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Finally, Clair has taken a picture of my cunt (I use scientific terms here), one that captures its essence and that I like. If anyone is still interested, I'll consider posting.

Posting pictures of cocks and “cunts” are strange. Posting a picture of yourself or you and a partner is sexier. I return to this post because we met the people we were with in the original post. Lin elbowed me saying that’s him, Mr Gorgeous Cock. Lin was blushing. I pushed her to talk to him as we were all clothed and conversation would be easy. Lin reintroduced herself luckily he remembered her. I made a strange comment that Lin thought he had a gorgeous cock making him uncomfortable. I laughed and assured him I am straight and that he impressed Lin to the point that she mentioned it that night we met. Now I was uncomfortable.

I love cum and hair pulling; I love to feel cum being pumped into me and on me. I also love feeling cum dry on my nipples. Also; it really turns me on when a man holds my head by my hair as I have him in my mouth, feeling the grip slowly tighten as he approaches orgasm. I also have a thing for silk and satin, the touch is so sensuous and erotic.

Bareback swinging or hookups are probably my biggest fetish, along with women being a bit of a size queen. I often return to this forum to share a link of the polls here on bareback sex.

This is why the board’s Gallery section exists, Petra. After quite a few years of having read your descriptions of your genitalia of course I’d like to see a photograph of it, particularly one that you find pleasing. 😊

My ex wife called me cauliflower, not enough stalk to hold up the head !

Hello and Happy New Year! I have an update: Right before the holidays, my wife (Suzy) and I got the nerve and decided to go to Twist, our (somewhat) local sex club. We're both still buzzing from it, although I still can't believe we got the nerve to do it. Because it feels like such an accomplishment that I can't tell my friends about, I kinda feel like writing about it. For those who don't care to read the details, skip to the end for a heartfelt thank you for your support and suggestions. So...the night started with dinner in San Francisco at Bar Crenn. Very much of a splurge, but HIGHLY recommended if you're a foodie and come visit SF. We both dressed to the nines, Suzy in a tight red dress, stockings and heels. Nothing too revealing except for a stylish cut that exposed her midriff. She has a well proportioned body and was getting plenty of head turns, which was a great start to the night! After dinner we still had time before things got rolling, but anticipation got the best of us, and we showed up to Twist a little after 10:30. Barely anyone there, but we kept busy by dancing- with ourselves and with the few couples that were sprinkled about. Within an hour or so the place was filling up and we had a great time sexy dancing for a bit longer until we worked up the nerve to enter the play area. Even though we were early, we didn't get much of a tour or have the rules explained to us, but we figured out to get a locker and get undressed. I wore a towel, and Suzy stayed in the lingerie she had under her dress - black panties/stockings and garter and a sexy matching bra. Within minutes of walking out, we were propositioned by a nice couple. We were still very nervous and we politely declined, explaining we were still getting our footing. Soon after another proposition, but we still weren't ready. The club was pretty full at this point, and the crowd was truly a mix of all types of people. We're in our mid 50s, but we try to stay in shape and tbh we could probably pass for 40s, Suzy even younger. I'd have to say that my one knock on the evening was that while we eventually found people we were attracted to, it was difficult at first to see the forest through the trees. Alot of people who either did not take care of their bodies, or grooming was not high on their list. This is not a judgement against anyone or any body type, it's simply that we did not find people that were attractive to us at first. So we began to feel a bit overwhelmed (we had also microdosed mushrooms earlier in the night) We wondered around watching a few couples, but things were not going the way we imagined. We took a seat on an oversized couch - me first, and Suzy sitting in front of me, somewhat in my lap so that I could rub her shoulders, which I did for a good ten minutes or so. I swear I was seconds away from saying "Let's go home" when a couple walked by and stopped in front of us. For reasons we both can't explain, right at that moment Suzy smiled and spread her legs, reaching down to slide her panties to the side. The man glanced at his wife, and before I knew it he was on his knees, peeling off Suzy's panties and going down on her, while she cuddled up on the. couch, caressing Suzy's breasts and whispering some hot sexy talk. And then she looked at me and asked "Can my husband fuck your wife?" Holy SH** was that amazing! He fucked her while she was still on the couch, me behind. Every thrust sandwiching Suzy and pushing her back onto me. I can't even describe the joy I felt at that moment. The freedom. What a rush. We spent some time with that couple, exploring different combinations, and moved on to a few more. The sensual look in Suzy's eyes, the passion. I could see her self confidence growing with every touch and every orgasm. I have to say that for a 55yo guy, I did pretty well. We played for a solid couple hours and I stayed in the game the entire time - including 3 big orgasms and 1 teeny-tiny one letting me know the night was winding down for me. We went back home in the wee hours, the short drive feeling like it took hours because we were so anxious to get into bed and fuck our brains out. Which we did until it was light out, slept half the day and then fucked again (which is a whole other story!) Since that night there has been a bounce in our relationship. A buzz. A smile. We are having so much fun and I love just being able to look at her and smile wickedly. and have her do the same. Like a secret between us that no one knows, and gives us a thrill to just think about. Our sex life is off the hook. Practically every night. That being said, and even though she went out and bought a cute pineapple dress and ordered an anklet from Etsy (are those really a thing? Or is that urban legend) swinging is not something we are going to do on a regular basis. It was an amazing experience and no regrets whatsoever. I think what is more our speed is to meet a nice couple or two who are in the lifestyle, get to know them and become friends, and trust them enough to share our bedroom from time to time. We're also interested in "going bareback" so picking up random strangers is not practical. We still have some questions about clubs and the lifestyle, but perhaps for another post. Anyway, we both would like to thank all of you who have offered support and advice. You absolutely changed our lives. If you are in San Francisco (actually we live in Oakland), or near the NJ shore, please drop us a line and say hi. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

