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We tend to meet up for drinks, small snack/meal and then go to a hotel. Like many couples, we only have a certain amount of time to devote to meeting others, playing so by the time we meet up we expect to play that evening. I know many couples that will "date" (for lack of a better term) a few times before playing. That would be great except with our schedules we can arrange a day or two a quarter at most so when we get that day, we want to play. So we do a lot of front-end chatting before we meet so the first meet isn't like a blind date. By the time we meet up, the ice has melted.

I have seen the winter warning

We intended to go in the hot tub first, but it was raining. I bought a lifestyle deck of cards for ice breaking, but one of the cards suggested a spit roast. Not a recommendation for newbies.

Same. I found the cream to be rather unpleasant on the balls so I use a razor. It took some trial and error to figure out which cream worked best and for what amount of time to leave it on before I fried my skin. My SO also shaves everything.

My saving grace was my boobs. Not huge, but big enough to let people know I'm for real

When I was in grad school I had a girlfriend who sometimes in the morning liked for me to ejaculate on her boobs and massage it in before she left for class. To this day I wonder if anyone sitting near her in the classroom could smell the semen on her chest.

I had a longterm FWB who offered to let me nurse from her during a period when she was lactating, something she was doing with her baby’s father. She lived a several-hour drive away and at the time and I calculated the cost/benefit ratio to be insufficient. As life turned out another opportunity never presented itself. I now regret not taking her up on her offer.

What we in our family have done, both us women and the men, is steal a little breast milk from lactating new moms. So sweet!

I consider myself very, very fortunate that I've gotten to experience watching my wife with two men. Absolutely thrilling!

This is pretty much the reason why we got into this lifestyle (although I can't say we're fully in it yet :) We often dirty talked about him licking cum off of me, or out of me, and he did it a few times, but as has been noted - when it's just his own, he loses the appetite very quickly. Our first experience with another couple, the other man came on my chest, and my husband and I had sex after, with it dripping all over, and when he finally licked it off, well, let's say the two of us were in heaven :) He's also been afraid of the label "bi" which is a shame. He's probably the opposite of the stereotype, so he has nothing to worry about. My feeling is whatever makes you feel good is fine with me.

Suzy here (first time! Just catching up with my husband has been saying about me!) Yes, when I was younger I felt it was not normal, and have spent most of my life trying to hide it or cover it up some way. I'm not a big woman - 5'4, 130lbs currently, so my clit is not proportional to everything else I have going on. Things got bad when the wrong boy in high school, and then another one in college talked about it to his friends. Word got around and I was called all sorts of names in high school, and the rumor in college was that I was trans (It was the 80s, a much less enlightened time) At first I thought it was extremely ironic that I have an exhibitionist streak, but years of therapy was able to figure that out - my psyche making up for perceived inadequacies by performing and arousing anonymous people, but from a safe enough distance that they don't notice my inadequacies. I can't say whether it's more or less sensitive than anyone else's, but when I orgasm, it's definitely from clitoral stimulation. Penetration is more for the feel and moment. I never had a bi side until our first encounter, which was a completely spontaneous hookup and only a short time ago. Still much more attracted to men, but my experiences have been very pleasurable, to the point where I think about it often. During that same first encounter, I also discovered squirting, and it was completely from clitoral stimulation. What little I've read about squirting is that it comes from stimulating the g-spot, so I'm wondering if you, or the other women on here with larger clits also squirt? Any correlation?

The confusion/conflation problem always exists when there are experts and non-experts in discussions of just about any topic, LS or professional or otherwise. Mrs. FL and I routinely run into the problem when we are having discussions with friends in our areas of medical expertise. We are happy when the conversation is "more right than wrong". Our conversational approach here is to point out that monogamy is fairly clearly understood as exclusivity; non-monogamy is therefore non-exclusive. There are lots of different forms of non-exclusive. Non-exclusive might mean "monogamish" to one couple, regular swing as couples to another, dating in an open marriage to another, polycule to another, and so on. Those distinctions become important mostly when a monogamous couple entertains the idea of (ethical) non-monogamy--what does the non-exclusive menu of options include, and what does each mean for the couple's relationship?

We were dirty talking, and I said it would be hot to have ne and someone suck and then cum on your tits! She then ask would I lick the cum and suck them, I said maybe if I didn’t cum yet. But know I am like I should have said yes babe, I would do anything for you. I think it’s hot!

You are one of the few people here, or I suppose anywhere, that understands my wife's approach to dating mostly married men during her single days when she wasn't looking for marriage but was looking for sex and an interesting relationship. That relationship involved the wife as an unknowing, yet very much involved, party. Daniela met every one of these wives without them knowing that she was like a spirit involved in their marriage. Daniela always strived to understand both of them and make their relationship better, including buying the wife gifts for the husband to give her and explaining to the husband the wife's side. Daniela said that she never broke up a marriage and left nearly all of them much improved, never worse. When we decided with my encouragement that Daniela's nature is being non-monogamous and that she should seek outside partners without me playing, she expected that she would go back to having relationships with married men. I was totally against it unless the wife knew and approved because I didn't fully understand what she was doing. She never did go back to married men with unknowing wives, but our current situation of swinging with married couples actually suits her much better. Daniela loves being part if couple's sex lives and being able to openly discuss the sex play and relationships with both the husband and wife. With Daniela being very bisexual, she can satisfy that part of herself as well without having other separate relationships with lesbians.

The older-age sexless-lives situation is more closely detailed here https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7489086/ and is worth reading by younger and older people on this list. There are clear correlations between sustained sexual activity and mental health. Whether sex is more or less important than Sudoku, Wordle, Connections and the other puzzles, who knows. But like healthy eating, regular exercise, moderation in alcohol, regular sex correlates with well-being in the older population.

We don’t want to play with married “singles,” male or female. if they are willing to lie and sneak around on the person they professed to love, honor, cherish, and not forsake how the F—k can you trust them to keep a condom on and respect your boundaries. we try to weed these guys out. We really only play on Saturday nights, mainly due to our schedule. Most married men have trouble sneaking away on Saturday. Big red flag for us is if they are only available weekday, day time.

We both enjoy it quite a lot… 🔥

I don’t think it’s entirely dissimilar to receiving a blowjob/cunnilingus, and then kissing your partne. Can’t say I’ve ever licked my cum off my gf’s tits, but if was something she wanted, then I’d at least give it a go