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3 pointsIt is a sexual superpower that women have that men don't - the ability to have intercourse with multiple men uninterrupted, satisfy them while having multiple orgasms herself. It is a wise husband who appreciates that.
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2 pointsSunshine&Whiskey, WONDERFUL conversation! There is a great deal of power in talking with someone you love without judgment, without joking sarcasm, without what in today's world we call "microaggressions". It sends the message that it's safe, it's receptive, and welcome and one can share their deepest fears, their deepest fantasies, their deepest insecurities, and their deepest heart. I think you're finding that with your wife. Our society applauds men that sleep around, and denigrates women for the same behavior. It can be difficult for a woman to tell her man that she loves sex, and wants it from several men. It's like admitting she's a slut, with all the negative connotations of it. I suspect this is where your wife is coming from. It sounds like you have been very supportive and receptive to her wants and desires, and now they are coming out more fully, more completely to you. This is really great! Your wife isn't a slut. She's a sexual creature who wants to explore, wants to experience, and wants to fulfill her fantasies (probably many times over). That makes her...her. It doesn't make her wrong, bad, a slut, or anything else negative. If you're happy with MFMs and MFMores with her being the center of attention of two, three, or more men, then awesome! It's really a wonderful experience. There are some here that prefer that either both get to play or neither gets to play. I've never been a fan of that idea. For me, I greatly enjoy having sex with other women. But if I absolutely had to choose sex with women other than my wife or getting to watch another man have sex with my wife and watching her enjoy him giving her an orgasm and him cumming inside her? I love both, but I'd choose the latter. What's important though is what works for you and your wife. You're on a journey. You just took some very important steps. Make sure the trust is back to where it needs to be. If you move forward with having your marriage open, I would move slowly for a bit. Definitely don't include 5th Wheel (glad you told him to get lost). I don't know that I would include Brian in the future. Just not certain. There are other single guys out there without such complications. I applaud Brian's willingness to come forward, but I would be cautious in that he was willing to have sex with your wife behind your back. It's great he was wracked with guilt, not so great the guilt didn't stop him from doing it in the first place!
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2 points1 is a definite yes, 2 is as well as far as the reflection and communication in good and bad. 3 was difficult, as was evidenced Friday when I backed out of speaking to her about it. Fortunately I mustered the confidence and strength to talk to her last night. We talked for roughly 4 hours. I explained I was not angry, but instead disappointed in what happened, but more so in the fact of how I found out. She broke down for a bit and for lack of better terminology just took what I was saying. I told her I would have been open to her doing what she did if she would have brought it up. I asked her if there were other times and she said there was not. Unlike Brian and 5th wheel’s rendition, she was adamant they came on to her. She volunteered it was no excuse but wanted to set the record straight. I asked her what she wanted and felt as far as our sex lives went. She gave a somewhat bloated explanation but one I appreciated nonetheless. She acknowledged she likes the lifestyle but said she is apprehensive out of not wanting it to consume our lives. She commented a lot about not wanting me to think she’s “crazy”, those are her words. But that her preference was to have steady people to play with but that she enjoyed being the female center of attention. The overwhelming majority of our limited experience is with another couple. We’ve had a couple of times where it was just myself and another couple guys and she admitted that would be her preference. She admitted she was reluctant to relay the message for fear of my response. We both finished the conversation with acknowledging the need for us to speak without the fear of being shut down. We reiterated just how much we love each other and how I cast no judgement on her desires to have multiple male partners at once. She really opened up after that and relayed some extremely kinky stuff that she both fantasized about and had experienced prior to our relationship.
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1 pointThe past few months I have been thinking about this. We have been to house parties and other things over the years. At some of these parties the people are playing with multiple partners either in private/public/both. So here is the question. If she had someone cum (bareback) in her earlier in the party and you start playing with her: Do you know if she played earlier? Would you ask her if she went bareback before you do oral? Should she tell you before you go down on her? What if she doesn't tell and you find out? What would be required before you go down on her if she did have someone cum in her? I am not personally interested in creampies, but this question I thought was interesting.
