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Early on we met a Lesbian couple that were friends of friends. At first I thought it strange that lesbians still wanted to play with men then I thought deeper and thought why wouldn’t they. The women are married, have a great marriage from what I see and are fun to be with. At a recent house party they were the life of the party, very open about their sexuality and let it be know they were there for penis. I thought they would want to play with women too and then one in a nice way said she just wanted penis and reminded me she has pussy all the time. It wasn’t a negative comment it was funny when she joked she only wanted to borrow Rocky cocky for a half hour On our way home Rocky said that both of women were some of the most fun people we have met and I had to agree.

You need to ask why people marry, it’s because of love. Today you see many same sex marriages that look much happier than many conventional MF marriages. I asked two women just like the couple you met why they married and they gave me an answer I give when I was asked years ago, they were one soul. Most lesbians don’t hate men, they love a person that fulfills them.

Well, to quote a famous song by the Eurythmics, "Some of them want to use you. Some of them want to be used by you". There are certainly people who take pleasure in being used for other's pleasure. As long as it's her stated desire and all is consensual - have at it!

For most lifestylers, it's on a spectrum. For us though, it's nothing as extreme as "deeply in love" or "animal sex".

It can be a fine line. Without some discussion with her or observation of what she is like it leaves too much in question. I have received that request both before or as an invite to play as well as in the heat of the moment. You have to tread lightly here as each playmate could have something different in mind than another or the last time you played with them. Permission at this time is not auto-applied permission the next time. personally I will not participate in very aggressive play, pain/hitting, choking, unsanitary play anything that can be observed/defined as assault. I have, by request, after discussion with the woman/women involved or boyfriend/husband/SO/master and what is desired/wanted/desired. Those experiences have been for the most part awesome a few while still good it was obvious the male part of the couple instructed for non discussed/surprise but didn’t end badly. I have experienced a few events that didn’t really kick off/cold feet etc. Nothing disastrous. And several one on one play with married/coupled women after discussion with their husband/SO or if single/solo some boundaries discussed. In most cases it came down to wanting to be dominated/aggressive/used but not abused. A open most anything goes, take me experience.

Today's Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2024/02/14/polyamory-trend-conversation-love/

For us it is and I can appreciate the contrast.

I suspect that was exactly the reaction she wanted. There's no obligation for her to explain anything. I even know more than one woman who sent herself flowers at work to start that kind of buzz.

For my part, I would have done everything I could think of to pleasure her. Some people would take what she said as a sign that she wanted to give herself up to the person's desires. That doesn't work for me. To me, sex is a mutual thing.

I would have done the filthiest things that I could have thought of. Nothing would have been off limits!

Perhaps you can borrow a husband from one of your previous successful couples swaps for a one-off MFM.

I agree with Numex. Just be aware that finding a good single male is not unlike vanilla dating. You're probably going to find some duds before finding a good one. That's how it was for my wife and I. Be patient.

My first wife and I had a monogamous but vigorous sex life. We still had sex during and after the divorce for a while. Yes, it began when Daniela had a many lovers, both men and women before me, many more than I had despite her being much younger. It turned us both on to talk and hear about our past sexual experiences, although mine consisted of sex with the same woman for twenty years. It didn't take long for me to realize that Daniela was inherently not a one man woman, and liked sex with women as well. I wanted her to be happy, so for a while she played while I didn't. Then we started couple swapping and are now in a closed group of married couples.

For us in our poly family, we are deeply in love with more than one person, live together, share children we've made together. We also, however, on occasions have strictly instinctual animal sex with others. They are friends, but it is understood that it is only carnal pleasures.

We are not looking for love with others. It’s more of a friends with benefits goal for us.

Love is a good thing. My wife has boyfriends (I do not have girlfriends). Does love enter the picture with some of her boyfriends? Of course. It wouldn't be as good for her otherwise, and I know that if they're alone together he is treating her good because there are real feelings. Women have the capacity to love different people differently and it doesn't mean she loves me less. There is no such thing as too much love.

What came first? Friend or Fuck? Sometimes I ask Honey how do we know her or how did we meet them. We have fucked friends and friended those we fucked.

