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  1. 4 points
    I'm going to follow this up just in case anyone feels like they got left hanging. We did eventually get together with my friend and his wife. They are vanilla, but my wife says there has always been flirtation and chemistry, so when we got together my wife and I were committed to testing the waters with them. As is always advised, my wife took the lead. She dressed sexy and made sure there was a lot of subtle touching between her and my friend's wife. Long story short, the two ladies did make out with each other much to the delight of both husbands (and the ladies too), but nothing more... until next time!
  2. 2 points
    Charles, First off...WELCOME! We're glad you're here. We're a helpful bunch here, so please feel free to ask us any questions. You'll also get gut-level honest responses if we think you're going about something in the wrong way. With that in mind, back off your wife's friend. There's a number of reasons for this. Among those; read what lustlearning and AdamGunn said. Read them again. Your wife will very likely feel a lot less concerned about you playing with a woman who isn't a friend. Then, if things don't go as she hoped, it's easy to block them out and never see them again. With her friend, that's not the case. As to you being more receptive to your wife playing than she is to you playing... My biggest piece of advice is; LET GO. It sounds very much to me that you gain a great deal of pleasure in your wife being happy and getting pleasured. That's a reward all its own. Some couples never do anything other than MFMs and find it exceptionally rewarding. Just forget about anything about this that makes your wife the slightest bit uncomfortable. She is moving on this at a slower pace than you, and that is PERFECTLY acceptable. If you let go of your hopes and aspirations for this, it will feel a lot more comfortable for both of you. From what I'm reading, I don't think it will be long before your wife will be wrapped up in a man who is giving her a great fucking, and you will be overjoyed at the sight of it all. Some people say that swinging has to be balanced; one doesn't play if the other can't. I strongly, strongly disagree with this. What matters is how happy the two of you as a couple are. It's your adventure. It's not a tit-for-tat haggling exercise. When my wife and I first got into the lifestyle ~15 years ago, she wasn't very interested in me having sex with other women. She could logically understand it, but emotionally it wasn't something she was quite ready for. We did do a couple of soft swaps, but not full swaps with other couples at first. That came later. For some years, it was largely MFMs (and one time it was two other guys, me, and my wife). It was a great time, and lots of fun. My wife thoroughly enjoyed all the sex, and really embraced it all. She also had two long term boyfriends that she had sex with for years. After a couple of years, she became more receptive to the idea of me having sex with other women. Fast forward many years, and she's perfectly comfortable with it. She doesn't derive any pleasure from it; it doesn't turn her on to watch me have sex with another woman. I get completely turned on by her having sex with other men. Soooooo damn hot! But, the same is not true for her. That's perfectly fine. Your wife may never enjoy you having sex with other women. There's nothing wrong with that. She may eventually be more comfortable with the idea. But, let it evolve on its own. Don't push it. Open doors for her, embrace her new adventures with you at her side, and share the journey. What comes it what comes.
  3. 2 points
    Oldswinger64 hit this one out of the park. I think in your case, almost 100% of the women you know (subset one), who are willing to talk to you about sex and cheating (subset two), may or may not be cheaters. Because you are already opperating from a greatly reduced data set, you cannot draw the conclusion that ALL women are cheater...just the small group of women who are willing to talk to you about it. Statistics can be strange things and it is possible to draw incorrect conclusions from the data... The following comes from discussions me and my sister (a vegetarian) have had in the past. Example: 100% of all convicted murderers have eaten vegetables. Sorry, but this is a hard fact that cannot be disproved as they all have, at some time in their lives, eaten vegetables. So, the conclusion can be made that eating vegetables is what causes convicted murders to kill. Personally, I'm not willing to take that chance so I steer clear of most veggies. Better safe than sorry.
  4. 2 points
    This is pretty much the reason why we got into this lifestyle (although I can't say we're fully in it yet :) We often dirty talked about him licking cum off of me, or out of me, and he did it a few times, but as has been noted - when it's just his own, he loses the appetite very quickly. Our first experience with another couple, the other man came on my chest, and my husband and I had sex after, with it dripping all over, and when he finally licked it off, well, let's say the two of us were in heaven :) He's also been afraid of the label "bi" which is a shame. He's probably the opposite of the stereotype, so he has nothing to worry about. My feeling is whatever makes you feel good is fine with me.