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1 pointSafety is what comes to mind first. We’ve never attended a party with random people we don’t know. I think one is playing with fire if they take the risk with that. Personally I’ve never thought about it as a condom would be worn if it’s me. Most of our activity has been in relatively small groups with people we know or one on with a couple. My wife’s gone bareback with two other guys, both guys were part of a couple we knew just as much as ourselves. I’m envisioning this question to pertain to a large setting as I’ve never played and not known when another guy came as it’s pretty obvious. I think the bigger question here, and maybe part of what you’re getting at, is is there an aversion to being in contact with another man’s cum? For me in the moment I have none. I’ve followed both the guys I mentioned after they came in my wife. Personally there’s not much better of a physical or emotional feeling. Kinda off topic but since I went there. My first true test with this was on my wife’s birthday this past year. It was us, another couple, and three male friends of our group. My wife got her period just hours before everyone showed. Wanting to be a part of the festivities she put her bj skills to work being it was 5 guys and just one other woman. My wife laid back on the couch and the others finished on her face. Not wanting to cum so I could enjoy I caressed her as each did their thing. When everyone else was wrapped up I took a few lovely pictures of her and she began to give me a bj, intermittently cleaning her face with my dick. Before cumming I honored her request by making out with which was incredibly sensual. I regretted it a bit after I came but I shook it off and would be willing to give her oral after another guy would finish in her.
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1 pointOne of the most important things for me is the connection the other couple has with each other. If they are not a loving couple, it won't work for me. Although looks certainly do matter, if a man has a good personality and can make me laugh, I'm good to go.
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1 pointCompletely agree. We’ve talked and with some great one on one advice from @Fundamental Law we talked even more. We easily spent a half a day the last two days opening up and communicating at a level we didn’t understand was required or that we were even capable of. It’s amazing how we all seem to know everything about everyone else, but 99% of us leave sex in a relationship and discussions about it as a taboo we don’t go near. I’m very confident when I say the things my wife told me were not only enlightening but very stimulating. A wrong is wrong, but there’s some more to it I just won’t get into a publicly visible forum. And I totally agree about the double standard with men and women. One is applauded while the other is maligned. We all carry burdens. But some of those burdens are self made while others are thrust upon us. She’s definitely made some choices based on prior circumstances she’s found herself in. Kicking Brian to the curb was not easy. I’ve known him for longer than I’ve known my wife. Past experiences for my wife prior to meeting me aside, this and specifically he was a bit of a guiding light for us. Add the friendship to him being the first guy I watched have sex with my wife makes it difficult in a way. The way it came together was extremely organic which is in large part the reason why everything worked, albeit rarely, from the start those many years ago. My wife laid more honesty at the table about the incident and her past than I could have ever imagined. I buy her story over his as far as how it went down. Especially considering the inconsistencies between his and 5th wheel’s.
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1 pointYou don't have to be sorry that you can also get romantic aspects from a gangbang. I think they definitely exist, even if I haven't been able to get anything out of such a situation so far. For me so far it was just an unromantic, mass-fucking of a woman but I think there are a lot more feelings beyond that, especially for the couple whose wife she is. Gangbang with a single woman certainly has its lovers, but for a married woman it is so much more than just a hustle and bustle of men getting off on her. It can strengthen the marriage incredibly and provide a new, much more intimate source of love for the couple, from which both can draw on their love long after, especially if she experiences the gangbang completely bareback. 3 years ago we were in a club here in Germany that also organizes such gangbang evenings as a closed event in which couples and single men take part (this number is limited) and the wives can get really fucked by the selected men and also enjoy their desire for a lot of sperm, because cum inside is not only allowed but also expressly desired. Neither of us had seen or watched anything like that before. My wife could certainly describe her feelings about this better and comment on it here maybe later. Despite the unromantic nature, it was somehow very exciting to see this happy wife and how one after the other of the 15 men fucked her harder or softer and they always squirted inside her. Of course they also loved to kiss her, which makes the whole thing very sensual. I saw my wife for the first time standing with me and with her hand between her legs while watching. 😊 What it makes so super romantic is that the husband kissed her passionately after all the men. She looked very exhausted and happy afterwards and their love bond between the two benefited greatly from it.
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1 pointHi everyone, I'm new here, and never experienced swinging. I really want to try it out though, so that my wife could have sex with 3 or 4 men at once. I would like to go into her after other guys deposit their cum inside her. I don't want them to wear condoms! Reading through the posts here, I want to try to be the sloppy second, or even third, or fourth... The question is, if she does not want to take pills to avoid pregnancy, what would you guys do, if you face the situation where she got pregnant? I'm sorry if there are other posts like this one, but I would really like to know
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1 pointI'll add on; if your profile says you're wanting single males, you're going to get BOMBARDED with messages. This is to be expected. Don't be overwhelmed by it. Expect a lot of single males to send hopeful contact messages that are little more than "Hey you're hot. Wanna fuck?" Down filter messages quickly, beyond just the included word I mentioned. Did they write more an a sentence or two? Did they appear to read and respond to your profile's contents? Did they bother to spell things correctly? That's not to be a grammar/spelling nazi. It's ...did they take the care to get it right? If the best they can do is badly formed sentences and misspelled words, they're probably not all that smart. Half of people are dumber than average It might seem a bit harsh, but when you are getting overwhelmed quickly dispense with messages on such criteria to filter out the not-worth-your-times, and get to the guys who might be worth it. Hunterdon said it, and I said it before. It really is worth it! When you find a good guy (and they really are out there!) you and your wife both will be very happy with it all. It's a wonderful, wonderful experience to share your wife in an MFM.
