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Since I was texted the nude on Tuesday, and now it's Thursday I feel like my window of opportunity to move on this is coming to a close. This is what I'm thinking now and I would love to hear your thoughts: Since it could be deemed unfair to receive a nude and not send one in response, my current thinking is to reply with a nude of my own naked, smiling wife in the shower - a pic I know for certain my wife will happily pose for. That makes it even, and puts the ball back in my friend's court to make the next move. Good idea or bad?

So last Sunday I helped a vanilla friend install a glass shower door and it pretty much took all day. I am one to have a naughty sense of humor, so I joked to him "payment for my services is a photo of your wife pressing her tits against the glass door". He laughed and joked back "I'll see what I can do". To my surprise he delivered. I received a text yesterday of his smiling naked wife with her big wet tits pressed against the shower door I helped him install. Honestly I was shocked. To my knowledge, they don't swing and they don't know we swing. It's not something we have ever brought up with them. I texted back "That is awesome thank you 😍". But now my mind is swimming. Does he know we're swingers and is this some sort of invite? I'm not 100% sure what my next move should be of if there should be one. What would yours be?

I don’t think that people who send provocative boob pictures are nudists. They are provocateurs. Whether they are active or passive is the question. Some people get off on sending pictures, some swing, swap,etc.

My thought is nudists are not necessary swingers. But sending a nude picture in return is certainly ok, a small reciprocation in the right direction.

Unlike others here on the board, we did have friends who joined us in swinging. It was great. On the other hand, I do know vanilla couples who also play around for their own satisfaction, and it could just be that. A comment to your friend that you showed the pic to your wife and she liked it too might be a subtle way to move the conversation forward a bit.

Please let us know how that turns out.

Very good suggestions and I agree the "We" pronoun is an important differentiator here. I want it to be clear we are both titillated by this fun exchange, and if we go with shower nude in response a well-crafted message should be provocative without being forward. That is the most important question and is the current subject of conversation between my wife and I. Are we attracted to them? Do we want to open this Pandora's box? He is a former coworker of mine from many years ago and we travel in separate friend circles with little crossover. They live an hour away. I think there is enough distance for this to be safe. My wife says there has been flirting and chemistry since the beginning that I have missed and gave me a couple examples. Let's just say at this point my wife and I find the possibility intriguing and certainly not out of the question. We're going to talk this over a little more, and continue to examine the expert advice coming from this forum (thank you ❤️), and tomorrow morning we will decide if we are really going to pull the trigger on the shower pic 😬.

I went back through your texts in this thread and I wondered that if this progresses, is this couple someone you guys would actually swap with? Flirting is nice, but going through with a swap with a couple that you socialize with is a different story.

Handled well, in my opinion this is an excellent idea. The photo and accompanying text need to be crafted carefully — not too blatant, maybe a bit flirtatious but on the coy side. I’ve seen the photos you’ve posted, hunterdon, so I expect you can do this adroitly. Have your wife show just a bit more than your friend’s photo revealed of his wife. Perhaps add that your wife sometimes enjoys showing herself off. Be sure to add that she approved sharing the photo. I note that in your response text to him you said it was "awesome", but that you didn’t specifically address his wife’s qualities. Perhaps in the text that accompanies the photo of your wife you might say something along the lines of "My wife and I both appreciated the photo you sent, both for the humor of the subject, but also how pretty your wife is out of her clothes. We thought we ought to send you one in return." Wait and see what, if anything, comes back. You can go respond accordingly. (As Tom Petty sang, "the waiting is the hardest part".)

Popcorn! 🍿 You could ask your friend if they ever tried swinging. If yes, you may have new partners. If no, then what. It’s hard to recruit and train newbies. You also don’t want to lose a friendship. This is a sticky wicket. But it’s the kind of butterflies that are exciting.

I don't know. I am very carefully considering my next response if any.

That was my first thought also.

So I showed the pic to my wife and confessed that I made the joke that prompted this - but it was just a joke. Her response was "I always got that vibe from them". Hm. I never really did but it wouldn't be the first time I was oblivious.

All I know is that I would be volunteering to help him in the future with any other projects he may have...

Nope, I prefer it to not include my partner. Also in the FMF, I prefer the women to be unfamiliar with each other and in the MFM, I prefer neither of us males have ties with the female. I like the surprise aspect of having sex with 2 people that I am unfamiliar with!

That was going to be my first suggestion if your wife is down. Just some playful fun. Maybe it leads to more, maybe not. I've gotten semi nude pics from friends and their wives, it's never lead to anything.

No, not really. Our style was to get guys for MFMs with my wife, and I tremendously enjoyed that. But a few times, I was honored to be the 'other' man in an MFM with a couple, and I really enjoyed that as well. Either is pretty good.

I like it. It should provoke a response.

Amy called to tell me that she was on her way ho e from work and bringing Claire with her. Her husband, Pete, told her that she could have a hall pass for tonight. Amy said she would stay downstairs and watch TV then sleep in the guest room. Amy and Claire will go to work together in the morning,

Did your friend tell his wife that he took her picture to send it for you?

Why?

I doubt that they're swingers. I would suspect that the wife thought, "Hell, this could be fun," so she allowed it. Probably it led to some great sex between her and her husband. I wouldn't start the subject, I'd leave it be. If they bring it up, well, it's worth exploring. But if they just let it lie, I wouldn't push it. Remember the old adages about swinging with friends . . .

We call it “mutually assured destruction.” If they out us, they out themselves.

For hygiene and health reasons, I always use condoms for anal penetration, even with my husband and the couple of close friends that I have vaginal condomless intercourse. To each their own, but my preference is not to get penetrated vaginally if the dick was in an ass before, even if it was my ass; also not a fan of sucking a dick immediately after the dick was in an ass, but I suppose that I have done that inadvertently in parties.

Recently we have been having lots of threesomes. It's difficult to choose between MMF and FMF. I love how my wife Amy starts with a cock in each hand, licks two cocks at the same tim then watching her getting pumped full of her lover's cum. When we do FMF Amy asks me to cum insde the other girl while she watches. My favorite threesome was a FMF with Claire and Melissa, I filled them both with cum while Amy watched from the sidelines.

I was once with an FWB, fucking her doggie (a position in which she was able to reach orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation) when her phone rang. For reasons that to this day — many years later — I fail to understand, she picked the handset off her nightstand and answered the call. I could only hear her side of the conversation, but over the course of several minutes, as I continued to thrust while stifling my own vocalizations, her end of the conversation became less and less coherent. She did soon end the conversation and moments after hanging up experienced what sounded to me like a substantial orgasm.

MFM everytime! I find FMF's boring and my wife is 100% straight and won't kiss another woman let alone do anything else with one. Im also straight but find a mfm much more exciting especially as my wife loves have two cocks at once!

What's not to like about either one. I love to eat pussy both 69 and from below. From below it's nice to have a guy at my backside or a lady who likes strapon sex. But I like to be behind too for 2 ladies or a mixed couple doing oral. So many possibilities amongst intimate friends!

We have done MFM, FFM, and FMF. Each has its advantages and disadvantages. But the best is with two Bi-ladies!!!