  5. 1 point
    So last Sunday I helped a vanilla friend install a glass shower door and it pretty much took all day. I am one to have a naughty sense of humor, so I joked to him "payment for my services is a photo of your wife pressing her tits against the glass door". He laughed and joked back "I'll see what I can do". To my surprise he delivered. I received a text yesterday of his smiling naked wife with her big wet tits pressed against the shower door I helped him install. Honestly I was shocked. To my knowledge, they don't swing and they don't know we swing. It's not something we have ever brought up with them. I texted back "That is awesome thank you 😍". But now my mind is swimming. Does he know we're swingers and is this some sort of invite? I'm not 100% sure what my next move should be of if there should be one. What would yours be?
  6. 1 point
    I need to ask, as a former Swingersboard moderator, why this would be relevant to the discussion of swinging? True incite to what? What is the Also, why are we only addressing women cheating and not men? I think - and this is totally acceptable and okay - that you might have a bias here in that you are turned-on by the cheating wife scenario. Maybe a bit of cuckold or stag/vixen fantasies and this discussion is feeding into building that fantasy. And that's okay too. Just trying to get to the bottom of why the question was asked as there are existing topics on this board about cheating within swinging and if cheating brought a couple into the Lifestyle.
  7. 1 point
    Hello all This is probably a pretty tame question, considering. We're just getting started in this lifestyle (and actually still unsure if we're going to continue) We had one, unplanned by very fun, experience with another couple recently, and we're discussing whether to explore further. Regardless of whether we continue, one thing we have always liked is a little exhibitionism. Whenever we travel, my wife likes to do a little showing off in front of our hotel window, curtains open, and then we fool around talking about the people who may be watching. It's harmless fun, and has been our version of daring, and testing the limits of our wild side. We're heading to Las Vegas in Jan to see U2, and just wondering if anyone knows the best hotel, i.e. clearest windows, best exposure to other hotels, etc... Silly question I'm sure, but just curious if anyone else has tested this out.
  8. 1 point
    Couplers, Where your family falls in the structure that I outlined earlier would fall into the monogamous realm. The "playing around the edges " thread would fall into swinging. I think of polyamorous permanent relationships the equivalent of committed monogamy. Polyamory I think has a similar definition problem to that of committed ENM couplies. There are many who call themselves "polyamorous" when I would just say "sleeping around". Where the similarity comes in is that what can be clearly definitive terms, ENM and Polyamory, get blurred with just normal promiscuous free sex living.
  9. 1 point
    We consider ourselves fortunate to live in an ultra tolerant part of the country. We wouldn't be able to pull off what we're doing otherwise.
  10. 1 point
    Oldswinger and hunterdon are touching on our reality. As we age, our relationships with LS couples have also changed. No one wants to feel pressured, everyone wants to feel their own level of comfort, satisfaction, and pleasure. It’s no longer about “hooking up” but rather about being present/with. It’s not about soft swing or hard swing, but rather about enjoying the time with others on whatever level. It’s a different sort of chemistry, less of an ignition or explosion and much more of a slow burn.
  11. 1 point
    When I was in grad school I had a girlfriend who sometimes in the morning liked for me to ejaculate on her boobs and massage it in before she left for class. To this day I wonder if anyone sitting near her in the classroom could smell the semen on her chest.
  12. 1 point
    I had a longterm FWB who offered to let me nurse from her during a period when she was lactating, something she was doing with her baby’s father. She lived a several-hour drive away and at the time and I calculated the cost/benefit ratio to be insufficient. As life turned out another opportunity never presented itself. I now regret not taking her up on her offer.
  13. 1 point
    What we in our family have done, both us women and the men, is steal a little breast milk from lactating new moms. So sweet!
  14. 1 point
    Personally, wouldn't try it, and wife wouldn't want me to. Have, however, massaged her breasts down rubbing in two sticky loads before sending her off to the shower.
  15. 1 point
    The way this is going, the debts may never be settled.
  16. 1 point
    All I know is that I would be volunteering to help him in the future with any other projects he may have...