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1 pointVery good advice. Since you're looking to develop an online/text/message situation first then a swinger site seems like the place to start. Lots of couples become jaded by the glut of shit single men online and block single males entirely. But if you employ some filter techniques as described by @bbarnsworth and use common sense and street smarts you will be able to separate the good from the bad. We've been in the LS 25 years and have had (and continue to have) many great experiences with single males. It takes work, but when you finally find compatible singles it's well worth the effort.
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1 pointWe’ve each had a couple. Nothing earth shattering but different. Our couple we did most of our playing with got very comfortable. The guy was very much into receiving anal play and his female half was not into his fantasies. Not so coincidentally I had always rejected my wife’s attempts to play with my ass. The extent was her licking or rarely shoving a finger in me. It started off with my wife fingering him while giving a bj. Then it just turned into random fingering. It all culminated with my wife pegging him when we’d get together. On the other side of the aisle I have a pretty steady foot appreciation for women. It’s not an obsession but it’s a healthy appreciation. The male half is a bit ocd and steered clear of her feet, or at least the extent at which she appreciated it as well. Our feet was one of many things we clicked on and filled each others need for. Examples are she would wear a pair of pumps for hours and she’d have me lick and suck her toes. Even got to where she have me “clean” the inside of the pump with my mouth. One time she had a pretty flexible flat and had me climax inside shoe.
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1 pointI’m no expert, nor are my wife and very experienced, but some clearer articulation seems to be in order. We encountered similar feelings and I don’t think it’s uncommon. Our first bout with this was between myself and the female half of the first couple we played with. They also happen to make up the vast majority of our experiences we’ve had. My wife is a retired gymnast, busty, but 5’1” and about 110lbs. The other is about 5’6”, athletic, but about 200lbs. Both have stunning faces but I’m really into thicker women, hence she was in my preference zone. Much like me she loves being teased, caressed, touched, and revels in foreplay. My wife is more throw her, bend her over something, mostly rough sex. When we played with them we found a groove together to where it was more sensual, lots of oral, and ages spent in 69 which we both love but our other halves are not big on. I was honest and told my wife it feels great but I respect our differences and am just glad each was being filled. Same went for her with the male half. Here we are with our routine and they were on a completely different level of borderline violence. I completely understand it is what it is. We made a habit afterward of being really outgoing for the other and making it clear we are each others life partner. Give that a shot.
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1 pointYes, It is much easier to enjoy this kind of lovemaking if one or both of the couple already have some experiences. In our case, it was my wife, who had some previous experiences in clubs. This gave her a good relationship with her own body and she also learned to experience herself and her sexuality as normal and natural and that it is something completely natural when you can share it with others.
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1 pointWhen our situation was just me, my husband and my boyfriend, it made me incredibly happy not just for the sex I was given, but for the unselfish love it implied. How could I not let him?
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1 pointYes, I'm still very much in the lifestyle. Recently got out of a relationship. Single and enjoying it.
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1 pointIt is a totally different and wonderful experience to watch one's wife in an MFM where you are not one of the M's. It's also different, at least to me, whether I'm watching my wife taking on two other men, while I am sexually engaged with another woman or simply watching. It determines the expectation by both of us whether I'll be jumping right into her afterwards or not.
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1 pointThe older-age sexless-lives situation is more closely detailed here https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7489086/ and is worth reading by younger and older people on this list. There are clear correlations between sustained sexual activity and mental health. Whether sex is more or less important than Sudoku, Wordle, Connections and the other puzzles, who knows. But like healthy eating, regular exercise, moderation in alcohol, regular sex correlates with well-being in the older population.
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1 pointI would be very strict about this if the supposedly single guy is wishing to form a V or Triadic polyamorous relationship with us. Otherwise, if it is just play, I would just ignore him. Or if there is really chemistry between us, and he is clean, then why not? I dont wish to judge nor make assumptions as to what his motivations could be in wishing to swing with us alone, without his spouse's involvement. It would not ruin their home, but a poly relationship will.
