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Yeah. Its ok. She has a SUPER strong gag relex. That’s just how some people are. That wasn’t going to break this thing up. It’s been going on 20 years now. I joked about this with her yesterday. She said she promises that I’ll be her first… if not, I really don’t care. For us, this is about an adventure… not a competition.

I find it interesting that you've never received oral sex from your wife. I have a feeling that might change when you continue down this lifestyle. Just don't get too upset or bitter if another dick makes it into her mouth before yours.

Hindsight is 20/20. But when you're that young and you get cheated on it can be hard for some people to even forgive, especially if you thought you were in love. If it were me, I probably would have tried to turn it into a positive like you suggested. But most are not wired that way.

The most obvious sign of Viagra is the red face and neck. What I've noticed is guys will take a large dose for insurance and their face and neck will turn bright red. Equipment size doesn't change but they'll stay hard throughout rather than fluctuating during the encounter. Sex is the same. Though sone guys tend to last longer when on it. Even after a guy on a pill comes there is a mental fog (refractory period), even if he's still hard. The pills allow some guys to go longer before coming.

I think that's the right attitude to have! You'll both get exposed to new things that can help your own sex life. A gag reflex can be lost or desensitized. My GF definitely still has a gag reflex but significantly less than it used to be. Years of facefucking took care of that. Like most things, experience usually takes care of it.

Petra, agreed, most folks who don’t inhabit the overall alternative sexual not only don’t know the proper terminology, they don’t grasp the differentiations among the many varieties of non-traditional erotic and affiliative/domestic arrangements. I suspect most Americans would struggle with all the terms bundled into the acronym LGBTQ. Even on this board there are more folks than I would expect who don’t appear to grasp the difference between MFM and MMF, or between FMF and FFM. What troubles/annoys me about the periodic spates of articles in the popular press on non-traditional sexual and domestic arrangements is two-fold. First, the writers and editors don’t seem to bother being accurate. Second, they don’t seem to care; they are publishing clickbait that more titillates than informs their readerships. But I also remind myself that iterations of these sort of articles, as flawed and inadequate as they may be, probably in the fullness of time help change societal attitudes. (Most Americans are today cool with gay and Lesbian people; the majority weren’t a half century ago when I was a boy and young man.)

Hi. I typed a reply, but it seems to have disappeared. 😂. It was very much a group effort. Not a threesome. We had discussed where we could cum early in the encounter. From start to finish, it was about 30ish minutes. Not super long, but super fun! it was the neighbors wife that gave me a BJ, while my wife and her husband danced and made out. The girls each came twice. Then it was the boys turn. I came in my wife, while the neighbor was giving her husband oral, and she was rubbing my balls. I came in my wife, while the neighbor stroked it out of her husband on my wife’s chest. there are ZERO regrets. We sat and talked and drank for 2 hours afterwards. This morning, my wife and I agreed that it was a lot of fun!!