  17. 1 point
    Since I was texted the nude on Tuesday, and now it's Thursday I feel like my window of opportunity to move on this is coming to a close. This is what I'm thinking now and I would love to hear your thoughts: Since it could be deemed unfair to receive a nude and not send one in response, my current thinking is to reply with a nude of my own naked, smiling wife in the shower - a pic I know for certain my wife will happily pose for. That makes it even, and puts the ball back in my friend's court to make the next move. Good idea or bad?
  18. 1 point
    Did your friend tell his wife that he took her picture to send it for you?
  19. 1 point
    Unlike others here on the board, we did have friends who joined us in swinging. It was great. On the other hand, I do know vanilla couples who also play around for their own satisfaction, and it could just be that. A comment to your friend that you showed the pic to your wife and she liked it too might be a subtle way to move the conversation forward a bit.
  20. 1 point
    Just because you are at a swingers club doesn't mean you have to swing. You can go and just be naked and watch...it's okay, and people usually ask before they do anything else where you can say you are not playing that night. We always look to see if there are any 'shows' going on whenever we travel, but have never been lucky enough to catch a show. Wish we could be there in Vegas when you open your show...
  21. 1 point
    We know a man who enjoys watching us. You can try finding someone like that who only wants to watch or go to a club like the Green Door.
  22. 1 point
    Hi all. I'm a newbie from Northern Michigan here. What's prompted me to get on various swinger boards is the one most common fantasy my wife shares with me is wanting to be fucklicked. We often discuss fantasies of a threesome or foursome while in bed. Doing so seems to really get her hot. Me too! I'm totally OK with doing a MFM with her, or whatever other combo she's willing to try. I've told her that as well, usually as she sharing her fantasy me responding "I'm ok with that". But that's where it ends. She's pretty conservative in public. A club setting absolutely out. Kind of shy. Mid fifties. Great shape and good looking. We've been married over 30 years. She's a "thinker", so I'm concerned if it's something pre-arranged, such she's expecting it, she will over think it, and back out. That leads me to consider doing some prescreening, arrange a meeting with a candidate, likely a few meetings and let some chemistry start and see where it goes from there. Perhaps find someone with common interests (camping and motorcycling are our areas of interest BTW). Let a friendship develop first. But that seems disingenuous. How do I best move this to the next stage and actually do something? Thanks in advance for your input!
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  24. 1 point
    You cum on them you better be willing to lick them clean!
  25. 1 point
    That's been my experience too. I'm really hot to lick and suck her pussy when it's full of our comingled juices, but after calming g down after cumming, the desire wanes. Commonly I go down on her anyway and the results are always lovely. I love the taste of her pussy when it's all swollen and sloppy. I like to kiss her after that but it's not something she loves.
  26. 1 point
    It started early on in the evening while we were reading one of the Hot Wife forums. It had been hot during the day, and we had made a big batch of margaritas with tequila and had nearly consumed all of it. Well, I did have a few I guess, and my wife was feeling pretty randy. She had just come out of the shower and had only a towel around her as she came and gyrated her nice butt before me trying to get me to take advantage of her. I started feeling her naked ass and was pinching her nipples when she really started getting turned on. She bent over and took over the job of pinching her nipples, so I started rubbing her wet pussy. She was really wet down there, so I then started licking her ass while I fingered her. She was very hot and loving all this. She asked me to put my dick in her sopped puss, so being the gentleman I am, I began to guide my hard cock into her. She started moaning right away as I stroked my cock in and out oh so slowly. It had been a long time since we had done anything really nasty so I told her that I didn't want to finish her off but instead save our horniness and that we should do something really wild tonight instead. I sensed that the time was right and by her actions, I felt she was up to it too. She asked what I had in mind, and I told her that I thought we should drive down to the big city and go to the adult theater and see what might happen. She said OK, which kind of shocked me, as she had never agreed to that before when I suggested it. Just to be sure she meant what she had just agreed to do I began stroking my cock in and out again picking up the tempo as I did, all the while telling her what the night had in store for her. She was getting into the talk as I told her guys would be in the theater stroking their hard-ons in front of her while I stripped her in front of them. I started fucking her faster as I felt her orgasm approaching while still telling her that all the guys would be so appreciative of seeing her naked at the show that they may even want to join in. That must have done it for her as her mind played the images before her and she came with a gusher all over my cock. I tried