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1 pointI find these "how we met" marriage stories romantic. How it should be - love blossoming obviously without sexual jealousy.
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1 pointIt's nice to hear from another married couple who started in the lifestyle young. We're you married first, or did you meet in the lifestyle?
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1 pointIm 38 and my wife is 33. We started swinging 10 years a go when she was 23 and I was 28. We have managed to juggle an active home and work life with an extremely busy social life. We have some great memories recorded to look back on when we decide to 'retire' from the lifestyle. We have agreed that when im hitting 50 we will start to wind down and finish our swinging adventures. We wanted to enjoy it while we were young and in good shape physically. We have played with partners ranging in age from early 20s right up into their late 60s! So basically whatever age is the right fit for you as a couple is the age you should start.
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1 pointI saw an article in the NY Times today written by the daughter of Ronald Reagan about Sandra Day O'Connor. A few paragraphs went into the struggle that Justice Day had with her husband John's Alzheimer's dementia and how she faced it. Quoting: "Sandra Day O’Connor Told a Truth About Marriage That Few Others Dared To By Patti Davis My father [Ronald Reagan] had died two years before, and during the decade of his illness, I paid close attention to what other people chose to share about Alzheimer’s. There was a notable silence about placing a family member in a facility designed to provide safe, appropriate care. I so admired Sandra Day O’Connor’s openness, and I imagined the thousands of people in similar situations who felt gratitude that someone was shining a light on a dilemma that so many suffer through in the shadows. In 2007, she went even further, allowing her son Scott to disclose that John had fallen in love with a resident at the facility — and that he did so with the former justice’s blessing. In an interview with KPNX-TV, a Phoenix station, Scott described how his mother would watch John and his new partner sitting on a bench together, clearly smitten with each other. “Mom was thrilled that Dad was relaxed and happy and comfortable living here.” She continued to visit him, though he no longer recognized her. People with Alzheimer’s lose connections, memories become frayed threads, but the desire for companionship runs deep — deeper than the disease. It’s fairly common for patients to develop new romantic, even sexual, relationships. But it’s something that few people feel comfortable talking about." This makes me proud to say that I am polyamorous. Although it was very late in life, this showed a wife's genuine love for her husband. It would have been so easy for her to do what everyone would have expected, pulled him out out of the facility and raised a lot of fuss and drama. But she didn't, she responded with love.
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1 pointI didn't consider it swinging at the time but looking back, it was cuckolding. In the late 70's my brother told me about this bar in our college town, it was known for older married women that would pick up college men for sex. Sure enough I would start dancing with the older women and eventually go to a hotel or their home. Many times their husbands would watch and either jerk off or go for sloppy seconds. The first time that my ex wife and me swapped was with her maid of honor and her boyfriend. Me and the ex was having sex in front of them and they joined in.
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1 pointWe started very young and the swinging wasn't great. You don't find a lot of others who are also in their twenties that are swingers and the ones that were, were not ready for it. We did a lot more MFM, hot"wifing" (she my GF) and keeping an open relationship which worked better at a younger age.
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1 pointI had what is now called a hotwife in my twenties, participated very briefly in foursome activities in my thirties, and my 2nd wife and I enthusiastically took up swinging in our early 50's through our sixties. The best time to be swinging: Now! If you (and your significant other, if you have one,) are excited about sharing yourself with other people, then you'll have fun no matter what age you are. Can you do stuff longer and more acrobaticly when you're young? Of course! On the other hand, as you age your experience allows you to appreciate what you're into more and more.
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1 pointWithin 3 mo ths of Sabrina and I moving in together (a week after we met) she told me she was bi and ❤️ loved having sex with girls. I was all in. I found a house party in El Paso the next weekend. After afew drinks and talking to lots of people, we ended up in a hot tub with three beautiful woman. They all started kissing 💋 and making out. They decided it was time to take the party to a king sizze bed. The four of them played for almost two hours. One of the other girls came over and started giving me head. After I came, Sabrina told me to go get several guys as the girls all wanted to fuck. I brought six guys back to the room and it turned into a huge orgy. I later found out this was not Sabrina's first orgy and it wasn't our last.
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1 pointThe nature of the other couples relationship is what initially attracts us. Are they in love? Are they committed to one another, do they touch, and look each other in the eyes? Do they have their act together (from a swinging perspective)? This is fundamental for us.
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1 pointPersonalities is number one. Then physical attraction. The better the personality, the more we can accept some degree of unattractiveness. But some people are not doable due to lack of attractiveness. Blunt but true. .
