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Over the last three years, we bought a house in Florida and we took a break from swinging. Very recently, we decided to resume swinging. We went on SLS and SDC. We cannot keep up with the inquiries and we have met some wonderful people. It’s fun to be the new kids on the block!

I knew a guy in college who liked to play John Philip Sousa marching music … he said it helped him keep his rhythm! ;-D

Is that the rhythm method? Once a priest recommended the rhythm method to an overly fertile couple. The husband said “Where are we going to find a band at 2 in the morning?”

Congrats and welcome to the club (membership cards will come in the mail). Also, thanks for reporting back (so many don't so we never know if anything happened and if it was a good or a bad experience). Didn't realize that you were so close, either (Sacramento foothills here). Glad that the board could be of some help. If there is anything else you need, the board is here for you both.

A quick recap We had a great time with great people. Too many people for the size of the home. Sex with a younger man doesn’t always equal wow sex. I told my friend who knew one of the younger men that it was interesting to screw the one guy she knew so she grabbed him and told him I wanted to fuck then grabbed both of us into a bedroom. Let’s say 20 minutes later we were all back to the party. Rocky had fun with women we knew. I asked him why he didn’t approach others. He just wasn’t interested “Snooki”. I thought she was pretty

😂😂😂 I wonder what his dates thought when he put on Souza?

I personally like no music so that I can focus, concentrate and react to what is pleasing my partner. But a recent play partner indicated she would like music. So in our upcoming session, guest’s choice, we’ll play music. Note that Sonos makes a small, portable speaker called Roam. It can play Sonos’ proprietary stations or XM/Sirius Radio and probably other sources. We can put it in our bedroom or near our brand new hot tub. Roll over, Hugh Hefner!

Great observations and points. As with many things, people often react the way that they think their tribe expects them to react. In large part it's what keeps racism alive. I saw a recently divorced woman get crap from her friends for being civil to her ex and his new woman. "Are you going to let her get away with that?!" they said. Jesus himself told the mob to put down their stones.

As a resident of Wisconsin, I would like to thank Happy Sexy Couple for the stand they took. Things change when people take risks and stand up for what they feel is important. Vanilla people are now discussing consenting extra marital relations. That is a good thing. It has opened the discussion a bit more, and it is hoped will lead to society being slightly more accepting of different sexual choices. I believe they were planning to do this for a while. He had already resigned his position, will have a very nice State of Wisconsin Pension, and now can continue to speak of how their sexual activities has benefited their marriage. It is a win for them, and a win for society. And it is much more honorable than engaging in gay bashing for profit and then being caught in a three way with husband.

Good evening everyone and happy new year. We have deserted the flake. The gentleman who we connected with mid November has been going great. He is 14 years older than my wife which I beleive is a kink for them both. She is the hot sexy young woman and he is the mature dom male. My wife has been going over weekly during her extended lunch hour ☺️. He had introduced her to anal with baby steps which she is slowly begging to enjoy. She says the sex has been incredibly which is great to hear. After each session, we sit down and talk about the date. She really enjoys his size, passion and endurance. The after sex care has been good, they typically cuddle and then take a shower together, rather then the last male who was wam, ban and out the door lol. This current gentleman and I keep in touch by text daily and go for coffee every so often. Hopefully this keeps going strong. I do find that our relationship has grown stronger and we have sex more often. Regards

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I asked for your criteria, not an invitation for a viewing. I will share are my standards. For a woman, who have by far the prettier behinds (not just asses): round, not much wider than the hip bones, muscular with a little padding not droopy, dimples up top, a bum hole that is either totally uncolored or very high contrast dark, pussy lips visible through a thigh gap... For a man: a muscular ass, not too hairy, testicles and penis visible between parted legs.

Our party play is limited to a small group until now. We are invited to a party tonight with I believe will be “ multi-generational” 20s to 60s. Rocky and I are closer to the older so are nervously interested in how we will fit in with with a younger crowd. We know the ones closer to our age and will find our comfort spot if we have to. Because of anxiety Rocky just took a generic Cialis hoping to go more than 2or 3 times, I told him to stay away from the bourbon. I am less anxious, more hopeful that a younger gentleman finds interest in me even if that sounds creepy. Knowing some of the other women I don’t know how lucky I will be. Wish me luck. Happy New Year everyone and be safe.