to hold back my own orgasm and don't know how I did it because the images and talk were really getting me hot also but I did. I pulled my wet cock out of her and told her to go up and get dressed for the evening while I showered. She came down just as I had gotten dressed. She was in a light summer dress that came about mid-thigh and was bra-less. She raised the hem of her loose fitting dress to show me one of her Victoria Secrets white lacy thong panties. I wanted to take her again right there as she had me rock hard instantly. But I knew we'd better get going so we hopped into the car to make the 150-mile drive. It's hell living so far from sleazy action, but it's the price we pay I guess for living up here in God's country so to speak. Along the way we talked about a lot of different things; kids, getting a new car, work, etc. and I was hoping she wouldn't start to get cold feet and have me turn around to go home. That thought diminished however when out of the corner of my eye I noticed her unbuttoning some of the top buttons on her dress. She started rubbing her titties with both hands and pinching her nipples. She would pull on her nipples and bring them to her mouth and suck them. She covered them up when we passed cars with families but did it brazenly whenever we went past the big trucks. I looked up when we passed them to see if the driver would look. The ones that did sported huge smiles. This was also something she had always been too shy to do before so I really loved every minute of it. She asked me if I really liked her dress. I looked over at her as she was unbuttoning it the rest of the way. I hadn't noticed in my excitement before, but her dress buttoned ALL the way down the front. She had all the buttons undone and pulled it open. She was totally naked under it except for the thong panties. She then removed the panties and except for the straps over her shoulders you couldn't tell she had anything on at all. My cock was straining to get out of its confines she had me so turned on. She was playing with her pussy and nibbling on her nipples as we streaked down the highway to playland. Her fingers were darting in and out of her pussy while she played and sucked on her tits. She was a one-woman orgy at the moment, and I know she was loving it, as she didn't let up even when we were passing pickups and cars with adults only in them. If anyone happened to look over while we jetted by, they could definitely tell what she was up to because she was not masking any of her actions. I didn't always look over as we passed as I was too busy watching the road and stroking her thigh or pussy or helping out any way I thought I could. At one point she started rubbing me and got my cock out and bent over to give me a blowjob. When she did this, I reached over and scooted her dress out of the way so anyone looking in would see a naked woman's bare ass as she had her head in my lap. Again I didn't want to cum yet, so I had her release her talented mouth from my stiff dick and had her continue to pleasure herself. Soon we were out of the wooded landscape, and the bright lights of the city loomed in front of us. We found a parking spot right in front of the theater. It was at this point I again feared she would back out, and again she proved me wrong. What a woman!! We walked into the theater, and I noticed it was remodeled from when I had been there before. Yes, I have been one of those guys sitting there stroking myself hoping some couple would come in and let me play with them. The attendant said someone had tried to make the place a drive-thru hence the remodeling. We paid our 7 dollars for the theater and walked through the double doors into what I knew was going to be my heaven. Once in the theater, we stayed by the door for about a minute to let our eyes adjust to the darkness. We could see about 6 or 7 guys in the place scattered about. We picked a row without anybody in it, and I walked first all the way to the wall with her right behind me. There is a huge screen up front about 7' by 7' maybe, and around 12 rows of seats with about 10 seats in each row. The seats are rather comfortable as they are cushioned and have armrests. ALL eyes were on my wife as she followed me to our seats. We sat down and began to watch the movie. Almost immediately one of the guys from a back row got up and came in our row and sat down right next to my wife. This startled her somewhat, as she didn't expect this kind of aggression so quickly. She clung real close to me and seemed to have tensed up. I assured her that absolutely nothing was going to happen to her that she didn't want to have happen and that the poor guy was just hoping to be invited to join in on something with us and wanted to get the jump on any of the other guys. With that, I leaned over my wife and asked the guy to move over away from my wife please. He said "sorry, sure" and moved away. I again assured her that one complaint from us would have anyone ejected from the premises if they "bothered" us. Guys who have been in these places know that, and there are usually signs telling this posted in the lobby. Not being asked or able to play with a couple may be disheartening but being there to at least watch what may unfold is better than nothing. On the screen, a pretty blond girl was sucking on a big black dick while what appeared to be her husband was sitting nearby jacking off. Soon the blond had two dicks in her hands and was sucking one then the other. She took turns sucking one cock while being fucked