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1 pointIt is wonderful that you were certain and secure in your life and that your future husband accepted and loved you. Also interesting. It's never what you expect. At first my guys were tentative around each other naked and kept me between them. Did he, however, like to see you "playing?" My husband certainly did, always wanted to go second so as to enjoy the show first.
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1 pointI'm glad that you did. I reacted in haste, particularly to the statements: OK, if you want to feel the men ejaculate, I can understand that; some women don't want to or can't take hormonal contraceptives. But sex has its fundamental purpose of creating new humans, so take responsibility for that. There are IUDs and diaphragms. But this situation (if true) goes further beyond that. She has a desire to set up a competition among the men to get her pregnant with the thought that she will conceive the most robust child. I don't think it works that way. What she will get is the fastest, luckiest swimmer. So it is a conflict between the husband and wife over the paternity of the child she plans to have, and apparently he doesn't want to go along with this plan, and I agree, but for a different reason. An article I read long ago said that upper middle class couples adopting children are often frustrated when they adopt a child from a disadvantaged background because sometimes the child doesn't grow up to meet their expectations. Despite the best schools, a stable family, etc., trouble arises. The article pointed out that a child's overall development in intelligence, disposition is half environment and half genetics. The adoptive parents can give him or her the environment, but not the genetics which they do share with their parents, siblings, grandparents and have set their expectations for a child's development. If they decided to chance a bareback gangbang (I can't believe I'm writing these words) and don't want to conceive, then use an IUD, diaphragm, or plan it during her non-fertile period. If she gets pregnant despite precautions, then consider an abortion. If you decide to have the child, then I stick with what I said above. There are many children who turn out well growing up in an adoptive home with the adoptive parents and the child not knowing their parental provenance. Although nowhere nearly the same, our poly family started when Clair became pregnant by my husband (she wasn't having sex with Red at the time), which was totally unexpected and unplanned because she was on birth control at the time. Our relationship was only beginning, and Clair offered to abort so as not to upset our nascent relationship. Instead, I pushed hubby and Red that I get pregnant as well so Clair and I could go through it all together. I went off birth control and over the next two months hubby and Red did it "pot luck" so I could get pregnant as quickly as possible. It was the best decision ever. (Reciting this, it does give me a little sense of what this guy's wife is talking about; it was an amazing feeling having two men trying to conceive with me. But keep in mind, both knew, supported the situation of what Clair and I were doing, and either man would be a responsible father just by himself, but Clair and I have the support of both.) On the other hand, if one of us conceived a terribly defective fetus or were raped, we would abort without hesitation. We are lucky to live in these modern times where the joy or sex can be separated from reproduction. Use those tools wisely.
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1 pointI used to share my ex-wife, (she's my ex because of other reasons not her riding other men). The guys would cum in her and one guy in particular would have sex with her quite a bit. No contraception at all. I would do her after. She got pregnant with our second daughter and the time frame could possibly have been his but I have no idea don't care and never checked. It's my daughter period.
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1 pointYou can't force her to want to. Tell her just once or twice that it's your fantasy, then drop it. Ask her what her fantasies are and help her pursue them. That's what my husband did, let me fuck another guy for two years while he remained monogamous. Then the I reached a point where I gave him everything he wanted and more. Not because I felt obligated, but because it turned me on.
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1 pointEveryone has a boo boo. Discuss, correct, move forward, hope you didn’t get anything. When we first started in the lifestyle, we thought wearing a condom made you bullet proof. Not so.
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1 pointVery mature of both of you. People will always make mistakes in all aspects of life, no need to make it high drama.
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1 pointBareback with strangers is definitely a case for getting a Truvada(Prep) prescription. 99% effective at preventing HIV transmission.
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1 pointI am now retired.My wife passed away in 2007. I do not know if this approppiate in this day and age but I met my wife in europe in a ganbang in a sex club.At that time she was being banged by about 15 guys. No condoms full on ejaculation in her vagina. I just by chance after her show asked her if she would like a drink.We became friends.I gave her my phone number not expecting her to call me. She did 12 months later. I brought her to Ausralia. No strings attached. We married and had 3 children. She one night when we were out what I asked what she would like! She said a full on gangbang! I arranged it through a girfriend I new who was a prostitute. She arranged 20 guys privatley at her house.I have never seen my wife so happy. I am not a jelous person but the smile on her face going home and the mess she made in cab was unbelievable. On special occasions I would arrange further gangbangs for her! I miss her so much! I would love to connect any females who think the same .Cheers
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1 pointMy husband loves seeing me giving and receiving pleasure, we also enjoy lots of dirty talking, I love to perform for him and put on a good show for everybody involved. I guess he enjoys seeing me having sex because he is a man with no insecurities that really likes my body and loves me very deeply and wants me to have all the fun I can get in this world. He always tells me I am his favourite porn star 😈
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1 pointWe haven't done a gangbang, although Daniela has had three or four guys in a day, but with everything we've done or seen our spouse do, it leaves us feeling proud. Strange.
