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I don't know about the other guys on here, but I never let a women's period stop me from going down on her. I have done this since I was a teenager and still enjoy it. I enjoy finishing up with a red ring around my mouth!

I always enjoyed 'reclaiming' sex. The thoughts that another guy had been there, done that excited me, made me harder. As a result, my wife always enjoyed it a little bit more.

Is the desire to sexually be with a black person racist? It's not racist to prefer that your partners be blond, or have facial hair, or large (or small) breasts, or . . . (fill in your own blank here.) So, if the only reason you want to have inter-racial sex is because you think it might be fun, I don't think that makes you bad - or a racist.

First, congratulations on reaching the point where you are now. If you're like most of the rest of us, it took a lot of reimagining your relationship and understanding where both of you want things to go. I'd be very curious to find out your ages, and how long you've been married. There's a big risk to playing with friends. One, if it doesn't go well, the friendship is likely to suffer or even break horribly. A lot of drama could ensue, and no one wants drama in these situations. Second, you risk having her friend tell others about what happened, and if you want to keep this a secret (most of us prefer that,) you could easily be outed. I'm not saying playing with friends always goes south, but it's risky. Many wives start out thinking they'd be incredibly jealous of their husband's playing with others, then think again. It may happen that when you two get more experience under your belts, the situation won't seem quite so dire. Best of luck!

I hope venting helped you feel better. Sounds like you need to let go of trying to make things happen with your wife’s friend, if you are going to respect your wife’s boundaries. As far as helping your wife work though her jealousy goes, I’d caution you to do that without having an endgame in mind. Otherwise, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Makes the blood flow more to the clitoris. If you give a woman a viagra and 30 minutes later, you go down on her, her clitoris will be engorged with blood, swollen and very purple. Basically viagra works on a women's clitoris same as it does for a man's penis.

I like when a woman will finger my ass while she gives me a blowjob. A woman that is good about hitting the prostrate is a winner!

An update for those who are interested. Joe and Shannon visited this past weekend and got a hotel room near us. They know that we are busy with the kids and house on weekends, so they stayed there. They arrived Friday around noon, got into their room, and let us know that they were there. We sort of rotated over there for our fun. The interesting things for me were primarily psychological: On Friday, Lora and Red, their favorite couple to swap with went over. Red and Lora have really bonded over this. Saturday, was the main event that Joe was particularly looking forward to, David and Red double teaming Shan while Joe watched. I was lucky enough to be the one woman there when that was going on. It certainly wasn't love making, not even really sex, more like performance that both Shan and Joe enjoyed. David explained that Joe like it because it makes him feel as though he got the high performance model in his wife. Shannon just likes getting attention (and dick) from different men, both one at a time and together. From my perspective it was odd watching because I wasn't jealous at all, despite seeing Red, David, and Shan all having some pretty intense orgasms. I was also the one teasing Joe as he watched what his wife was doing, until he cam in me then I went over and had Shan eat her husband's cum out of me as David fucked her. Fun. We rotated through some other permutations, but nothing unusual for the people on this Board. If there's interest, I post whenever we get together with them, but the uncertainty of where this was going when it started is gone.

We started young (around 30) and back then we were attractive, insatiably horny and energetic. Now we're in our 50s. We try to stay in shape and watch what we eat. I take Viagra now and I get pretty tired if I'm playing past midnight. When we play with couples we usually like them mature like us bc we don't want to pale by comparison. But when we play with single males we like them 10 or so years younger - and we seem to play with a lot of single males these days.

Maybe next ime then i should just carry on as normal never realy into fucking girls at that time but maybe try as a new thing but as ive said katrin always gets what she wants and rightly so

First time we did this with complete strangers it turned out somon's wife had started her lady month and was asked if we wanted to call it off. I asked Katrin and she was realy up for it when we met the couple it was agreed jayne would be ok kissing and oral with me and simon and Katrin could do as planned. we were in the same romm and as jayne was giveing me oral i looked accross and saw katrin getting a real hard fucking and felt a little cheated it was only when simon cum in katrin and they laid there and i wa still waiting for my climax i knew that i wasnt cheated as simon cumming in katrin was the trigger for my climax too. We met them a few more times and loved it but it seemed to be getting personal in a way of knowing them so we stopped meeting moveing onto new partners is this cheated feeling things others have felt too. I dont regret anything that we have done in the last few years and hope to enjoy others too.

Just an update at 8 year past the mark. We have been into hotwifing on and off since. We broke up for 14 months in 2019 but got back together again when the pandemic hit. We/she mostly been seeing the guy from the original post over the years fairly regularly. In 2021 he got married and she hasn't seen him since. I am now 36 and she 28. We dabbled with onlyfans during the pandemic to spice our relationship up and make an extra $ We got married in 2022 and have left the scene completely. We recently started testing the waters again. Def. appreciate this community and all the interesting posts and advice we got here either by reading the forums or just through private messages!