Hello and Happy New Year! I have an update: Right before the holidays, my wife (Suzy) and I got the nerve and decided to go to Twist, our (somewhat) local sex club. We're both still buzzing from it, although I still can't believe we got the nerve to do it. Because it feels like such an accomplishment that I can't tell my friends about, I kinda feel like writing about it. For those who don't care to read the details, skip to the end for a heartfelt thank you for your support and suggestions. So...the night started with dinner in San Francisco at Bar Crenn. Very much of a splurge, but HIGHLY recommended if you're a foodie and come visit SF. We both dressed to the nines, Suzy in a tight red dress, stockings and heels. Nothing too revealing except for a stylish cut that exposed her midriff. She has a well proportioned body and was getting plenty of head turns, which was a great start to the night! After dinner we still had time before things got rolling, but anticipation got the best of us, and we showed up to Twist a little after 10:30. Barely anyone there, but we kept busy by dancing- with ourselves and with the few couples that were sprinkled about. Within an hour or so the place was filling up and we had a great time sexy dancing for a bit longer until we worked up the nerve to enter the play area. Even though we were early, we didn't get much of a tour or have the rules explained to us, but we figured out to get a locker and get undressed. I wore a towel, and Suzy stayed in the lingerie she had under her dress - black panties/stockings and garter and a sexy matching bra. Within minutes of walking out, we were propositioned by a nice couple. We were still very nervous and we politely declined, explaining we were still getting our footing. Soon after another proposition, but we still weren't ready. The club was pretty full at this point, and the crowd was truly a mix of all types of people. We're in our mid 50s, but we try to stay in shape and tbh we could probably pass for 40s, Suzy even younger. I'd have to say that my one knock on the evening was that while we eventually found people we were attracted to, it was difficult at first to see the forest through the trees. Alot of people who either did not take care of their bodies, or grooming was not high on their list. This is not a judgement against anyone or any body type, it's simply that we did not find people that were attractive to us at first. So we began to feel a bit overwhelmed (we had also microdosed mushrooms earlier in the night) We wondered around watching a few couples, but things were not going the way we imagined. We took a seat on an oversized couch - me first, and Suzy sitting in front of me, somewhat in my lap so that I could rub her shoulders, which I did for a good ten minutes or so. I swear I was seconds away from saying "Let's go home" when a couple walked by and stopped in front of us. For reasons we both can't explain, right at that moment Suzy smiled and spread her legs, reaching down to slide her panties to the side. The man glanced at his wife, and before I knew it he was on his knees, peeling off Suzy's panties and going down on her, while she cuddled up on the. couch, caressing Suzy's breasts and whispering some hot sexy talk. And then she looked at me and asked "Can my husband fuck your wife?" Holy SH** was that amazing! He fucked her while she was still on the couch, me behind. Every thrust sandwiching Suzy and pushing her back onto me. I can't even describe the joy I felt at that moment. The freedom. What a rush. We spent some time with that couple, exploring different combinations, and moved on to a few more. The sensual look in Suzy's eyes, the passion. I could see her self confidence growing with every touch and every orgasm. I have to say that for a 55yo guy, I did pretty well. We played for a solid couple hours and I stayed in the game the entire time - including 3 big orgasms and 1 teeny-tiny one letting me know the night was winding down for me. We went back home in the wee hours, the short drive feeling like it took hours because we were so anxious to get into bed and fuck our brains out. Which we did until it was light out, slept half the day and then fucked again (which is a whole other story!) Since that night there has been a bounce in our relationship. A buzz. A smile. We are having so much fun and I love just being able to look at her and smile wickedly. and have her do the same. Like a secret between us that no one knows, and gives us a thrill to just think about. Our sex life is off the hook. Practically every night. That being said, and even though she went out and bought a cute pineapple dress and ordered an anklet from Etsy (are those really a thing? Or is that urban legend) swinging is not something we are going to do on a regular basis. It was an amazing experience and no regrets whatsoever. I think what is more our speed is to meet a nice couple or two who are in the lifestyle, get to know them and become friends, and trust them enough to share our bedroom from time to time. We're also interested in "going bareback" so picking up random strangers is not practical. We still have some questions about clubs and the lifestyle, but perhaps for another post. Anyway, we both would like to thank all of you who have offered support and advice. You absolutely changed our lives. If you are in San Francisco (actually we live in Oakland), or near the NJ shore, please drop us a line and say hi. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

I kinda hate to admit it, but the yacht rock our old swing club always piped through the speakers always worked well.

That's awesome! We have always found fun, naughty adventures in our Florida travels. Enjoy being the new kids on the block!

Have you moved to FL full-time? Just curious.

Glad you’re having a positive reentry!

God help us. I'm very concerned that a man who has a healthy sexual relationship with his wife might actually come into contact with students. Morality my ass. How about universities charging $50k per student, saddling students with debt all with the 'hope' of getting a good job. Let's talk about Jim Jordan..... Let's talk about the ass kissing and deal making universities do to gather donor assets and develop massive endowments. Let's talk about women being raped on campus and universities sweeping it under the rug. etc etc. Morality police always come up against reality and problems with WHO'S MORALITY. Leave the dude and his wife alone. Maybe students would see what a healthy sexual relationship can be. Not for everyone, but better than most of what we see in advertisements and on instagram. My two cents..