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1 pointApparently people are interested in what my first wife and I used to do. Here are a couple more of my transcribed articles that I scanned in from our old newsletters. It appears that our club was quite different from what goes on today. Here I was ready to get my fantasy experience and I was as nervous as a long tailed cat at a clogger’s party, Picture me standing there naked while thirty other people stood there watching, waiting for me to be ravished. Of course, it was made easier by the fact that they too were all naked but still I was nervous. Reg is always trying to come up with mixers to kick parties off with, but this one takes the cake. We all came into the party room naked from the cloak room and began talking and dancing with whomever happened to be there, mostly slow sensual dancing but nothing out of the ordinary yet. I started with my husband but we both had several dance partners. Finally, when Carol, Sam, and Roberto showed up we were all there. Reg handed each of us a pencil and an envelope with our name and the name of someone of the opposite sex on it. Having handed one to each person he told us all to find our partner. There was a mad scramble to find and hook up with the other name on the envelope. I was paired with Walt, whom I could see was a tall gangling guy with red hair, a happy glint in his eyes, and a long skinny dick that hung down to the same distance as his ball sack. Looking around I could see that Reg had paired us up with the people each of us knew the least. The closest I’d ever gotten physically to him was in a circle suck at a recent party. I quickly found out that Walt had a great sense of humor as we quickly shared some small talk. It took a few moments of looking to see that Jerry, my husband, was paired with Judy, a dark haired voluptuous vixen. Reg called for our attention then asked us to open our envelopes and collect answers to the questions therein. He was very explicit that we were to write the answers ourselves just as our partner gave them. I still have the card here. The first question was easy: what is your favorite color. The rest got progressively more interesting I have to admit that writhing his answers and telling him mine was a rather erotic experience. We handed our cards over to Reg and danced naked with our partners for a while. After sharing intimacies with Walt then dancing with him, our level of excitement rose to the point where I was about ready to jump all over him. After a while Reg told us all to get comfortable then called out one name at a time. Everyone scrutinized each person in turn as he read a couple of answers from each person. Most were embarrassed but it was an erotic embarrassment. The couples got into playing with each other while listening. I made mental notes to try some of those things he read with the people he read about. I was a little surprised that he hadn’t read my answers since I thought I’d told Walt some really interesting things. My surprise turned to mild panic when he asked Walt and me to come up to where he was standing on the stair landing to demonstrate some of what I’d told him. He had gone through the cards and selected mine out for more than just talking about. Walt read my answers well. My favorite color is blue, the dark blue you find beneath rain clouds as they move away to the East after a storm. My first sexual experience was with a high school sweetheart at a church campout. We snuck away during a testimony meeting, met in a little cove by a stream and fooled around until our hormones got the better of us and we fucked twice. The first time he lasted exactly three strokes but the second time gave me a much better orgasm than I’d gotten from masturbation. What were Walt’s two most endearing quality? He made me laugh and he had the gentlest hands, tickling me all over and especially where the tickles felt the best. Finally came the big question: Tell us about a fantasy that you could do tonight involving your current partner. Let me read my answer just as I gave it. I would like to sit on a comfortable seat and have at least four men touch me lightly, tickling me just as Walt had done while I tease their cocks and balls with my fingers and mouth. I want this to go on for quite a while as I relax and become aroused. When I am ready I’ll lie down and they will concentrate on my boobs and pussies, alternately with their fingers and their tongues. I want them to nibble my ears and neck while we all get excited. I want them to give me a long slow orgasm, each taking turns with their tongues. Maybe one can find my G spot while another is licking my pussy lightly. Then I want them to take turns fucking me and letting me suck and play with their cocks until all have cum in my mouth or pussy. Once we are all sated I would like to hug them all together for a while to enjoy the after feelings. Guess what. Reg called three guys over to us and I got my fantasy right there in front of everyone just as I’d described. Oh man, I can still bring back the feelings just by closing my eyes and imagining that it’s happening again. By the way, Jerry got to be one of the guys. He loved it too. The Box Lunch One Sunday our chapter rented a house out in the woods near Portland. Three of us had been there before a couple of times to use the pool and the hot tub and we liked it so much that we invited everyone to a special party there. Isolated in a small valley amongst huge pines and cedars, the driveway in was narrow and winding with a gate to assure privacy. Barbara