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The mind boggles. WTF were these folks even thinking? Being a public figure while enjoying a discrete non-convential erotic life is one thing. Deciding to publish it all over the internet is another thing. My late father-in-law was a university chancellor. I’m highly confident he and his wife never made and/or distributed porn videos. Of course his career in academic administration pre-dated the ability to produce do-it-yourself porn. But even if it hadn’t…🙄 now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to start searching for those videos. 😉

and that is why we blur/crop faces... and don't post videos.

Somehow I don't think this chancellor was trying out for Claude Rains' Invisible Man role. 😆😅

It will be interesting to see how all of this evolves. Apparently five years earlier (pre-pandemic) the chancellor invited Nina Hartley to lecture on campus. Hartley, who described herself as a nurse who happens to be a porn star, is not only among the most prolific stars, but one its best public-facing representatives. The chancellor received some mild rebuke. The more recent series, "Healthy Sexy Cooking" (with porn stars) is easily findable on YouTube, at least in G-rated versions with pointers to paywall-protected (and some free) versions that are presumably more ... adult. The couple made no attempt to conceal their identities. See https://www.pornhub.com/video/search?search=sexyhappycouple if you must...(and yes, we did). The couple has a couple of books easily findable on Amazon with their photo on the jacket. https://www.amazon.com/Monogamy-Benefits-Porn-Enriches-Relationship-ebook/ and others. They really do appear to be a "sexy happy couple". Three months ago, the chancellor announced that he had decided to step down from the role and return to the faculty. (We have been in similar leadership situations in academia, albeit not at the chancellor level, and fully understand the decision to relinquish administrative roles to go back to why one goes into academe in the first place--to teach and to learn (research)). Now, three months later, there is this kerfuffle. The University Board is channeling Claude Rains ( from Casablanca: "I'm shocked, SHOCKED to find gambling going on in this establishment!) while the chancellor is going on about First Amendment rights. This sounds like a win-win: the University Board gets to show that they are "tough on these pornographers!"--the actual quote from the Board being “We are alarmed, and disgusted, by his actions, which were wholly and undeniably inconsistent with his role as chancellor.” Meanwhile, the ex-chancellor and his wife , that sexy happy couple who were never particularly secretive about this side gig, have publicity that they could neither have imagined nor readily paid for. They will have speaking engagements and surely their OnlyFans business will increase as will their book sales. Perhaps there will be additional merch. Stay tuned and pass the popcorn, please.

It doesn't matter if their first amendment rights were infringed. It's likely something they signed away in being hired. As TeamCalgary notes, many academic institutions (and, really, businesses too) have morality clauses. I seriously doubt the University of Wisconsin didn't have him sign something like that. Even if he hadn't, being such a highly visible individual effectively means the same thing. He fucked up, literally and figuratively. It was a seriously stupid move on his part, assuming he wanted to keep the job. My wife and I once played with a couple where the husband was the provost of a major university. I don't know which university it was, though I could have found out if I'd dug deep enough. I respected their privacy. They took significant precautions to maintain their privacy. They played it smart. Even so, it was risky for them. My wife and I are discreet, and will remain so at least until we retire. Both of our jobs could end instantly if our lifestyle choices were common knowledge.

Rohit, if I had a dollar for every time I see a husband on this board asking how to convince his wife into swinging, I'd be able to afford dinner at the nicest restaurant in any major city. "Convincing" doesn't work. All you can do is open doors, discuss it with your wife, be patient, and then maybe some day...some day...she might consider the idea. For my wife, I never dreamed she would ever actually consider swinging. She made that very, very clear when we were dating when I informed her I'd been part of a polyamorous triad. There was no way she was interested in that or would ever be interested in that. Fast forward to six years after we were married... We'd never discussed non-monagamy at all. We'd never discussed swinging. I'd honestly never even thought about her having sex with other men up to that point. Once or twice she mentioned the poly triad I'd been in and how wrong she thought it was. Then one evening, out of the blue, she says "I think it would be nice to have two men massaging me at once" (she loves massage). ~6 months later, she was having sex with another man, her toes curling, delightful sounds emanating from her, and she couldn't get enough. The rest is history. Sometimes it works like that. I'd venture to guess most of the time it DOESN'T work like that. Be thankful you found a woman to marry, someone to hold, to love, to laugh with, to make love with, to spend your life with. You are incredibly, incredibly lucky. Count your blessings.

Rohit — What if your wife *wanted* to fuck other men but you were completely against it … would you want her on this board asking for advice on how to convince you to let her do it anyway? TeamCalgary is right … quit while you’re still ahead!

Sorry friend, but I would suggest that you are barking up the wrong tree. If your wife is not interested, then this will go nowhere. It appears that this is your fantasy, not hers. Let it go.

That's very interesting. I think of kissing as a middle school activity, and anal as high school activity before a girl could get to Planned Parenthood. Separate room (separate time, separate place even) is a great part of the lifestyle fun. May I ask, are those things (kissing, a finger in the bum, separate room) against the rules for girl - girl play?

Cool we will have to try that.

Kim liked doing a reverse cowgirl with one of us in her ass, she would then lay back on the bottom guy, then the top guy would start fucking her pussy. it was a real odd position, butt she enjoyed it.

Participated in my first one a couple weeks ago . Dvp that is . It wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be .a lot Of fun lol.

i love seeing her riding a nice looking cock. Love to eat her pussy and give his shaft and balls a little attention as well.

we tried a new position last night. my husband was on the bottom and sat back in. recliner. i got on top nd he slid his cock in my ass. i spread my legs wide and the guy stood in front and was able to easily penetrate my pussy. my husband couldn’t move much but i loved the pressure in my ass while getting off on the other cock. I also liked being able to see him rather than being on all fours. i liked that when he pulled out i could watch him jerk off and cum on me. Not the same as pulling out and cumming on my back. Afterwards they switched - just make sure the guy in your ass wears a condom and then remove it if he’s going to switch to the front.

I (the male half) did DVP with a previous partner, and a male friend while his wife watched. It took a bit of doing -- awkward positions, weird placement of legs, but we managed it. He said it was pleasurable and came first; it was fantastically arousing for me to feel another hard cock snug within her, sliding against me, and a new, weird, and ultimately orgasm-inducing feeling to feel him swell and cum in her alongside my own cock. I'd never felt that much cum ooze out around my balls (I was underneath), and I couldn't hold back at that point and came, too. She said it was amazing and came a couple of times with the two of us in her. Adding a larger dildo during sex when it was just the two of us became a regular thing, and eventually she took to enjoying an entire hand -- and others -- inside. Sadly, she took ill, and now that I've remarried, we haven't tried that kind of thing since.