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It is a sexual superpower that women have that men don't - the ability to have intercourse with multiple men uninterrupted, satisfy them while having multiple orgasms herself. It is a wise husband who appreciates that.

Right on. Excellent advice.

You did right by injecting afterwards.

Sunshine&Whiskey, WONDERFUL conversation! There is a great deal of power in talking with someone you love without judgment, without joking sarcasm, without what in today's world we call "microaggressions". It sends the message that it's safe, it's receptive, and welcome and one can share their deepest fears, their deepest fantasies, their deepest insecurities, and their deepest heart. I think you're finding that with your wife. Our society applauds men that sleep around, and denigrates women for the same behavior. It can be difficult for a woman to tell her man that she loves sex, and wants it from several men. It's like admitting she's a slut, with all the negative connotations of it. I suspect this is where your wife is coming from. It sounds like you have been very supportive and receptive to her wants and desires, and now they are coming out more fully, more completely to you. This is really great! Your wife isn't a slut. She's a sexual creature who wants to explore, wants to experience, and wants to fulfill her fantasies (probably many times over). That makes her...her. It doesn't make her wrong, bad, a slut, or anything else negative. If you're happy with MFMs and MFMores with her being the center of attention of two, three, or more men, then awesome! It's really a wonderful experience. There are some here that prefer that either both get to play or neither gets to play. I've never been a fan of that idea. For me, I greatly enjoy having sex with other women. But if I absolutely had to choose sex with women other than my wife or getting to watch another man have sex with my wife and watching her enjoy him giving her an orgasm and him cumming inside her? I love both, but I'd choose the latter. What's important though is what works for you and your wife. You're on a journey. You just took some very important steps. Make sure the trust is back to where it needs to be. If you move forward with having your marriage open, I would move slowly for a bit. Definitely don't include 5th Wheel (glad you told him to get lost). I don't know that I would include Brian in the future. Just not certain. There are other single guys out there without such complications. I applaud Brian's willingness to come forward, but I would be cautious in that he was willing to have sex with your wife behind your back. It's great he was wracked with guilt, not so great the guilt didn't stop him from doing it in the first place!

1 is a definite yes, 2 is as well as far as the reflection and communication in good and bad. 3 was difficult, as was evidenced Friday when I backed out of speaking to her about it. Fortunately I mustered the confidence and strength to talk to her last night. We talked for roughly 4 hours. I explained I was not angry, but instead disappointed in what happened, but more so in the fact of how I found out. She broke down for a bit and for lack of better terminology just took what I was saying. I told her I would have been open to her doing what she did if she would have brought it up. I asked her if there were other times and she said there was not. Unlike Brian and 5th wheel’s rendition, she was adamant they came on to her. She volunteered it was no excuse but wanted to set the record straight. I asked her what she wanted and felt as far as our sex lives went. She gave a somewhat bloated explanation but one I appreciated nonetheless. She acknowledged she likes the lifestyle but said she is apprehensive out of not wanting it to consume our lives. She commented a lot about not wanting me to think she’s “crazy”, those are her words. But that her preference was to have steady people to play with but that she enjoyed being the female center of attention. The overwhelming majority of our limited experience is with another couple. We’ve had a couple of times where it was just myself and another couple guys and she admitted that would be her preference. She admitted she was reluctant to relay the message for fear of my response. We both finished the conversation with acknowledging the need for us to speak without the fear of being shut down. We reiterated just how much we love each other and how I cast no judgement on her desires to have multiple male partners at once. She really opened up after that and relayed some extremely kinky stuff that she both fantasized about and had experienced prior to our relationship.

I heard on the radio the other day that women when asked how many sexual partners they have had, usually say about 1/2 of the real number. I asked the Mrs about this and she said that sounds about right. I'm curious if this is the case for most women in general, and if so, why lie? Butch-