and I met several times to plan everything. Judy, my wife, joked that it took more time to plan than we’d allowed. She understood that Barbara can be very distracting, especially when we take off our clothes to do the planning. Chuckle, chuckle. Bruce was the parking director, allowing in only six cars since there was limited parking at the house. The others parked at the Safeway mall and carpooled the six miles to the party. Everyone was to dress up in clothes one might find in 1900. Of course, the clothes wouldn’t last that long, especially on that hot day, but it helped to set the mood. We had period music on the record player and we cavorted as much as we could in the manner of the repressed 1900. Some of the members came in period swimming costumes complete with the bloomers and skirts. It was quite an interesting gathering. After everyone had sampled the punch and renewed acquaintances, we called everyone to the big porch at the front of the house. Stacked on the porch were a wild collection of boxes and baskets, each containing enough food for two people. It was to be a box social. Each box was auctioned off to the highest bidder. The proceeds were to go to Cancer research. Barbara, a great auctioneer, didn’t tell the bidders who had made up the box lunch until he had won the bidding. Of course she extolled the virtues of each of the boxes as part of the auctioning. Each time a box was won the winner came up and wrote a check then was allowed to open it and find the name of the woman who had made the lunch. {It doesn't work the other way. Men don't make interesting enough lunches.} The idea was that she would share the lunch and be with him until the dance that evening. Barb saved the most ornate lunches ‘til last and we made quite a bit of money for the charity. While getting ready for the auction we counted up the extra guys that we always had at parties. It didn’t take too much to convince four of the women to agree to two winners for lunch. It was all very prim and proper 1900 style as we all traipsed off to find a cozy nook for lunch….. and for some nookie too. I had made bids for several boxes to keep the bidding flowing and ended up with a rather plain box, lunch that is, and was delighted to find that it was made by Carol, a buxom blonde whose breasts jiggled when she laughed. We knew each other rather well from other parties. I didn’t see where Judy went but Karl, Barb’s wife bought her box. I carried the box while Carol brought a very large comforter to sit on. Being very familiar with the place I led her to a little grassy beach next to a curve in the stream. The wind in the trees, the birds, and the sound of the water rippling over the rocks set a very romantic mood. We sat on the comforter but hadn’t even opened the box when Carol complained that her dress was terribly uncomfortable. Being the polite 1900 gentleman that I was I immediately helped her divest herself of the problem and of her clothing. She responded by helping me out of mine. She looked so inviting reclining nude on the comforter that I couldn’t resist giving her a big kiss which led to a hug which led to a lot of playing around which led to lots of warm flashes and chills as I played with her boobs and she fondled my cock and balls. Lunch be damned. We kissed and snuggled and fondled and played for quite some time. I had paused for a moment and was looking deeply into her eyes trying to think of something to say when from the distance came a veritable scream of pleasure from some other young lady who must have had the same ideas we had. We both laughed then kissed and my hand found its way the wettest pussy I’d felt in a long time. She shoved me over onto my back then slowly lifted her leg over me and knelt there with her lovely pussy just above my hard cock. The sight of her above me with her wonderful boobs looking at me sent incredible chills down my back. I couldn’t resist reaching up and softly feeling of her breasts. She smiled the most bone melting smile and I thought I’d cum right there. Slowly, she lowered herself until my cock was prodding at her pussy lips. She moved her hips to center it then enfolded my cock in the softest, wettest, silkiest, most wonderful pussy ever. We fucked like that for an incredibly long time enjoying the wonderful feelings of being together, enjoying one-another. She leaned forward and we kissed, she leaned back and I reveled in the sight of her voluptuous body giving and receiving pleasure so freely. I can’t describe her smile. Her face shone with pleasure and lust. We both moaned a lot. We both touched and massaged each other as our genitals, entromixed, were the constant connection through which we shared something at least as good as orgasm, especially since it lasted so much longer. Her moans got louder and our hip movements grew in intensity. At one point she leaned forward into me and with our whole body in contact we kissed and she began an incredibly strong shudder and guttural moan that went on for what seemed hours. The intense movements she was making finally pushed me over the top. I couldn’t hold out any longer so I let myself go and felt that incredible pleasure pain that goes with filling her pussy with my jism. We were locked together in pleasure through lots of gyrations until, disappointingly, my shriveled up cock slipped from its velvet sheath and we collapsed together, holding on to each other desperately, sharing the feelings and kissing lightly. It was quite a while before we finally returned to earth and ate our lunch, naked in that romantic glen.
