to retire early, and I have one more year to go. We go out on occasion now and then to enjoy the lifestyle, but find it frustrating in finding the right play partners with all the fakes or just not matching up. Over the course of our swinging, we have been able to fulfill a number of our fantasies. We go out on occasion and do not make this a full-time endeavor, however, the events that unfolded over the last year has taken us beyond any fantasy that we could have thought up. It started last fall with our old neighbors moving away, which was sad as they were great next-door neighbors of the vanilla type. The house stood vacant for a few months and in late fall we notice that the “for sale” sign came down and there was activity happening at the place during the late night hours. We tried to get a glimpse of our new neighbors, but it seems that they kept odd hours and were away a lot. We never saw them. However, we did notice that they did not really keep the place up. Trash cans left on the curb long after garbage pickup, leaves unraked, never shoveling the snow during the winter, and of course – odd hours of coming and goings with different cars in the driveway. This pattern continued thought out the winter and spring came – now the frustration of the lawn not being mowed. My husband was getting more and more upset over the lack of upkeep on the house and the mysterious nature of our new neighbors. After the grass was mid-calf, we finally saw our neighbor. She was a blond in her late 30s of average build and portion. She was having a tough time of mowing the lawn by push mower. During the spring the pattern would continue of the grass growing way too long and then a glimpse of her struggling to mow it. Still weird hours and cars coming and going. We never really had a chance to introduce ourselves. However, that all changed during late spring. Our pool was open, and we were in the middle of a heat wave. John and I were out enjoying the pool and trying to stay cool when we heard the mower next door start up. Though a small opening in our tree line we could see our neighbor struggling to mow here lawn. I decided that since we outdoors, I would take the opportunity to walk over and say hello. As I appreciate this woman, I noticed she was sweating like crazy in the heat and I hollowed out to her a “hello.” She stopped the mower and introduced herself as Jill as I welcomed her to the neighborhood. Jill commented on our lovely yard and the nice pool, and that she sure could use a cooling off (in short she was looking for an invite). I took the hint and invited her over for a swim, which she gladly accepted. She said she be right over once she got her bathing suit on. I went back over to the pool and informed John we were about to have company, which he as not happy with as he still had a chip on his shoulder on how her yard was maintained. Now, this is where the story gets interesting. Jill came over, I introduced her to John, and she thanked us for the invite and quickly took off her cover-up and dove into the pool. We both got a good look at her; nice body, nothing too special, but she carried herself well in a bikini. John offered her a drink, and it was beers all around. As we floated in the pool with lots of small talk, we came to find out she was an airline hostess and that she was constantly on the go. Thus the weird hours and lack of lawn care. We also discovered the reason for the cars coming and goings – her coworkers coming to crash at her place from time to time. John, being blunt as usual made some sort of comment that she really needed to keep up with the yard, which she took a little offense to and stated that if he did not like it, he could mow it. This set John off, and his quick response just said: “blow me.” Her response was “Oh, I am sure you would love that, but I think your wife might have some other thoughts.” Seeing that things were getting very tense, I broke the tension without really thinking and blurted out: “Okay by me. You blow him, and he cuts the lawn, win-win.” At this, both my husband and Jill were silenced and just stared at me. Jill was the first to respond and asked if I didn’t mind if John cheated on me, to which I replied it is not cheating if I know, watch, and participate. This shocked them even more. More moments of silence. I then said, “John, take our your cock.” After a pause of puzzled looks from the both of them, John pulled down his swim trunks and his above average cock slowly started to rise. Jill looked at his cock and then over to me. Again moments of silence to which I broke by asking her: “Do you want your lawn mowed?” Jill than swam over to John and started to lick his shaft and soon was sucking him off. Knowing John, I did not think he would cum given the circumstances, so I got out of the pool and headed indoors. I found out later Jill took a small break of sucking John to ask if I could handle watching this. John replied that I was fine, but he was not sure what I was doing. I returned in a few moments - I had went to get a condom. After watching Jill suck