I think this may be a hot topic but... hubby and I (white) have a black friend that we enjoy MFM with. We are also currently looking for a couple locally to have fun with in and out of bed. We recently met a couple and during the evening I mentioned our MFM situation. Call me naive or whatever :rollseyes but I was completely floored by their response. They were angry with me because I had answered their "ad" which said "no interracial couples". I explained that hubby and I are not interracial (other than he's Italian and I'm English). I couldn't believe the people thought I had been tainted and that something would rub off Well anyway... that one went nowhere. So from here on in, hubby says we shouldn't mention it. I think I should... not least of all because I don't want to be involved with anyone with that kind of silly idea. What do you guys think?

We fully bisexual couple and love the oral and eating the spunk from another guy and love the feel of my cock as I slip into his ass and love him in me

My MM play is limited, but I would say one of the things I've enjoyed most is the role reversal with sexual energy. I'm a very large and muscular person (bodybuilder) with a quieter, more analytical nature and I tend to be very dominant with female sex partners and tend to put on a heck of a show. While I enjoy this dynamic greatly, with guys I've been more submissive and I'm getting hard just thinking about the role reversal. In my second male/male encounter (a very hot MMMFF) I found myself on my back with a SM pretty much straddling my face with arms pinned as he roughly fucked my mouth and told me what a good cocksucker I was--my jaw was cramping and I was doing the best I could to keep my mouth open and accept him as he pumped... fuck, I enjoyed that. I've never kissed a man or had anal penetration beyond a finger, but it is super hot to focus on handling a cock and doing your best to bring it pleasure. In some ways it's a little awkward as I'm not always sure where to put my hands on their body (it feels more natural caressing a woman) and I am not interested in making out, but the naughty and submissive portion of it is intoxicating.

I would like to be more into exhibitionist but sometimes I like to watch Tomy playing while i be a voyeur.

Guycurious, great post! I'm totally into making my male lover orgasm. I love feeling his hands on my head as I'm giving him a great blowjob, that lets me know my talents and techniques are working. But, not until I feel his cock throbbing and flooding my mouths with his hot cum!

Wow that's a good point, I hadn't thought about it that way. I'm really into cock though, so from the sexual aspect I love sucking, getting fucked, and cum. I don't mind receiving oral but I much prefer to give oral.

I swish it around, savoring the texture, flavor, heat, and most importantly taste, before gulping it down. Hearing him moaning and groaning under me as my hands grope and feel his tensing body with pending explosion coupled with hearing them BOTH telling me how much my efforts turn them on and how they love to watch me. Hearing my wife express her desire with the under tones of his grunting how he is about to blow his cum down my cum hungry throat just amps me up beyond any imagination! ??

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****WARNING: GRAPHIC IN AN EFFORT TO EXPLAIN!**** For me (the male)/us it's the 'scene' of her watching me suck him and tasting them mixed together and anticipating feeling his hard cock pulsate in my mouth as I greedily take his entire thick load into my mouth where I swish it around, savoring the texture, flavor, heat, and most importantly taste, before gulping it down. Hearing him moaning and groaning under me as my hands grope and feel his tensing body with pending explosion coupled with hearing them BOTH telling me how much my efforts turn them on and how they love to watch me. Hearing my wife express her desire with the under tones of his grunting how he is about to blow his cum down my cum hungry throat just amps me up beyond any imagination! Before anyone says one of the words of many I hate the most: CUCKOLD. I'm NOT, nor is she, into that! For "US" it's not about humiliation, forcing, or domination it's about the exploration of turning each other on while enjoying the moment, the act, the outcome, and more importantly the experience TOGETHER. Turning someone ON to the height of total ecstasy is a power, feeling, emotion that is beyond words. So in short...go enjoy cum!!!

Now this is going to sound a bit lame but, I enjoy the conversation. Of course I enjoy sucking a cock but, I think what I like most about having a buddy who I share the bisexuality with, is the great conversations. With vanilla friends there is just too much that you can't talk about. With women we all have to watch how crude we talk, right?

How are you ladies