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We just recently had our 3rd experience in the lifestyle. Totally unplanned, but a friend of ours is a designer, and she came over to help us with our remodel. She noticed my wife's anklet, and made a comment, and things just kinda happened. This woman is single, and part of a large friend group we have. The funny thing is, she is very reserved, often judging our other single friends for being "too loose," or making poor choices for who to date. She just always seems so prim and proper, but in the bedroom she was kinda craven - "Fuck me in the ass. Fuck me in the ass. Oh God please fuck me in the ass!" or as we were just wrapping up the afternoon, she had me cum in her panties so she could wear them home. We saw her the next day at the superbowl party, and while she wasn't indiscreet, she made a few comments that made us uncomfortable - pointing out my wife's nipples through her shirt, and whispering to me that she still had the same panties on. We realize now it was probably a mistake to fool around with her, and we're planning on having a talk with her to ensure our privacy. But that brought about a larger question for us: How do you handle swinging with friends? We're not ashamed or anything like that about our newfound interest in the lifestyle, but at the same time we don't want the world to know. Does anyone else know you are swingers? There are a few in our friend group we've had fantasies about, but it seems like that is a bad idea. Would love to hear others' experiences.

The best child , in this context, is the one who survives.

When a second woman is involved in a love game between a man and a woman, it is very endearing, especially for the two lovers, when she alternately can give him and her some love and joy with her mouth. She can lovingly take him into her mouth as he slides out of her pussy and maybe help him to put him back inside her again. It's very nice when, after he has pleased the one woman, he also please the other one, so both women got the gift of his love.

I love it when these old threads come back around.

Sorry to hear things didn't pan out for the long term @BiloxiBiMaleMMF it sounds like it could have been a wonderful regular thing. @Starting late we have learned that while discretion is expected by most ppl in the LS it shouldn't be assumed. We're discreet. Most swingers are. Yet some don't seem to care one bit who knows, so it's one of the points we always discuss in advance at meetups.

It's ironic to me that your "uncomfortable" moment happened with another woman. Not quite a Glenn Close encounter (ala "Fatal Attraction") butt nevertheless surprising. Usually, it seems to me, it's we single men that are singled out as not worth the risk. However, in my limited experience (using a SB "sponsor" site), I was selected bi a couple for my "bisexuality" but they wanted "proof" of my appearance first. So I met the hubby in his "man cave" (Corvette garage, with a gas pump, etc) and we got naked so the wife "could see me naked." We masturbated as hubby asked me to discuss what was on the menu should his wife agree to include me. "What would she like?" I asked. Her list of desires was quite specific and "sequential" such that if I did this and that MM, then we'd proceed further with MMF bisex. I was happy with the MM list and the MMF desires as well, IF she'd be naked and watch us MM. It turned out the wife "knew me" from work (revealed bi hubby at the end of my nude interview) and when asked if that concerned me, I replied, "not at all." It was clear to me that they wanted me to be discreet and I think "there is a code of conduct" that requires mutual discretion. When we met, it turned out that I "knew her" as well, as she asked me, "you still want to do this?" My reaction was a BIG SMILE as I said "yes! Let me get naked and give you a hug." Like many women, she was concerned with her weight and fearful that I might walk out once I knew it was her. IMHO, one's ATTITUDE and DESIRES far, FAR outweigh "physical appearance." So we did EVERYTHING hubby had said they wanted to see and do. It really was a VERY DELIGHTFUL bisexual MMF experience. She had never had her pussy licked bi another man as her hubby fucked her NOR had her hubby licked her pussy with another man's cock in her pussy. He and I gave her that experience more than just once! IT WAS THE HIGHLIGHT of the threesome to "tag team her" the way we did AND to let her experience the joy of sucking a man's cock hard again for some additional fucking. She was BEAMING with joy at the attention we paid to her. The "fly in the ointment" came when I did NOT call her at work and tell her how much fun it was to have a bisexual 3some with her and her husband (even though it had been REQUESTED and DISCUSSED that such a conversation should "NOT be mentioned at work!" Thus, it was (IMHO) her insecurity (?) that hubby told me later "she doesn't want to play again" when that was all we could all three agree we were each eager to do it ALL again and AGAIN "at least once a month." Perhaps, more experienced SB members will "shoot me down" on this opinion and I do confess, it sill confuses me "what I did wrong." The very last words I said before leaving them was how much FUN we had had and how eager I was to "do it ALL" over "again and again." She was SMILING when I left; hugged and kissed me and even commented about how much fun it was for her to share sucking hubby's cock with me AND feeling both our tongues on her pussy. Why it was "so good" at the scene (they chose a Friday afternoon) and so terrible the next Tue when hubby called me to say his wife was disappointed that I did not call her at work on Monday to say again how much fun we had? YCMTSU .....