by the other one and then alternated sucking the other one and getting her pussy pumped by the other. I had my arm around my wife's shoulder rubbing it and was telling her that I was going to give the black guy a call so we could do that scene too as it is also one of my fantasies that we haven't lived out yet. It was either this talk, or her getting more relaxed at being in the theater and being more comfortable with the situation, but I noticed she was definitely starting to get into the movie AND the experience. I also kept telling her all night how wonderful she was when she let the slut in her out to play. I love it when she acts like a slut, and I mean "slut" in only the most endearing way. I could tell she was getting into it because she was rubbing all around my crotch and stroking my dick through my shorts. I was rubbing down the side of her chest now trying to get to her tits. I whispered to her that she could unbutton a few buttons and allow herself and me to play with her titties. While she did this, I looked around and saw that no one was watching the movie. DUH. She had a few buttons undone, and we were playing with her tits and nipples as I cupped and kneaded them as best I could for her benefit as well as the guys watching. I kept telling her that all the guys were watching and they really liked what they saw. I told her the guy right behind us had his cock out and was jacking off to our scene, as were some of the others. Her top entirely undone and her beautiful tits out in the open being played with in a public place like this was really turning her on. I had told her for years and years that she would love something like this if only she would overcome her shyness to do so. While she and I played with her tits, I moved one of my hands down to the next button on her dress. Then I undid another and then another. I did this until they were all undone. She knew what I was doing and when the last one was undone she spread her legs apart to give me full access to her sweet wet pussy. Exposing my wife to others is a huge turn-on for me. I don't understand why but maybe some of you guys enjoy this too and let's just hope our beautiful wives understand that we just like to show off what gorgeous women we have. The biggest turn-on yet for me is still burned into my memory when one night at a party when all but the host and hostess and us were left, I undid my wife's shorts while he stood behind her with his arms around her feeling her tits. I unzipped them and lowered them and her panties to the floor and helped her step out of them knowing that I was preparing her to get fucked by him as I watched/helped. Well, that's another story. I brushed her dress aside, and she now sat fully and completely naked in this movie theater except for the straps on her shoulders. The guy in front of us didn't make any pretense about looking around slyly any more and actually sat sideways in his seat so he could look directly at her naked body and her spread legs with my fingers working in and out of her pussy. She was very wet and had her second orgasm in the theater by my playing and fingering her pussy. She had one earlier while we played with her tits I found out later on the drive home. At several times the double doors opened up, and other customers walked in. When they saw what was happening, a beautiful naked woman was sitting there with a man finger fucking her while she played with and sucked on her tits, they came to sit close enough to watch and took their cocks out and began to stroke them. We never missed a beat anytime the doors opened, and usually, the new guys would do a double take to be sure they saw what they thought they saw. My wife was sure into this now, and I think actually was enjoying it a lot more than I imagined. She was naked in the theater and coming and didn't care who knew or saw, in fact knowing they were there enjoying the show only heightened her state, (I say "I think" because we men NEVER REALLY know what goes on in your sweet minds). I asked her if she wanted to suck my cock now and she said "Yes, please." What a wonderful woman huh? I scooted my shorts and underwear to the floor and spread my legs apart as I know from experience that when she sucks cock, she likes to lick balls and play with the whole area. She bent right over and took my dick in her mouth like it was going to be her last meal. She made a noisy blowjob out of it, making sure the guys around us knew what she was doing. She bobbed her head up and down and played with my balls and ass and was giving me one hell of a good blowjob. This lasted for quite a while until I was ready to shoot my cum all over, but I know she likes to swallow all the cum that comes her way and this night I wanted the guys around to get more of a show than that. So I asked her if she wanted to straddle me and ride my cock for a while. She asked if we could actually do that in here? I swear that was the only dumb thing she said all night. I told her yes, that we could, and she stood up, faced me, straddled my legs and put my dick in her hand and guided it into her pussy. She started her up and down movements sliding my cock in and out of her pussy. For the guys behind us, and for her, I cupped her breasts and showed them off to the guys in front and to the side. I bunched her dress into a small ball behind her back and spread her ass cheeks and fingered her ass a little while she humped me. My wife was definitely getting into everything we were doing this night, and her first public display