Safety is what comes to mind first. We’ve never attended a party with random people we don’t know. I think one is playing with fire if they take the risk with that. Personally I’ve never thought about it as a condom would be worn if it’s me. Most of our activity has been in relatively small groups with people we know or one on with a couple. My wife’s gone bareback with two other guys, both guys were part of a couple we knew just as much as ourselves. I’m envisioning this question to pertain to a large setting as I’ve never played and not known when another guy came as it’s pretty obvious. I think the bigger question here, and maybe part of what you’re getting at, is is there an aversion to being in contact with another man’s cum? For me in the moment I have none. I’ve followed both the guys I mentioned after they came in my wife. Personally there’s not much better of a physical or emotional feeling. Kinda off topic but since I went there. My first true test with this was on my wife’s birthday this past year. It was us, another couple, and three male friends of our group. My wife got her period just hours before everyone showed. Wanting to be a part of the festivities she put her bj skills to work being it was 5 guys and just one other woman. My wife laid back on the couch and the others finished on her face. Not wanting to cum so I could enjoy I caressed her as each did their thing. When everyone else was wrapped up I took a few lovely pictures of her and she began to give me a bj, intermittently cleaning her face with my dick. Before cumming I honored her request by making out with which was incredibly sensual. I regretted it a bit after I came but I shook it off and would be willing to give her oral after another guy would finish in her.

24fun, I didn't say don't do it, I said you should consider the ramifications. Fair, enough AdamGun. Perhaps had your comment been worded that way, I would have refrained from commenting at all. Peace to you.

One of the most important things for me is the connection the other couple has with each other. If they are not a loving couple, it won't work for me. Although looks certainly do matter, if a man has a good personality and can make me laugh, I'm good to go.

My wife is very popular in the swinging and vanilla world. She is pretty and 4’10.” We have decelerated our swinging activities since the pandemic. Yesterday, we were at a totally vanilla pickleball exhibition. I was sitting down and my wife was leaning over the fence, totally conservatively dressed. One of the pros playing said something flirtatious to her. Colt .45, works every time.

you actually are not far off the mark. Through unearthed sites, artifacts found, tools, artwork, lore, soil analysis, ice analysis, tree growth, early written history not necessarily written by the peoples being studied but of those that encountered them. Now we also can accurately analyze to age what we found and through DNA, “Rather than envisioning human evolution as a tree—with a single stem that splits into disconnected branches—the researchers describe ancestral human populations as intertwining stems, writes Nature News’ Jude Coleman. All humans share relatively recent common ancestry, but the story in the deeper past is more complicated than our species evolving in just a single location or in isolation” “For the new study, the researchers looked at genomic data from living humans, which included people from various groups: the Mende in Sierra Leone, the Nama in South Africa and the Amhara, Oromo and Gumuz groups in Ethiopia, according to Reuters. They also examined DNA from living Europeans and from the remains of a Neanderthal” Pair bonding, via DNA analysis proves that different human beings, tribes/clans, all Hunter gatherers that also started agricultural societies moved to but not exclusively pair bonded. Polyagamy/polyandry was practiced as in todays society and has been in and out of practice, although a minority through out most “societies” through out time, it’s in the DNA. Unlike Neanderthal which is found in our DNA so some interbreeding obviously happened but that cultural group never advanced as others that many say through interbreeding more exclusively within themselves, no pair bonding lead to their lineage dieing off. Makes some sense. But again in theory why not the same for others even though pair-bonding appeared to be practiced within the small tribes/clans there would be limitations eventually so how did it work? A mix makes the most sense. Travelers, male travelers/visitors shared/mating/breeding with, celebrations/spiritual ceremonies, the sending of young females to live/bond with another tribe/clan (some males but not normally) Women Retain DNA From Every Man They Have Sex With Don Patrick December 22, 2023 “Results of a new study by the University of Seattle and the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Centersuggest that women retain and carry the living DNA from every man with whom they have had sexual intercourse with. For some, that’s a lot of DNA. This startling information was discovered unintentionally whilst researchers were attempting to determine if women who had been pregnant with a son might be more predisposed to specific neurological diseases. The study took a turn when researchers began to realize the complexity of the female brain.” “Microchimerism is the presence of a small number of cells in an individual that have originated from another individual and are therefore genetically distinct.” these cells, DNA, retained in the woman was not from the father at conception. Also was still present in women who had no pregnancy, brother/twin born or unborn. Leaving the last possibility retainment within her from male/males semen. So now the interesting part…..as a result of all this (sifted down, there is a lot to all this) is that by testing for DNA lineage and comparison. By doing this if monogamy was embodied/primitive absolute within us the DNA would provide proof. “What is the difference between a paternal line and a maternal line? That is, if you were researching only your maternal line, you would be looking for information on your mother, her mother (your maternal grandmother), her mother (your maternal great-grandmother), and so on. If you were researching only your paternal line, it would be your father, his father, his father, and so forth.” Even accounting for mate loss, second or third cousin pairing, more woman born/survive than men etc. women spread their DNA (maternal) further than men. The end result is women had more children/DNA from other than their paired male mate than the males did via additional females. In the end, in the beginning, for thousands of years male and females did pair bond, choosing to rather than instinctually, and the females, with some level of regularity bred with alternative males, often outside of their family group/clan/tribe/village. It’s in the DNA. The tree of life is not a trunk, with mighty limbs with many branches and twigs. But more than several root clusters, many merging and mingling together to create a joined multi trunk tree that split in many directions with multiple intertwined limbs, branches and twigs. We are, although different in language and culture actually quite the same. The above is very simplistic there is a large amount of specifics and content I left out to keep this as short as possible…..but it is all out there.

