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Hi. I typed a reply, but it seems to have disappeared. 😂. It was very much a group effort. Not a threesome. We had discussed where we could cum early in the encounter. From start to finish, it was about 30ish minutes. Not super long, but super fun! it was the neighbors wife that gave me a BJ, while my wife and her husband danced and made out. The girls each came twice. Then it was the boys turn. I came in my wife, while the neighbor was giving her husband oral, and she was rubbing my balls. I came in my wife, while the neighbor stroked it out of her husband on my wife’s chest. there are ZERO regrets. We sat and talked and drank for 2 hours afterwards. This morning, my wife and I agreed that it was a lot of fun!!

I eagerly swallow if a guy cums in my mouth, but still much prefer that he cums in my pussy. Two reasons. The feel of his ejaculation adds to my orgasmic pleasure. Second, the knowledge that even after I've totally cleaned up down there, a small living part of him (along with that of another man, sometimes two) is still swimming deep inside me and will be (albeit fruitlessly) for several days, searching for the prize. Except for times when I've been away from home for an extended time, that has continuously been the case, ever since I started having p-in-v sex. Cum to me isn't just a white blob, it is a living collection of a man's half of sex, which I am hosting inside me. I find that thrilling and satisfying.

Thanks for all the feedback… well we made decisions and we will live with them. Went to their house last night. Had a few drinks. Wife was slow dancing with the neighbor. Sat on the couch. Got a very nice blow job. Neighbor did my wife. I did his wife. He came on my wife’s chest and I came in her. neighbor’s wife didn’t want any in her or on her. That’s ok with me! I guess we are in the LS now? 😂

Yeah. Its ok. She has a SUPER strong gag relex. That’s just how some people are. That wasn’t going to break this thing up. It’s been going on 20 years now. I joked about this with her yesterday. She said she promises that I’ll be her first… if not, I really don’t care. For us, this is about an adventure… not a competition.

We did. However when it came time to finish up, they came off.

Congrats and welcome to the lifestyle!

I certainly don't know everything that goes on in our group, but I've never done, had done or see any ass licking. A guy putting a finger in her ass, however, is fairly common.

Me as well. My favorite is an FFM situation where one of us women is in the middle. It's totally different whether I'm in the middle fucking the guy while eating her (extra points if she's sloppy), or I'm lying back being eaten and watching the MF action, but both are physically and psychologically enjoyable in their way. We mostly do FFM where the MF is the doggy position, not missionary with the second woman on top. And rarely with the guy doing both the licking and fucking. Performing oral on a woman for me has the sense of both being generous in providing pleasure to her and controlling her as I bring her to orgasm.

As a bi-woman, I do like to do oral to a girl as much as I like to receive it. Every woman is different; depending on our mood, we may want one thing or a mix of different things. Rather than relying on a particular technique, you should do it passionately and always pay attention to your play partner. Listen to her moans and breathing, and pay attention to the subtle movements she makes; she will guide you in the right direction. Do not be afraid to innovate or improvise at the moment; you will be surprised how many of us like to get our asses eaten, for example.

Interesting about showering together. A morning quickie is a regular thing in our poly family, but regardless of who does what with whom, two of us will shower together to discuss the day's plan. Except the guys, they'll put their dicks in the same woman at the same time, but have never showered together. Lora and I are the only ones who piss on one another. After one of us loses our contrived, BDSM "fight" it's into the shower, the loser goes down on knees or hands and knees to be pissed on. Afterwards we kiss, clean each other up, then make love.

There is some truth to this. It's not all the tongue, although that certainly the majority of it. Using the lips and some suction is part of the game. And speaking of lips, attention to the labia is like oral foreplay.

That was me the first time I attempted oral sex on a woman hiding my nerves with enthusiasm trying to return what she did to me. Lucky for me my first woman was patient and directed me. To answer what do I like is all the things the poster is doing. In the context of swinging I enjoy all the different techniques partners try, no two partners are exactly the same. Vive la difference.

Been with enough women to know there is no best way. If you are with someone enough times you will learn the signs she gives. We both enjoy oral sex to the point that many times we just have oral. 69 we kid is the breakfast of champions a funny saying we heard many times. Her on top a get to explore her pussy going from one spot to another with her shifting to what is working even rubbing her clit on my nose.

Use your ears more than your mouth. Things change even during a session. Hearing , recognizing and responding to the clues is a good thing. I try to start gently and run through my basic menu and go from there.

I figure if you have to ask you aren’t doing it right. Every woman will react differently and will respond when you do it the way she likes.

Posting pictures of cocks and “cunts” are strange. Posting a picture of yourself or you and a partner is sexier. I return to this post because we met the people we were with in the original post. Lin elbowed me saying that’s him, Mr Gorgeous Cock. Lin was blushing. I pushed her to talk to him as we were all clothed and conversation would be easy. Lin reintroduced herself luckily he remembered her. I made a strange comment that Lin thought he had a gorgeous cock making him uncomfortable. I laughed and assured him I am straight and that he impressed Lin to the point that she mentioned it that night we met. Now I was uncomfortable.

I find it interesting that you've never received oral sex from your wife. I have a feeling that might change when you continue down this lifestyle. Just don't get too upset or bitter if another dick makes it into her mouth before yours.