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4 pointsMy advice is that if you love your wife then why leave her with unfulfilled needs? Even if you weren't having any problems in the performance regard, she has a desire to explore so not only let her, encourage her. Tell her that it would make you happy to see her happy. Let her choose the partner(s) and the when, where and how. Listen if she wants to talk about it before or afterwards, but don't interrogate her, and never criticize her choices. I sensed early in our marriage that my wife would enjoy the freedom to explore her sexuality. I encouraged her to do so and it strengthened our marriage and she loves me more than ever, and I her.
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1 pointA question for the women: I've always considered myself pretty darn good when it comes to giving a woman oral. I truly enjoy it, and could spend the whole night doing it! I wholly subscribe to the theory that "licking sucks, sucking rocks." And with my wife's newfound proclivity for squirting during oral, I have been patting myself on the back a lot lately My wife likes the way I go about things, but now that we are (slowly) branching out into sex with others, it got to me thinking: What exactly do women like when receiving oral? Does technique matter? Do I need to keep the same rhythm, or mix it up. Fast? slow? Concentrate on the clit, or take in the entire scene? Suzy likes it when my hands roam - caressing her body, tits and nipple play, a little bit on the asshole...and I like the idea of making it an entire body sensation. But I'd love to hear what other women like.
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1 pointNow in our closed group of married bareback couples, no one ever washes up. We all like the mess, the smell, the taste, the feel of sloppy seconds. Our wives in particular, all bi, like to suck a flaccid sloppy dick after it emerges from a vagina having done what it is dicks do in there.
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1 pointThanks for posting this, ROCKlandCpl. Good for Goldberg! Seems a lot of media outlets have all of a sudden discovered polyamory, though the writers/producers don’t seem to differentiate it from other forms of CNM and conflate all forms of the latter term. I’d considered posting the New York magazine (not The New Yorker, which also recently had a long feature on polyamory) that The View panelists were discussing, but after concluding that there’s no serious subject New York magazine can’t trivialize, I decided not to.
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1 pointWe're a bit older than you, similar situation, and very much enjoying the 'hotwife' lifestyle. Swinging doesn't have to be all couples-swap even-steven, it can be more one-sided. What's important is that you're both enjoying it and feeling good about it. She won't do anything without your permission, and what reason would you have to deny her? She won't leave you. She'll love you even more for letting her have it all and not making her choose. And trust me, you'll have a pretty good time along the way too!
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1 pointWe were still new to LS and went to play with a couple (more experienced). We had spent a long time at the bar just watching before walking through the rooms where we were approached by this couple. Anyway we paired off on the same bed. I watched a bit as he entered my wife, before I gave his wife my full attention. I started by kissing, was not aware that some couples don’t kiss. She was ok with that. I am a very oral lover and worked my way down her body, licking her nipples for a while before moving down to her pussy. I found her very wet and she had a very specific scent which I found familiar. Anyway, I continued to lick her to an orgasm and we had sex. Then went back to the bar area and then to our own room. I was still thinking about the sex when it occurred to me that the couple might have had bare sex before hooking up with us. And I am quite sure that the wetness might have been his sperm. I am still not sure what to think about this. It kind of turns me on. At the time I was very turned on my the smell of her. Which brought up a question. What is the etiquette for swingers, especially married swingers. Should you condomize with your wife to be considerate to the next guy who might go down on her? Should the woman I was eating have warned me? What do you think.
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1 pointWe too miss his insights and comments. You never know why you stop seeing posts from certain people, hoping it’s just the world that changes not catastrophic events. RIP.
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1 pointI hadn't heard this. Al and I were not Facebook friends, but did converse via email some over the past decade that I haven't been super active here on The Board. This certainly explains why I've heard nothing back. I'm very saddened by this. Al was a wonderful, insightful, and intelligent man who also had a very high emotional intelligence quotient. the world will miss him.
