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couple that reserves something that they do just between themselves? Not to sound insensitive, but when my vanilla friends visit the red light districts, the no kissing rule is mentioned. They dont know we swing and I have no need or interest in going there. Swinging is about trust, giving, sharing and enjoying. No kissing would make think that the woman would feel pressured and not comfortable in the swing setting.

There are plenty of posts looking for unicorns which hardly ever end with that elusive find. If you are honest with your wants in your search and stay patient you will find the couple that meets your wants. Be prepared to go to the next step after meeting.

Our first experience we chose or contacted someone online hoping they would answer. Online dating never occurred to me when I was single, swiping left or right was something I only read about. Now we were searching for a non traditional date, reading profiles, looking at snapshots that were not always flattering. Having a resume for business I know there are key words and phrases that stand out, we needed a resumé to catch others eyes. Being chosen that first time by online lifestylers gave us confidence that we were acceptable. I don’t know why I had doubts being we have plenty of friends in the vanilla world. The real confidence came with meeting a a LS friend from a vanilla setting.

To the original poster; you should have no issue in your quest. In fact, you will likely be too successful and will find that, especially on AFF, you will be inundated with responses. Take your time and weed out the picture collectors, the flakes, the phonies, etc. Our strong suspicion is that you will be in a position to pick and choose your options. Good luck to you.

Great point GCoC. This will implode quickly if someone (anyone of the four people involved) is not fully cognizant and not "in on the joke".

That's very interesting. I think of kissing as a middle school activity, and anal as high school activity before a girl could get to Planned Parenthood. Separate room (separate time, separate place even) is a great part of the lifestyle fun. May I ask, are those things (kissing, a finger in the bum, separate room) against the rules for girl - girl play?

My wife had a girlfriend years ago that she would secretly fool around with, even though she was dating a guy at the time in her early 20s. She told me she would love to meet another woman or possibly join an all girl orgy. She only got to second base years ago with her secret friend but would love to take it all the way now with another woman, in every way possible. She wants me to watch and not participate until they are finished with everything. She's in her early 50s and is very beautiful, constantly getting looks from men and women everywhere we go. She's not interested in nudist resorts because she doesn't want the men creeping around just for a peek, or think they are going to get anything from her. She's very satisfied with me, loves cock, and wants to explore another woman or a few women at one time. Where or how would be a good way to meet a woman who would get together with her for sex?

Of course we would choose us...we are the best couple that we know! We wish we could find more us's

It might be a good idea to give them a heads up to what you mean so (if they are really interested) they can talk and decide in advance if they are interested. Don't put them in a situation where one may be just going along with the other because they don't want to say something. Always move at the speed of the slowest member...but first make sure that they are moving by their own choice and not being dragged.

I once had a woman riding on top of me at a house party. Her red bra was dangling below her ample heaving breasts. She was still wearing the remnants of her red garter belt. I leaned up to see what was going on behind her. It was a woman getting spit roasted. I immediately blew my load.

Funny to mention it,we just did again yesterday.I started play with the 8'' dildo then I finished it up with my cock went in the sametime and cum deep inside her pussy then continued to fuck her creampie pussy with the dildo until she exhausted while I licked her lips.She was total enjoy it.