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As a resident of Wisconsin, I would like to thank Happy Sexy Couple for the stand they took. Things change when people take risks and stand up for what they feel is important. Vanilla people are now discussing consenting extra marital relations. That is a good thing. It has opened the discussion a bit more, and it is hoped will lead to society being slightly more accepting of different sexual choices. I believe they were planning to do this for a while. He had already resigned his position, will have a very nice State of Wisconsin Pension, and now can continue to speak of how their sexual activities has benefited their marriage. It is a win for them, and a win for society. And it is much more honorable than engaging in gay bashing for profit and then being caught in a three way with husband.

I can't do music and sex at the same time. I guess it's because I was a musician in an earlier life and, combined with my ADHD, I always end up dissecting the music in my head and can't focus on other, more interesting, enjoyable things. When I do think about sexual music, I usually listen to Enigma. Then there is always the standard: "...And five, now this is the most important, Rat. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV." - Mike Damone, Fast Times at Ridgemont High

That is true they are everywhere but you don’t want to be treated like a pussy because you like to see your spouce pleased and not treated like a whore ……finding one that will treat your spouse with respect is the trick

Good evening everyone and happy new year. We have deserted the flake. The gentleman who we connected with mid November has been going great. He is 14 years older than my wife which I beleive is a kink for them both. She is the hot sexy young woman and he is the mature dom male. My wife has been going over weekly during her extended lunch hour ☺️. He had introduced her to anal with baby steps which she is slowly begging to enjoy. She says the sex has been incredibly which is great to hear. After each session, we sit down and talk about the date. She really enjoys his size, passion and endurance. The after sex care has been good, they typically cuddle and then take a shower together, rather then the last male who was wam, ban and out the door lol. This current gentleman and I keep in touch by text daily and go for coffee every so often. Hopefully this keeps going strong. I do find that our relationship has grown stronger and we have sex more often. Regards

Thanks for the post. I used to subscribe, but the NYer is too long a read now. Now it's the NY Times, the WaPo, and The Guardian for me. Here's The Guardian's recent take on the lifestyle: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/01/it-gives-us-control-rise-in-women-exploring-sexual-fantasy-in-midlife

I am the female equivalent of that. Not a humiliation aspect (well, maybe a little) but the idea of my man sexually enjoying another woman and she enjoying him. I wonder, how does she feel different or the same as me, does he feel the same to her as he does to me? I can see an appreciate the way the actual sex acts are different.

The couple has a right to have sex with whomever they want and even make porn. No one is trying to put them in jail for it. Their employer has a right to decide they don't want open pornographers working for them. Free speech means the government does not put you in jail. It does not mean you are free from the consequences of your actions.

The past few months I have been thinking about this. We have been to house parties and other things over the years. At some of these parties the people are playing with multiple partners either in private/public/both. So here is the question. If she had someone cum (bareback) in her earlier in the party and you start playing with her: Do you know if she played earlier? Would you ask her if she went bareback before you do oral? Should she tell you before you go down on her? What if she doesn't tell and you find out? What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her? I am not personally interested in creampies, but this question I thought was interesting.

There are posts here about couples who have a "No Kissing" rule. I've realized that I enjoy seeing kissing, as deep as they want. Any others? Kissing isn't sex, but it makes it more intense and passionate, something I like doing and seeing.

God help us. I'm very concerned that a man who has a healthy sexual relationship with his wife might actually come into contact with students. Morality my ass. How about universities charging $50k per student, saddling students with debt all with the 'hope' of getting a good job. Let's talk about Jim Jordan..... Let's talk about the ass kissing and deal making universities do to gather donor assets and develop massive endowments. Let's talk about women being raped on campus and universities sweeping it under the rug. etc etc. Morality police always come up against reality and problems with WHO'S MORALITY. Leave the dude and his wife alone. Maybe students would see what a healthy sexual relationship can be. Not for everyone, but better than most of what we see in advertisements and on instagram. My two cents..

I knew a guy in college who liked to play John Philip Sousa marching music … he said it helped him keep his rhythm! ;-D

Great observations and points. As with many things, people often react the way that they think their tribe expects them to react. In large part it's what keeps racism alive. I saw a recently divorced woman get crap from her friends for being civil to her ex and his new woman. "Are you going to let her get away with that?!" they said. Jesus himself told the mob to put down their stones.

I hope not! If so, he’s in way deeper shit than if it was someone unaffiliated with his university.

I believe that I saw one of their videos on Pornhub yesterday and all I could think about was how good the camera work was. I was wondering if a student was behind the camera!

Well said NWAtlSwing!

We didn't wear wedding rings until Daniela started dating and screwing other men while I stayed at home (which I learn later was hotwifing), then we did just to make the situation clear to all involved. We also met the guy in a vanilla setting first as well.

A woman wearing her wedding ring while playing with someone other than her husband 🥵

If you are comfortable with the guy, and have your hard limits established, then let things develop as they will. Do not over choreograph it. This is a dance which varies with the people.