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I understand why some people would want to be soft swap vs. full swap, but I never understood the no kissing rule. So I can put my mouth on and in another woman’s pussy, I can insert my penis into her vagina, but kissing is too intimate? Don’t get it.

It's my belief that soft *swap* means that the couples will interact with each other. The wife of one couple will be sexual with the husband of the other, and vice versa. Exactly what activities go on (kissing, petting, oral, etc.) is up to the couples. There is no PIV penetration. If the couples only watch each other, and there is no physical interaction, that is not soft-swap, as I believe it.

All women are blind folded, and need to keep their hands behind their backs. Each man takes a turn getting oral sex with each of the women. The women have to figure out who is who; winner is the one that picks the most right This works with the women being blindfolded and receiving oral sex and having to figure out. It also works with men blindfolded and giving or receiving oral sex.

Thank you to all who reached out to wish us well. As the year ends leaving us with many questions about our future playing we think of those no longer with us, those who had like us some negativity, those we had fun with and those we hope to one day meet for fun. This is a reminder that there are cautions we all need to take in our lives and we learn from mistakes. Unfortunately we went to places we never imagined when we first joined an exciting group of friends. Wishing all a healthy fun new year 🎄🎄🎉

We are looking for some fun new ideas or activities for our party nights with our “open” friends. Non of us are full swap. All the ladies are pretty open to anything and everything with the other ladies and pretty comfortable with playing and touching from the guys. An example of one of our nights, just to give u an idea….at a hotel with 2 beds, the 4 ladies played musical beds. Each found there spots, the guys in the other room, picked a toy of their choice, blindfolded themselves, stumbled our way into the bedroom, using only our hands to find a lady. Not knowing who we landed on. The challenge was to use the toy we picked and see who could make one of the ladies cum first. This went on for 2 or 3 rounds. Lol. We’re looking for similar type activities or games, if u will. Any ideas are appreciated. thanks !!

I had a relatively brief relationship with a woman I had known already in a social context. We both had other primary partners. After our first kiss she said that to her kissing was the most intimate sexual act. I don’t completely agree, but I don’t find very satisfying one-on-one sex that doesn’t include passionate kissing.

My understanding is that soft swap includes oral sex and full swap is sexual intercourse.

My 'Fetish'... That would be Stockings and Heels..! Erotic Lingerie would be next... Anal would be my third...

I also love it when a trusted partner makes a mess of his cum all over my body.

A woman wearing her wedding ring while playing with someone other than her husband 🥵

Haha. I know. It’s a little more than soft swap. Just not full swap. Lol. All the girls say “No D in the V” 😂

Best wishes to old and new friends. We are grateful to those we met and those we only know by posts. We look forward to a peaceful year.

Is that what you call a 'Soft Swap' ..? Sounds more than that to me... But I like the idea of it very much... (Now where did I put that blindfold of mine...)

Best of fun and health to everyone!

Take a regular pair of dice, create a list of frisky activities numbered 2 ro 12 with 2 being the mildest (such as kiss on the cheek) and 12 being the wildest (such as 5 seconds of oral sex). To make it safe the player chooses who they perform the act with so the shy ones can choose their own partner.

Unhindered ejaculation and semen are our fetishes as well. That's one of the major reasons why we gave up open swinging for a closed group, to make and play in that wonderful mess.

Thanks for the complement on clothes!!!! We haven't been to Key West or Tampa areas in over a year, so am recycling, LOL. Julie

We canceled out on Mexico now for the third time in the past year. Last week at the Casino, during the week, we went to the 360 View Chophouse for a snack and drink at 11 PM. From there, down to blackjack and craps... Julie can feel more comfortable with masks on and late during the week. It tended to be cool so Julie's nipples really popped. There were maybe an 1/2 dozen couples of various ages around the casino and a few dozen men. There really was very little reaction about Julie's dress...... Robb

Luckily, masks help we find while wearing revealing club clothing. In the chophouse lounge/waiting area, there was only one other couple. The bartender was working alone without a server. The manager was working as the host. The open kitchen had the chef with two helpers. All the staff were wearing masks. The dining area looking over the river at the city, had two waiters and two water/bus people. The entire dining room had two couples eating, we made three.... The only one who even seemed to notice Julie's dress was the manager who seated us and then it was because Julie unfolded a black dinner napkin and put it on the chair seat before sitting, he winked at her/us. We each ordered martinis. When we ordered dinner, we split a large filet and a wedge salad. Desert later was another martini. The 20th floor view of the city across the river at night was wonderful. We finished dinner, and rode the elevator back to the lobby level. Julie in her heels, short dress and mask walked ahead of me to the casino entrance. She was definitely over/under dressed and only the entry security man seemed to notice the dress. Once again most everyone in the casino had masks on and the employees definitely did. We walked about and watched and waited, but never did get a seat at a blackjack table. The craps and roulette tables were not open. There simply were no other couples. After sitting at a slot machine for over 1/2 hour, a blackjack table never opened, we don't play slots, etc. so we decided to leave, head to our room and call it a night. We are a really good party of two anyway. After all the dieting, working out, power sunning, etc. this summer, our casino trip was a let down. It definitely was not worth the time, money and effort. We probably will not be back to a casino until things are back to normal somewhat... We don't know how the restaurant and casino can stay open.

We moved into our 12th floor room, and by 3:30 PM were back to the casino, shorts and tees, sandals and masks. At least every other machine was out of service, gone or covered. Black jack tables were allowing only 3 players. Craps tables were closed. We walked around, waited and waited and finally gave up getting a seat to a black jack table. We headed back to our room... In the room, we got comfortably naked, fooled around in the Jacuzzi tube, took turns shaving each other everywhere!!!!! Worked up we had a great lovemaking session and promptly went to sleep. About 7ish we, were up, showered up again and got dressed for our 8:30 PM dinner reservations at the 20th floor Market Chophouse. Julie had brought a couple of dresses. I recommended the very short dress/top she wears with tights and layers, etc. only without tights, panties, etc. She tried it on and was extremely worried it was too short. We had seen no families or kids in the lobby, casino and public areas and were "just" going to the Chophouse. I convinced Julie the short dress and heels were fine. As we walked out our room door, Julie said she felt more undressed in the dress than she did nude at clothes optional resorts. You can check the dress photos in the gallery. We walked to the elevator and rode it up to 20 to the Chophouse.... Julie's dress basically was not covering her butt or anything else.

well mmmmm i think u wont be able to convince her as this is very hard issue but the simplest thing is try to spice up your life with her for example watch adult movies together and try to show her films for MFM or FMF or gangbangs and c what is her comment, maybe she would like the idea, and maybe she would like to try. Best Wishes

Ithink to kiss somebody before you go further is a way to explore more of your partner, and you can find out a lot from a kiss. The way he kisses you will be the way he handle you later on. I think all the nerves in your body are connected together, at least mine are. When I get a sensual kiss, signals are sent to my pussy to get her ready

Merry Christmas 🎄 Our advice is keep to the traditional swinging. We went too far off the track with random meetings with men that didn’t understand. I knew better.