I don't know how to put it but bareback is just a special way to have sex with each other. For some, it is now just a fetish that you can do without. It is a Lot more. Actually the most natural and beautiful way to have sex with one another. It certainly depends on what you want from sex. If you only aim for orgasm on both sides, you certainly don't need the semen. For us, orgasm would not be enough of a goal. We are also very concerned about the mental aspect and the bond for our relationship. She likes the feel of more depth and dedication, even if he is somewhat of a stranger. And every time we have bareback sex with someone, there is this very special bond with each other through the sperm that we don't want to miss.

I love going down on the Mrs after she has a nice big creampie in her!!!

You did right by injecting afterwards.

I didn't have any problem with it at all. I didn't mean to come off as taking offense. We started with the first and I was fine with that (Daniela gives me all the sex I want), but then moved to the second at Daniela's urging. That's us, I encouraged her not because it turned me on, but to make her happy. She started with exes that she liked, it was kind of "so what" to me, she fucked them before.

My wife and I had very good communication from the start. We usually always make our choice together. As a Christian couple we both have a natural love for the special beauty and naturalness of bareback sex as it is intended. Her choice of partners is always exzellent and a gift to our relationship that strengthens and promotes it and that is why, of course, she always has the green light from me. Your wife's consideration in the choice is great and very respectful towards you. This is how your relationship can thrive and grow.

Am I to assume from this statement that if you disapproved she would proceed anyway? OR That, in the particular, she makes the choice because she is already assured that you are okay with what she chooses? My wife has an permanent and plenary Green Light from me. She still checks if something, or someone new enters the picture. She is considerate that way, but it is unnecessary and she knows it.

She usually has sex in a club with a condom. But sometimes it happens that it is simply forgotten or is the most beautiful in the situation without it. I remember a very soft loving situation where we met a nice man who was about 20 years older than my wife. He had recently lost his wife and was looking for some distraction. She was very sorry. We drank some champagne together and went into a private room with him. At her request, he Made love to her bareback with a big lust for her and they kissed and fucked each other lovingly until he cummed nicely inside her. This was the sweet moment for a big smile on her face because she always enjoys a nice insemination very much. She alone decides how she likes it, whether with or without.

That's great to hear. Living life your own way. I admire you.

I stumbled into swinging with other couples by complete accident when I was in my early 20's. I got 'picked' by a swinging wife I met at a bar and she seduced me. ( At the time I just thought I was lucky meeting a sexy older woman...) Once I realised what was happening I was very happy about it and did not mind I had been 'Used' But after that I found it 'easy' to notice the hints and winks from other people. Also I was 'recommended' by couples to other couples as a genuine reliable single guy. 🙂

Swinging is natural once people get rid of societal constraints.

About 10 years ago we swapped with friends one time before we were married. We didn't even know about swinging. Six years ago my wife secret.y set up a swinging date with friends,I didn't even know that she was interested.everything went great and since we have had over 50 encounters. Each time got better as we gained experience. Last week we were swinging with a new couple, they will be visiting us again this week. We'll be teaching them. Swinging is fun. No experience necessary.

Her clit. When I'm on the bottom doing 69 with her and he's in her, I like him occasionally pulling out of her and putting in my mouth. After they finish, I'll turn over and go after them individually on my knees. But yeah, I like to go into their slop.

I love 69! Which one do you give the most attention, the testicles or the vagina and do you like the bottom so you can clean up both after he ejaculates?

The results are in. Clair and Lora both say that I do a better job with my lips and tongue solo, but they do like the visual of me being taken while getting it. Oftentimes I and the guy in me will finish first, before the girl I'm licking has had enough. Also brought up: us women 69ing while one of the guys is in her vag. I like being underneath in close proximity to his tesicles. Yeah, FFM is my favorite.

Good question. I don't know but think that I do a more conscientious job giving oral when I'm not getting my own pleasure and trying to orgasm. I'll ask and get back to you. The point is, however, that watching them being affectionate and then me being treated like an object can be thrilling.

Do you feel that you give better oral while you are being fucked like an animal or is it distracting and give better oral solo ?

What does it for me is watching my husband tenderly making love to another woman missionary, them kissing passionately. Afterwards, him fucking me doggy like an animal while I eat her out. Doesn't happen much lately, but still a good experience when I get it.

Mrs Doc sucks my dick without reservation after I've fucked another woman. If she indicates that she wants me to go down on her in a group situation to finish her off, I absolutely will. Couples who are confident in their relationship and secure in sexual situations tend to just get into the moment and please their partner with next to no limitations. If she's REAL sloppy, I'll tell her not to move and I'll get a warm wet wash cloth to clean her up a bit. The first time I did that, she started to cum as soon as I applied the cloth to her pussy. I think she sometimes makes her partners cum in her just so I'll clean her up like that. She says she loves the warmth and gentleness after a good boink. The best part is that clean up often starts her off on the next boink.