You don't have to be sorry that you can also get romantic aspects from a gangbang. I think they definitely exist, even if I haven't been able to get anything out of such a situation so far. For me so far it was just an unromantic, mass-fucking of a woman but I think there are a lot more feelings beyond that, especially for the couple whose wife she is. Gangbang with a single woman certainly has its lovers, but for a married woman it is so much more than just a hustle and bustle of men getting off on her. It can strengthen the marriage incredibly and provide a new, much more intimate source of love for the couple, from which both can draw on their love long after, especially if she experiences the gangbang completely bareback. 3 years ago we were in a club here in Germany that also organizes such gangbang evenings as a closed event in which couples and single men take part (this number is limited) and the wives can get really fucked by the selected men and also enjoy their desire for a lot of sperm, because cum inside is not only allowed but also expressly desired. Neither of us had seen or watched anything like that before. My wife could certainly describe her feelings about this better and comment on it here maybe later. Despite the unromantic nature, it was somehow very exciting to see this happy wife and how one after the other of the 15 men fucked her harder or softer and they always squirted inside her. Of course they also loved to kiss her, which makes the whole thing very sensual. I saw my wife for the first time standing with me and with her hand between her legs while watching. 😊 What it makes so super romantic is that the husband kissed her passionately after all the men. She looked very exhausted and happy afterwards and their love bond between the two benefited greatly from it.

Hi everyone, I'm new here, and never experienced swinging. I really want to try it out though, so that my wife could have sex with 3 or 4 men at once. I would like to go into her after other guys deposit their cum inside her. I don't want them to wear condoms! Reading through the posts here, I want to try to be the sloppy second, or even third, or fourth... The question is, if she does not want to take pills to avoid pregnancy, what would you guys do, if you face the situation where she got pregnant? I'm sorry if there are other posts like this one, but I would really like to know

I was older, more world wise when I met and married that girl. I sometimes think about the men who are, in retrospect, grateful to have known Daniela and wished that they had married her. As I have said, better to have a wife that wants more sex than you can give her than one that wants little or no sex at all.

We’ve each had a couple. Nothing earth shattering but different. Our couple we did most of our playing with got very comfortable. The guy was very much into receiving anal play and his female half was not into his fantasies. Not so coincidentally I had always rejected my wife’s attempts to play with my ass. The extent was her licking or rarely shoving a finger in me. It started off with my wife fingering him while giving a bj. Then it just turned into random fingering. It all culminated with my wife pegging him when we’d get together. On the other side of the aisle I have a pretty steady foot appreciation for women. It’s not an obsession but it’s a healthy appreciation. The male half is a bit ocd and steered clear of her feet, or at least the extent at which she appreciated it as well. Our feet was one of many things we clicked on and filled each others need for. Examples are she would wear a pair of pumps for hours and she’d have me lick and suck her toes. Even got to where she have me “clean” the inside of the pump with my mouth. One time she had a pretty flexible flat and had me climax inside shoe.

We don’t have a lot of experience but there hasn’t been a time where we didn’t partake in dp. Each time it’s been a mess in one way or another but we enjoy it. Our first time my wife was on top of me on the couch in I was in her pussy. She wrapped herself around me for the angle to get in her ass. I was already having to hold back not to climax. Once he got in the friction from him moving inside her made me climax about 3 pumps in. Tried to switch it up the next time and I’m just not long enough to make it work ☹️. The most success we’ve had is her riding the other guy reverse cowboy anal and me getting on top of her as she faces me. She’s a retired gymnast who’s very flexible fortunately. Tried it with another woman and it was a no go.