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We are a senior couple. We have been swinging since the 80s. I think what made it easier for us is that Tits is bi and we started out as threesomes but ended up into full swing. I am 68 and she is 67. We still swing but have slowed down, and I believe it is because of body image perception on Tits part. She is still a beautiful woman and now with DDD tits but she calls them her fat bags. When we were younger she was a lingerie model and stunning beauty. The fact that she loved to fuck and was also bi was always a plus. Needless to say we had a lot of swinging over the years and she had a few players on the side. If you read any of our stories you know what I mean. So a month ago we went to Vegas. She had flashed her tits a few times, but mainly we gambled. We were playing on a Keno machine and met another older couple playing also. I had noticed that every time Tits bent forward they both would turn and look. I mentioned this to Tits. She started to bend down to pick up her purse, or she would put her drink on floor and would bend over to get another drink. They were Harry and Nancy we found out, and they moved to machine right next to ours. Tits started to chat with Nancy and flirt with Harry. After about a half an hour, Nancy leaned over and told Tits that she wished she had big tits like her. Tits told her they are not all fun because they are so heavy. Nancy said I bet, but I would love to feel them. A few minutes later the girls left for ladies room, where Tits told me Nancy fondled and sucked her tits and she did Nancy’s . When they came back we all went to our room and had some drinks. Tits disappeared into our bathroom and came out and said are we all ready? She was she was butt naked (see pic), but remember we are late 60's. We played until 3:00 in the morning. We are meeting them for Thanksgiving at the El Cortez. -
1 pointIt's not a bad idea but it would depend on the time between play. If everyone is busy and you have a chance to "sneak off" to wash it might be ok. But if you would stop the party to go and wash yourself it might imply to your playmates that you consider them to be dirty or you might convey to them that you might be dirty. My wife had an obsessive compulsion to "clean" herself, wipe the cum from her pussy, before having sex again. I convinced her to just relax and let it go. She eventually became comfortable feeling "messy".
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1 pointWe recruit, you know. Once you've tried bi, you'll never go back! Bwaaahhahaaaahhaaahaaa!
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1 pointI've never douched, ever, and have never had one complaint about the way I taste or smell. We were with a couple once and it was clear that the woman had recently douched, and not with vinegar and water, because she tasted like a flower. Not good...not good at all.
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1 pointThe aroma of sex is what we both like . cleaning up sort of takes away the erotic feeling of being with multiple partners. I like the wetness and sloppyness if you can call it that. The drive home is when I get to feel the wetness between the panty liner and my body. My own fetish.
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1 pointDitto. I especially love to kiss my husband with the taste of pussy still on his face. I love the smells and tastes of sex, too. As long as everybody's clean going into it, it's all good.
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1 pointWe've yet to wash during playtime unless something gets messy. We were in a small group setting once and one of the men came over to kiss me and he smelled like pussy and it was a complete turn-on for me. I agree that the smell of sex is part of the total experience. Too many people are too concerned with washing away the natural scents the body emits. If you wash away the pheremones, what's the point? We do wash up after the activity has ceased for the night though.
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1 pointThat is true. Once in a group room, just a few minutes after I had finished fucking my woman, another woman came across the bed and took my cock in her mouth. She obviously did not mind, and it was very erotic.
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1 pointDuring one long play session, probably not, because it's pretty continuous and jumping up to wash frequently kind of breaks things up. It just kind of depends. Since we are a condoms-only couple with others, there's not much to clean up anyway, unless my husband comes inside of me during the play. But if we were in some sort of situation like in a club, going upstairs with a couple, then redressing to go back to the club, we would definitely clean up. We don't really have those opportunities, though (no clubs around here). If we're out for the evening with people, dancing in smoky clubs, maybe getting a little sweaty from all the dancing, and then going to play after that, I like to freshen up at the hotel room before we play. In fact, we don't like to mix dancing at the clubs on the same nights as play, if we can help it. My very first swinging experience ever was as a single woman - I was with a couple. The other woman was such a clean-freak, that she washed herself at least three times during the play session. Being very naive and new, I didn't know what to make of that. When she jumped up to go wash, her husband felt compelled to explain (I got the feeling he often had to explain for her) that she was a clean freak. She spent a great deal of time washing right before the play started, and then kept washing throughout. That was the most extreme I've ever seen, and too much, in my opinion.
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1 pointThinking about it, no. Unless it's really messy for some reason we just continue playing until done, then wash-up. We haven't had any playmates that clean-up between "rounds" either. Probably because part of the whole experience is the smell of sex.
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0 pointsI figure if you have to ask you aren’t doing it right. Every woman will react differently and will respond when you do it the way she likes.