of fucking and sucking was something she was really enjoying. After a while of fucking like this, I could tell she was having somewhat of an awkward time of it with the armrests and all, so I asked if she wanted to stand up and take it from behind. She said sure and got off me and turned around as I stood up. As I got up, I glanced around and saw everyone's arm moving up and down stroking very obvious hard dicks. Too bad they weren't churning butter as we could have fed all the starving nations that night. When I positioned myself behind her and started to poke my cock in, I heard several gasps from the crowd. "Doggie style, oh yeah." I didn't realize this was a favorite of so many. I guided my dick into her and began stroking slowly. This time I knew I was going to finish off in her pussy and shoot my cum, but I was going to make sure she came too, again. I started slowly and increased the pace slightly. I bunched her dress up into a small ball again at the base of her neck so anyone looking would see her as completely naked; almost, except for her thin strapped shoes, which they couldn't see anyway nor cared about. So here we were in this public adult theater on a nice summer night. Her appearing totally naked leaning over the row of chairs in front of her with her nice titties hanging down with me stroking my hard cock in and out of her wet pussy and about 10 guys at this point watching nearby stroking their dicks watching. Damn, the scene gets me rock hard thinking about it, and I'm sure it will for a long time. We were both working up to a good climax, and she was moaning as she was most of the night when she was getting worked over. I could feel her pussy muscles clamp down on me and her sobs and moaning and the gush of juices flooding from her pussy were telling me that she was having her best orgasm of the night. So figuring this was going to be the finale, I decided to let go and have my orgasm too. I pumped her pussy harder and harder. You could hear my stomach slapping against her ass cheeks as we bumped together fucking. I could feel the swell coming up from my balls, and my dick stiffened even more than it was as I erupted the first of many shots. My cum flowed into her like a river gone wild. With each blast I had my ass clenched and drove my cock in as far as it would go. I can't remember having too many orgasms as intense as this one was. During our mutual climax, the double doors opened again, and another guy came in. I don't think my wife even noticed the lights from the lobby as the door opened. If it was the cops, she was going to finish her climax before we went to jail anyway and that was my sentiments too at that moment. With both cock and pussy spent we rocked into a slow rhythm with her doing her usual side to side action and clamping her pussy to drain the last drops of cum from me. When she was satisfied her pussy had milked the last drop of cum from me, she leaned forward to uncouple us. My cock was still hard, not rock hard but hard nonetheless, honest. This had been a fantasy of mine for many years, and regardless of what some people say about the reality not being as good as the mind makes the fantasy, that is pure bullshit. This fantasy was every bit as imagined and better. When we sat back down my wife buttoned up her dress, and I pulled my shorts back up, and we watched some more of what was on the screen. We talked about what we had just done, and she said she loved every minute of it, and it was a big turn-on for her to do what she did, and she would like to do it again. She even said that if the guy who intruded earlier had turned her on and had been more diplomatic about his desires she may have even had him help her with a couple orgasms and would have rewarded him with a big one of his own from her. We did bring some condoms with us just in case. We never want to be in a situation that would call for it and not have any, and we didn't really know where this venture was going to take us when we left home, so I picked some up when we stopped for a drink on the way down. Seeing her swollen and well-fucked pussy filled with the bareback creampies of strangers. That's another fantasy of mine, and you folks will hear about it if it ever comes to fruition which it very well may be as her fantasies and mine now seem to be on the same track.
  27. 1 point
    I have a fantasy of being pegged by my wife at say, a swinger house party, with the door open or some how on display for passerby’s to watch. My only concern is whether this would be considered disrespectful or against an unspoken etiquette? I can understand it’s not for everyone.
  28. 1 point
    This has become a new fetish for a few of our friends. We will actually have pegging parties where the guys are all on the couch and the ladies wear strap inside and fuck them. It’s a great visual for the ladies as they can see their cocks bouncing and dripping pre-cum while they are getting fucked. It’s also awesome to see their cocks go off. Occasionally we double up on the guys so they get oral while getting penetrated. The guys also love being watched and will often jerk themselves off. Definitely not for everyone but we have been lucky enough to find some like minded folks.
  29. 1 point
    Great Guy, You mentioned building profile and pics etc. I'm rather uncomfortable with the risks of someone identifying either of us locally. Any suggestions on how to do as you say in getting out there, while minimizing those risks?
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