😆Yeah BS meter pegging 9.5 on that one, NC_Seniors! Have patience; there are very good single males out there in the lifestyle. You might need to a bit of filtering and sifting, but I'm sure you'll find a good one and your wife will be very, very happy :)

I used to feel that we wouldn't play with someone if they were cheating on their spouse. That was 20 years ago and another wife. Today, my thoughts about that have changed, and my wife feels the same way. We are not going to police anyone else's relationship, and we are not going to fault someone for looking for sex outside their marriage is their sexual needs are not being met within the marriage. When two people become monogamous they are making a pact to each other that they will meet all their partner's sexual needs (within reason) because they have agreed to not fuck anyone else. No one person should be able to unilaterally decide sexual frequency, activities, etc. But that happens often in long term relationships and may relationships move toward being more companionship than romantic. I think that this is where a couple needs to be honest with each other and if one partner is unwilling to meet their partner's sexual needs, they should allow them to seek satisfaction outside the marriage. But that doesn't often happen, if at all, and that's a diffrent post. And sometimes, when a relationship is good other than the sex, getting some elsewhere keeps them from going crazy and being resentful of their partner and keeps them together (which is why maybe they should be openly allowed to seek sex elsewhere. Again, another post.) Currently we are playing with an old friend of mine that is married and he and his wife are open. In fact I met them in the Lifestyle 20 years ago this year and my ex-wife and I played with them often. These days they are still married and still open, but he gets off on her playing by herself and loves to hear about her playtime with others (he's a bit of a cuck), and she has had a regular fuckbuddy for several years. She however does not like to hear about his extracurricular activities, so she is open with him, but prefers a DADT relationship regarding his adventures. The problem with playing with cheating men or women, or people with DADT situations, is that they are married and have responsibilities to their family, which means their playtime will be severely limited and may not always match with when you're available. For instance, our fuckbuddy is only available during the day when his wife is at work. Daytime is also our "money hours". My wife and I are self-employed, but when you're self-employed you wake up every morning unemployed. So we can make time for him, but it does take away from money making activities. He's salaried and works remotely, so he is making money while we are fucking. We aren't. We also watch a grandkid several days a week to help our daughter save money on daycare. So all this creates scheduling issues. They may also not be able to make a playdate if something comes up with their spouse and you'll get stood up. Throughout the decades that I've been in and out of the Lifestyle I've found this to without exception to be the case. You are going to be stood up, and stood up often by cheating spouses and people with DADT situations. If you're okay with that, then I say: Game On.

I consider myself very, very fortunate that I've gotten to experience watching my wife with two men. Absolutely thrilling!

It is a totally different and wonderful experience to watch one's wife in an MFM where you are not one of the M's. It's also different, at least to me, whether I'm watching my wife taking on two other men, while I am sexually engaged with another woman or simply watching. It determines the expectation by both of us whether I'll be jumping right into her afterwards or not.

We met many guys for investigating MFMs. Of course, some of them were married. We got pretty good at figuring out if they were lying about their wives. When they told us their wife was cool with it and we decided to meet for a drink, after a bit we'd ask when they got married - month and year was good enough for our purposes. Then, a bit later in the meet if there was sufficient interest on our part, we'd ask the guy to call his wife to give us permission. And when we got her, we'd ask when they got married. Needless to say, over half the guys told us they wouldn't call, forgoing any chance with us. Yes, one guy gave us the wrong month and year. Was he a fake who had a friend pretending to be his wife? We'll never know. We did find that guys who were no longer sleeping with their wives (or very rarely,) were usually above average in the sack. So there's that . . .

There are plenty of posts looking for unicorns which hardly ever end with that elusive find. If you are honest with your wants in your search and stay patient you will find the couple that meets your wants. Be prepared to go to the next step after meeting.

My wife had a girlfriend years ago that she would secretly fool around with, even though she was dating a guy at the time in her early 20s. She told me she would love to meet another woman or possibly join an all girl orgy. She only got to second base years ago with her secret friend but would love to take it all the way now with another woman, in every way possible. She wants me to watch and not participate until they are finished with everything. She's in her early 50s and is very beautiful, constantly getting looks from men and women everywhere we go. She's not interested in nudist resorts because she doesn't want the men creeping around just for a peek, or think they are going to get anything from her. She's very satisfied with me, loves cock, and wants to explore another woman or a few women at one time. Where or how would be a good way to meet a woman who would get together with her for sex?

My marriage started as a threesome; I brought my boyfriend (ex-fiancé) along with me. The love and the sex were wonderful, but it was a challenge keeping them satisfied, but I never failed to respond positively to any hint that either one (or both together) of them wanted it. Women have it easily that way. And I never regretted having made love or letting either of my men just "use" me. It wasn't that I needed help sexually that led me to set up my husband with other women, it was the thrill of knowing, watching, participating with in him and another woman.

