Leaderboard

See the book review in the NY Times https://www.nytimes.com/2024/01/13/books/molly-roden-winter-more-book-open-marriage.html?unlocked_article_code=1.NU0.xNVH.KdCMWiKarPkH&smid=url-share

Your posts are appreciated in making me feel that I'm in good company. Growing up, my older sister made me feel abnormal, but since, my sex partners believe my genitals are extraordinary. When someone goes down on me, unlike other girls, there's no problem finding my clit. And they love the fact that it is a barometer of how good a job they're doing by its obvious firmness and subtle increasing size. Are your wives bi? The women I've been with appreciate my cunt more than the men. They're the ones who "love rubbing our "things" together until we both cum."

I don't like licking up my own cum. This has everything to do with the fact i just orgasmed so my libido is no longer on full blast. But if another guy cums on my wife's tits before I cum, I am either: Climbing on and sliding around on those slippery tits while i fuck her Licking it up

The confusion/conflation problem always exists when there are experts and non-experts in discussions of just about any topic, LS or professional or otherwise. Mrs. FL and I routinely run into the problem when we are having discussions with friends in our areas of medical expertise. We are happy when the conversation is "more right than wrong". Our conversational approach here is to point out that monogamy is fairly clearly understood as exclusivity; non-monogamy is therefore non-exclusive. There are lots of different forms of non-exclusive. Non-exclusive might mean "monogamish" to one couple, regular swing as couples to another, dating in an open marriage to another, polycule to another, and so on. Those distinctions become important mostly when a monogamous couple entertains the idea of (ethical) non-monogamy--what does the non-exclusive menu of options include, and what does each mean for the couple's relationship?

Thank you, I will. I'm never certain what people here will find insightful or entertaining, although sometimes my posts are neither but therapeutic for me. People who are aware of our family arrangement have complimented us on how well our grand plan is working out. We have to correct them that it all came together from the chaos of our romantic and sexual lives. It has been since the children that we've put in the real work. We have on occasion had sex outside our family. Joe and Shannon are our first couple and the first experience where we've all played. It's been wonderful fun.

I hope you continue sharing. It’s nice to see functioning poly relationships, especially when they’re secure enough to add in swinging spice.

OH GOD YES!. I'm breathless at just the thought of it.

So great to hear your experience with this. My wife has a similar situation, with a very large clit, and even though we are "exhibitionists light," she is very self conscious about it- she buys custom swimsuits with extra lining, and had a lot of problems growing up. The partners she had before marriage all treated it like an abnormality. She said guys just want to stroke it like a penis.

This is why the board’s Gallery section exists, Petra. After quite a few years of having read your descriptions of your genitalia of course I’d like to see a photograph of it, particularly one that you find pleasing. 😊

We both enjoy it quite a lot… 🔥

No, not gonna happen with me.

Not that open minded or liberal.