Hello everyone. A brief holiday update. We all had a wonderful time with family and friends between Christmas Eve and New Years Day. Nothing of note regarding the lifestyle other than our poly family, with one tangential exception…. We received a Christmas gift from Joe and Shannon, an over-the-top, expensive, totally unexpected gift. They bought for us a hot tub, a premium one that we were considering but hadn’t decided whether to spend the money. When visiting us, the brochure and quote for installation was laying out in our house and Shan had apparently taken a picture of the paperwork. They sent us a Christmas card by Express Mail telling us what they had done and told us to call the local rep about the installation; he had already been paid. They said that meeting us had upended their lives so totally – their love had increased and the sex between them was of another world - that they felt that they had to do something. In short, they had planned a winter vacation, but it never happened because of the time they spent with us. They decided to spend the money on us instead. We were all astounded. I called her more than half thinking that it was all a joke, but she insisted it was real. For a moment I felt a little bit like a prostitute, but Shannon immediately made three things clear: that we were to never, ever buy them anything, period; that there was to be no feeling on our part of any future expectation of getting together for sex; there was to be no future expectation that we would invite them to use the tub. She said that what we had given them had changed their marriage completely. Instead of feeling like a prostitute, it made me think of how both of them were more into Red and David fucking the bejeebers out of Shannon than they were exploiting Clair, Lora, or me. And what they did do with us women was loving and giving. I mean, it was I who had initially gone after Joe, then Shannon to satisfy my own sexual desires. Joe told me that he never desired a woman so much as he craved Lora and me, but in a way that made him want his wife even more. Shannon said that the five of us are always there in their bedroom whenever they are having sex – the talk, the fantasies. Anyway, we are looking forward to our next encounter, their planned, but as yet unscheduled, visit to our area before the end of January.

The couple has a right to have sex with whomever they want and even make porn. No one is trying to put them in jail for it. Their employer has a right to decide they don't want open pornographers working for them. Free speech means the government does not put you in jail. It does not mean you are free from the consequences of your actions.