I find these "how we met" marriage stories romantic. How it should be - love blossoming obviously without sexual jealousy.

We once thought that, but we're both in our 50s now and see no sign of slowing down - quite the opposite in fact!

I didn't consider it swinging at the time but looking back, it was cuckolding. In the late 70's my brother told me about this bar in our college town, it was known for older married women that would pick up college men for sex. Sure enough I would start dancing with the older women and eventually go to a hotel or their home. Many times their husbands would watch and either jerk off or go for sloppy seconds. The first time that my ex wife and me swapped was with her maid of honor and her boyfriend. Me and the ex was having sex in front of them and they joined in.

mim — Note that I said “could have” … not “would have”. ;-D Like you, we had our priorities. Although to be totally honest, the idea of swinging didn’t really occur to us until several years after the kids were all gone. Like many males, I had told my wife in bed — more than once — how exciting it would be to see her with somebody else, but we never actually considered acting on it until our 60s. Maybe one of these days, I’ll recount the story of how that discussion came about.

The best time to start is when she wants to start. Starting before marriage gives you an idea of what your future together will be.

At my 40th birthday party, a woman bet any man at the party that she could piss higher up on a wall of my garage than any man. So 3 of the guys bet her each $20.00 the only rule was the men couldn't touch their cock and she couldn't touch her pussy and they all had to stand 4 feet away from the wall. So the men maybe pissed 6 inches on the wall. The woman took her Jean's and panties off, turned around with her butt facing the wall, she got down on all 4's with her head lowered to the ground, and reached back to spread the cheeks of her ass, and pissed 3 foot up on the wall. She put her clothes back on , took her winnings and one of the wives asked her where she learned to do that and she said " the Air Force" !

Sabrina and I hosted house parties for almost two years. We had regular "couples " parties, BBC (usually 2 - 3 BBC for each woman) parties, and it is All About the Cock parties (usually about 4-5 men to each woman) they were fantastic. We felt gang bang held negative connotations as well. It was amazing the variety od women and men who would attend.

The nature of the other couples relationship is what initially attracts us. Are they in love? Are they committed to one another, do they touch, and look each other in the eyes? Do they have their act together (from a swinging perspective)? This is fundamental for us.

Personalities is number one. Then physical attraction. The better the personality, the more we can accept some degree of unattractiveness. But some people are not doable due to lack of attractiveness. Blunt but true. .

Lynda Gayle was a wonderful soul. She was warm, kind and generous of heart. My friendship with her proved an avenue of growth for me in the erotic realm. My life is decidedly richer and for that I’m grateful. I miss Lynda Gayle and think of her often.

People raise stepchildren, have artificial insemination, adopt. I see nothing wrong with this approach. You love your daughter and that's all that matters.

Interesting how this is often a conclusion to spouses/partners having sex with other people - reclaiming and closer bonding. Done right, being nonmonogamous is good for a marriage. (Sorry for turning a gangbang into something romantic.)

I have a couple I go bareback with. He is into cleanup and she loves cum. But it took a long time with planning, STD checks, and everyone being on good terms. Respect is everything in the lifestyle

Very mature of both of you. People will always make mistakes in all aspects of life, no need to make it high drama.

I enjoy watching my wife service other men, always have. When we first started we agreed condoms were a must. But over time, we became lax. I won’t say that this is a weekly occurrence for us. However she’s ganged maybe 5-6 times a year. We have one group she’s known for a while and trusted. The rest we sort of see where the vibe takes us. She’s 52 and I still love it as much , if not more, than when she was younger

My husband loves seeing me giving and receiving pleasure, we also enjoy lots of dirty talking, I love to perform for him and put on a good show for everybody involved. I guess he enjoys seeing me having sex because he is a man with no insecurities that really likes my body and loves me very deeply and wants me to have all the fun I can get in this world. He always tells me I am his favourite porn star 😈

First gangbang was kind of a weekend experience rather than just one time gangbang session. It was hot, awkward, weird, exciting, fun, annoying, pleasurable, and a little painful for her. We've done it like this a couple more times as it's really fun but the first time was just too long. By the end of the last day both her holes and her throat were too sore. My GF can take A LOT of sex but that was the only time I think I've ever seen her hit her limit.

Agreed. Just watching is even more erotic. I seldom noticd the wives/Gfs of the men even in the same area and in some cases when they are they are very supportive of the lady. My wife kind of "fell into" one and I noticed the different techniques of the guys. All were great.