The back-and-forth between the deposed chancellor and the board continues. From a Milwaukee newspaper, UW President Jay Rothman then messaged (Joe Gow) Wednesday night saying he was out as chancellor. Part of the message reads, "The board's basis for termination includes but is not limited to your failure to obtain consent before engaging in any other occupation." Per Gow's contract, "The chancellor shall not engage in any other occupation which requires his personal attention without prior consent of the university." Gow responded...but...it wasn't an occupation... "From the questions I was asked, I think they were under the impression that my wife and I were paid to be in the videos. If that were the case, then we would've had to report that with my outside activities reporting that I do every year. But that was not the case. We paid the studio," Gow told News 8 Now over the phone. Gow said he's paid about $80,000 over the last decade to have the videos made, calling it not a job but an expensive "hobby." The board then goes back to the "role model" defense: Rothman said, "Good judgment requires that there are and must be limits on what is said or done by the individuals entrusted to lead our universities. We expect our chancellors, as the leaders of these great institutions, to be role models for our students, staff, and faculty as well for the communities we are privileged to serve." The Board is certainly entitled to choose leaders based on personality traits and actions that best represent their institution, and one can well appreciate that "adult film star and porn advocate" is not the image they had in mind. What's interesting, though, is that all of this is coming to light long after the Chancellor announced his plan to to step down from that role and return to the faculty, capping a 23 year career as an apparently successful administrator at three institutions of higher learning. No one seems to be challenging his service and his record of achievements. The Board is not going to be successful on the technicality of outside employment because his work was voluntary, and getting into what is and is not acceptable voluntary work (provided it does not involve the University) will disadvantage the University in a first amendment lawsuit. What will be interesting to see is whether further attempts will be made to remove Mr. Gow from the faculty. His university is a public university, accountable to the taxpayers in that state. That said, he is also a tenured professor, and firing a tenured professor is something that is not undertaken lightly. The American Association of University Professors 1940 statement https://www.aaup.org/report/1940-statement-principles-academic-freedom-and-tenure is worth a read. If the University seeks to fire Gow, it will almost certainly have to establish moral turpitude. In 2023, making sex tapes with one's spouse is hardly unusual, although having three-ways with (other) porn stars is a stretch, as is posting to PornHub. Still, if it didn't involve the university and its students or staff or facilities, and all of the activity was among consenting adults, it will be a stretch to make the moral turpitude charge stick.

I can't do music and sex at the same time. I guess it's because I was a musician in an earlier life and, combined with my ADHD, I always end up dissecting the music in my head and can't focus on other, more interesting, enjoyable things. When I do think about sexual music, I usually listen to Enigma. Then there is always the standard: "...And five, now this is the most important, Rat. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV." - Mike Damone, Fast Times at Ridgemont High

These were people engaging in legal, normal, consensual activities. I hope that the day comes when everyone says either "So what," or "Let me see."

David and I were invited to a party that turned out to be a swimsuit optional swim party. After a while we did strip. After swimming we all went inside, the host asked us if we had ever been to a swing party. We told her no she then dared me to suck David's cock in front of the 9 other coupes.after some egging on I startedcsucking him. As I was one of the guys came up behind me and kissed my pussy..then he guided his cock in me. I was suprised but it felt so good I did not resist

Well my true first MFM was in college. Drunk and at a party with a guy I was kind of dating and his best friend. Drunk as well the three of us ended back at my apartment and in my room enjoying ourselves. Fast forward to after being married and being open to swinging and it happened with one of my coworkers at the time. I was working at a store as loss prevention and we hired a new guy that I was to be training. Basically our job was to watch people shopping on security cameras or go out and walk around the store as shoppers and see if we saw anything. This meant a lot of time together and talking so him and I got close and he began referring to me as his best friend quite frequently with some flirting as well. Not to hide anything from my husband I did introduce the two of them and they got along well so it was not uncommon for the three of us to hangout or spend time together. My husband would often say that he felt my coworker had a crush on me and wanted to be more than best friends. The three of us ended up going on vacation together and one night while on vacation we were enjoying a hot tub and a fair amount of drinks. Apparently my coworker was being quite flirty but I had not really noticed but it caught my husband's attention. At one point my coworker went to get a few more drinks and my husband and I had a quick conversation about this and should we see what would happen if we played into it. My coworker returned and we enjoyed our drinks and I was a bit more flirty myself before my husband decided to be the bold one and suggest we go up to our room and see what happens. I do not think either man even hesitated and soon we were back at the room enjoying ourselves.

Agreed. But anal sloppy seconds are nice. Tight and slippery at the same time.

I have eaten my own, and wife loves it. Not sure if I would eat someones elses though.

I love my own, but would not eat another gent's load.

When my husband was in the navy we had some leave and went to visit family. For some reason no one had room for us, other than his grandparents. We said our goodnights and went to bed. Grandpa must have been hearing that we were not "sleeping" when he went went to bed for he hollered out "goodnight" and my instinct was to respond with a good night and I extricated my husband's cock out of my mouth so loud it popped (similar to that noise you make when you pop your finger out of your cheek)...said goodnight and after a few giggles we continued our devouring of each other. Needless to say, we weren't invited to stay there again either!