I have been fortunate enough to see my GF strip several times at strip clubs (not professionally). She went on some amateur nights for fun. At the right clubs you can go any time you want and management will let you go on stage, walk around the place, give private dances, etc. The really nice high-end places do not let you do this because it takes away from the professional dancers trying to earn money. But at some of your smaller local places they are completely fine with it especially during the week on slower nights. If you have a wife or GF into the hotwifing scene then this is the easiest way to land a bunch of dick at once. There have been tons of wild experiences we've had at strip clubs.

and that is why we blur/crop faces... and don't post videos.

The mind boggles. WTF were these folks even thinking? Being a public figure while enjoying a discrete non-convential erotic life is one thing. Deciding to publish it all over the internet is another thing. My late father-in-law was a university chancellor. I’m highly confident he and his wife never made and/or distributed porn videos. Of course his career in academic administration pre-dated the ability to produce do-it-yourself porn. But even if it hadn’t…🙄 now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to start searching for those videos. 😉

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and wishes of only great experiences for all who visit here!

Best wishes to old and new friends. We are grateful to those we met and those we only know by posts. We look forward to a peaceful year.

For those who celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ tomorrow, we send our best wishes that your holiday be joyous. For all of the rest of mankind, let our Christian friends’ faith in the birth of their Prince of Peace help us reflect on their ideals, and on our own. Gospel of St. Luke. KJV Chapter 2 1 And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be taxed. 2 (And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.) 3 And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city. 4 And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:) 5 To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child. 6 And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. 7 And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn. 8 And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. 9 And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid. 10 And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. 11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.

Oh you must be the husband of the woman who just posted she wants her husband sodomized by the same black guy. It’s a shame nobody wants us purple guys.

Like every else, it varies from person to person. (I've had a number of discussions with other women on the topic.) And appearance is highly correlated with functionality/pleasure for a woman - length; thickness; as someone mentioned, head; straightness. Attractiveness changes too on anticipated activity: oral, vaginal, anal. A woman isn't just going to just look at it. Are we talking flaccid or erect? If we're starting with an oral warm-up, I love taking the whole thing flaccid in my mouth.

It actually can be very interesting on how different men's cocks and balls can be from man to man. Differences in shape, size, appearance, curve when they all serve the same purposes. So I can understand when she said a man had a gorgeous cock. He might just have one that aesthetically pleasing to her and maybe what an ideal cock appearance would be.

Funny wrinkled tennis ball, I have to chuckle. Reminds me of Shwetty Balls. This discussion about a gorgeous penis is something I only thought to myself and never openly mentioned. There is one man we play with who I secretly think his penis is perfect in look and length, easy to go full deep on it, he also keeps his balls clean shaven. I have been told I have a pretty looking pussy by a woman which meant a lot to me. Think men only care that it’s a pussy that is clean and not smelly and don’t comment on attractiveness.

That is what swinging should be, talking after is very much part of the fun Kissing is situational for us. Some men think they should kiss if they are having sex, for me if I am meeting a man for sex I don’t need to be kissed. If we will have a relationship I want to know your name, if it’s a one time thing I don’t care who you are. I have said before that size is more visual, less sexual. Seeing a bigger one is exciting, perfectly shaped I can also understand the gorgeous remark. Proportionate head to shaft to balls. Clean looking. PJ I’m sure you have a preference on what a pussy should look like, it has nothing to do with the person. Some people are just better looking overall.

whew! I almost came into my pants just reading your description.

We have tried both and we go for the M F M, the reason being that two can go into one a lot more times “and a lot more fun” than one into two, I get off on seeing the wife enjoying herself with another guy and then joining in for silky seconds, "or thirds"! If the wife was Bi then it would be good to have a F M F but she is not Bi, so the one F M F we did try naturally I wanted to spend more of my time with the other woman after all I am human, my wife was OK seeing me with the other woman but for the three of us the sex did not come close to the sex with a M F M threesome.