Here's the thing: there is a lot more at play than whether folks use condoms or not--or whether they have sex with more than one person at a time or not. . Porn actors do stuff a lot like gang bangs with folks they barely know-and have a low rate of STD's because they exchange test results no more than 30 days old for HIV, chlamydia and gonorrhea and their rate of STD's is 80% less than that of the general population in LA. Non-drug using prostitutes in Canada have a lower rate of HIV than the general population. They generally have a lot of partners-but it isn't clear just how often they use condoms (one study in Chicago claimed prostitutes their used condoms less than 30% of the time). Clearly there are populations with multiple partners that are relatively free of HIV risk. Gay men that used condoms consistently reduced their risk per year of getting HIV only by 57% compared to gay men that didn't use them at all. That 57% is something in the way of risk reduction-but not nearly as enough to be really "safe" in my book. Even if someone is monogamous, if they picked that partner from a high risk pool, they are at risk. Rape and Intimate partner violence BTW actually appear to be independent risk factors for HIV-they make it far more likely someone will get HIV per contact than other forms of encounters. Picking up partners in bars is risky. Why? Because heavy drinkers are more at risk of HIV than the general population-so picking partners at bars is picking from a higher risk pool-and booze may also lower your ability to ward off an HIV infection if you do get exposed. That said, I think a gang bang with strangers that are tested free of drugs, non-smokers, and free of HIV and other STD's is probably safer per encounter than a "monogamous" relationship in certain zip codes in the US.

Years ago, at a club, I had sex with four different guys, one after the other. I've got to say, after four, I was tired and sore but, I did have a smile on my face (that my husband teased me about the smile lasting too long).

I would imagine so if she had cum in her. Who she played with would be the question. And are you talking about another woman or my wife? Never have asked that of someone. I would hope she would if she had played bareback, just out of respect for me. I'd probably joke it off, put on a condom and have sex with her anyway. I wouldn't if it wasn't someone I knew, meaning my wife and a guy we trusted. We have played bareback on two occasions with couples we know really, really well and trust explicitly. I have never had any qualms about going down on Mrs. WS after I've cum in her, so I was not turned-off on going down on Mrs. WS or screwing her after the other husband had cum in her. It really doesn't bother me. What would is if it was like you said, at a party, with someone who isn't my partner, and it was just some guy that came in her. Mr. WS

I feel the same way. Bunny, when you said your wife wasn't on pill at that time, and you heard that her boyfriend refused to use condoms, you have taken into account the possibility of her getting pregnant with her boyfriend's child as well. Despite all that, you still allowed her to have sex with him. and for that, I think it is honourable to be able to let your wife experience sex with other guys, allowing her to be pleasured by others, and also to raise and love the child she has in the process. I'm not sure if there's a lot of others like you, but I share the same view, believing that love and sex are 2 different things. She can have sex with anyone she likes, and I would still love her. I love her so much that I don't mind if she gets pregnant with other guy's offspring. BECAUSE the mother of that child is my wife.

A father is the man who raises a child, not the man who impregnates a woman.

My wife doesn't like to use the pill either. For some women artificial hormones screw too much with their moods. You can look at the natural methods of birth control (periodic abstinence — fertility awareness-based methods) I posted, but of course, the woman is usually most sexually excited when she is ovulating. Another option is to find men who have had a vasectomy and are not longer fertile. Or that your wife gets her tubes tied, etc. I can understand the fantasy. For some women, sperm is like a reward, and feeling it inside them really turns them on. My wife gets very hot when we have sex and there is a risk of pregnancy. But i don't think I'd do that with a stranger. Anyway, is it the risk of pregnancy which turns her on, or the feeling of men cumming inside her. If it is the latter, then there are options you can explore (see the link). You've got to deal with the consequences, so, if that is the fantasy you should have a good think about your options and the consequences before hand.

You're going to need some birth control, somehow. taking chances like that would be not only risky to yourselves, but also to your partners. If you didn't tell them she had no birth control, then it would be rather deceptive. There are plenty of other birth control options, e.g, diaphram, sponge, etc, which are relatively effective. of course, none are going to prevent the spread of disease, so you'd need to choose your partners carefully. Here is a pretty comprehensive list : https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control Sometimes, a fantasy is best left a fantasy. If you're making it a reality, make sure you check the consequences REALLY CAREFULLY before you leap over the edge. If she got pregnant, would you both(!) be comfortable with an abortion, or alternatively, fathering a child who is not your own?