on my husband’s cock for a while, I made the comment that he might not cum in that position and they might want to get out of the pool, and then I showed them the condom. John and Jill got out. Jill took off her swimsuit and proceeded to get on all fours on the lounge chair. John put on the condom and proceeded to fuck the hell out of Jill. During this time I laid in the other lounge chair and masturbated getting such a turn-on with the scene in front of me. After a while John came, and Jill casually got up and got dressed and just stated: “Now, mow my lawn.” John laughed and just did that – mowed the lawn. This went on for a few weeks, John taking care of the lawn and Jill taking care of John. Sometimes I was present, and sometimes I was not. I never had any play with Jill but did enjoy watching. After a few weeks, John and I were enjoying the pool, and we heard a hello from next door, but this was not Jill. A very curvy younger redhead came over and introduced herself as Colleen. She and Jill work together, and Colleen was using Jill’s crash pad. She asked if it was okay if she used the pool and that she would be making payment for the lawn care this week. That being said, she took off her bathing suit and got into the pool. This woman was not more than 25 years old. John looked and me, and with my nod, he quickly got up and got naked and into the pool. The two of them were kissing and fondling each other which made me get turned out and a bit jealous at the same time seeing John with someone so much younger. Collen called over and asked if I was going to join them. I jumped at the chance and got unsuited and into the pool in seconds. I approach Collen, and we began to kiss and explore each other’s bodies. Her breasts were not that large, B or C but had the firmness of youth. The three of us enjoyed a ton of foreplay in the pool and then brought it into the house. There we fucked in various positions for what seemed like hours before we all came multiple times. John was enjoying his retirement to say the least. I would come home, and he would tell me of his exploits, and I was getting more than my share on weekends. One day I walked into his office, and on his bulletin board he had a list with checks on them. The list included every hair color under the sun, large breast, small breast, every race, big clit, small clit, natural breasts and enhanced, fit and plump, etc. When I saw the list, only a quarter was checked off, but then by the end of the summer, most of it was filled. We estimated he had 50 sexual encounters during the summer. John was having the time of his, and so was I. The summer was full of sex and play. There were times when we had an entire group of airline hostesses at our pool, both male and female. Sometimes it was tame, and sometimes it was a wild party. I myself engaged in many of the women and some of the men (some did not go that way, some went both ways). We saw more action in 5 months than we did in 15 years of swinging. Once summer ended so did the parties. After that, it calmed down a lot, but John would still go over and do some chores around the house and was paid by someone. Last and fun note: Late fall, John and I headed out for a vacation to Germany. As we boarded the plan, we recognized two of the hostesses from our parties. We said a casual hello and went to our seats as the boarding was crowded. Before take off, Joan, one of the hostesses, came by and said we were upgraded to first class. We were so excited and thanked her very much. As we got into first class, we were shown our seats, which was almost a little room to ourselves. We got ourselves comfortable and ready for the 9 plus hour flight. After a few hours into the air and the lights in the cabin off, John and I watching movies, Joan came by, and we had some small talk on the fun summer parties. Joan asked if we ever joined the mile high club, which was a no. She said that was a shame and that it needed to be rectified. She asked if I minded and I said no. She went over to John and undid his pants and started to give him a BJ. I continued to watch my movie and hold John’s hand as he was getting his cock sucked off. After a short while he came. Joan said that was not really the mile high club because there was no fucking. She said that should be between the two of us. She assured us no one would bother us and said have a good flight. So we are now official members of the club.
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1 pointyou search SLS for your zip code and find your neighbors picture in their profile.
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1 pointEveryone brings gym bags and coolers. 15 cars in the yard. The house doesn't have a pool and nobody goes outside during the party. When the neighbors ask what's going on you say, "it's an Amway party", then the neighbors says thanks and runs home to avoid you and the party:hahaha:
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1 pointIf your neighbor gets a hot tub, installs privacy fencing, and never invites you over to use it . . . =)