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1 pointHere's the thing: there is a lot more at play than whether folks use condoms or not--or whether they have sex with more than one person at a time or not. . Porn actors do stuff a lot like gang bangs with folks they barely know-and have a low rate of STD's because they exchange test results no more than 30 days old for HIV, chlamydia and gonorrhea and their rate of STD's is 80% less than that of the general population in LA. Non-drug using prostitutes in Canada have a lower rate of HIV than the general population. They generally have a lot of partners-but it isn't clear just how often they use condoms (one study in Chicago claimed prostitutes their used condoms less than 30% of the time). Clearly there are populations with multiple partners that are relatively free of HIV risk. Gay men that used condoms consistently reduced their risk per year of getting HIV only by 57% compared to gay men that didn't use them at all. That 57% is something in the way of risk reduction-but not nearly as enough to be really "safe" in my book. Even if someone is monogamous, if they picked that partner from a high risk pool, they are at risk. Rape and Intimate partner violence BTW actually appear to be independent risk factors for HIV-they make it far more likely someone will get HIV per contact than other forms of encounters. Picking up partners in bars is risky. Why? Because heavy drinkers are more at risk of HIV than the general population-so picking partners at bars is picking from a higher risk pool-and booze may also lower your ability to ward off an HIV infection if you do get exposed. That said, I think a gang bang with strangers that are tested free of drugs, non-smokers, and free of HIV and other STD's is probably safer per encounter than a "monogamous" relationship in certain zip codes in the US.
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1 pointYears ago, at a club, I had sex with four different guys, one after the other. I've got to say, after four, I was tired and sore but, I did have a smile on my face (that my husband teased me about the smile lasting too long).
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1 pointI would imagine so if she had cum in her. Who she played with would be the question. And are you talking about another woman or my wife? Never have asked that of someone. I would hope she would if she had played bareback, just out of respect for me. I'd probably joke it off, put on a condom and have sex with her anyway. I wouldn't if it wasn't someone I knew, meaning my wife and a guy we trusted. We have played bareback on two occasions with couples we know really, really well and trust explicitly. I have never had any qualms about going down on Mrs. WS after I've cum in her, so I was not turned-off on going down on Mrs. WS or screwing her after the other husband had cum in her. It really doesn't bother me. What would is if it was like you said, at a party, with someone who isn't my partner, and it was just some guy that came in her. Mr. WS
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1 pointI feel the same way. Bunny, when you said your wife wasn't on pill at that time, and you heard that her boyfriend refused to use condoms, you have taken into account the possibility of her getting pregnant with her boyfriend's child as well. Despite all that, you still allowed her to have sex with him. and for that, I think it is honourable to be able to let your wife experience sex with other guys, allowing her to be pleasured by others, and also to raise and love the child she has in the process. I'm not sure if there's a lot of others like you, but I share the same view, believing that love and sex are 2 different things. She can have sex with anyone she likes, and I would still love her. I love her so much that I don't mind if she gets pregnant with other guy's offspring. BECAUSE the mother of that child is my wife.
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1 pointMy wife doesn't like to use the pill either. For some women artificial hormones screw too much with their moods. You can look at the natural methods of birth control (periodic abstinence — fertility awareness-based methods) I posted, but of course, the woman is usually most sexually excited when she is ovulating. Another option is to find men who have had a vasectomy and are not longer fertile. Or that your wife gets her tubes tied, etc. I can understand the fantasy. For some women, sperm is like a reward, and feeling it inside them really turns them on. My wife gets very hot when we have sex and there is a risk of pregnancy. But i don't think I'd do that with a stranger. Anyway, is it the risk of pregnancy which turns her on, or the feeling of men cumming inside her. If it is the latter, then there are options you can explore (see the link). You've got to deal with the consequences, so, if that is the fantasy you should have a good think about your options and the consequences before hand.
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1 pointMaybe this might sound weird, but my wife doesn't want to take birth control pills. She wants all of us to cum inside her. I don't mind other guys having sex with her, and having their cums inside her. But regarding her being pregnant with other guy's child, I hope it wont happen that way. She just laughed if I asked her to take birth control pills, saying that she wants only the best sperm to become her child. I guess she must have read it somewhere when she told me that german tribes have their wives shared so that the wives could produce the best offsprings. This might sound a bit weird, and I don't know whether she's just joking or not. But I do know that she doesn't want to take the pills (for whatever reason), and she does want all of the guys to cum inside her. I love her so much. I wonder, how many of you guys out there don't mind fathering other guy's child? I must admit that i hope it won't come to that situation, but I do love her very much, and if that does happen, I don't know what I should do.